BigMac is in surgery. Update - I'm home & calm.

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CD and BigMac

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With a heavy heart I am sitting here in the hospital waiting room as BigMac is in surgery.

Yesterday after another ultrasound and exam by a specialist, BigMac was diagnosed with adenocarcinoma. It is on his bile duct. While this is early and the mass seems to be tiny, the doctor told me it is a very aggressive type of cancer.

The surgery is to re-route the blocked bile duct to help regain the flow of bile from the liver. The bile has been backing up into his liver causing it to be enlarged and angry. Our aim is to make BigMac be more comfortable and feel better for as long as possible. They will resect whatever mass they can but I was told that the cancer will probably still be in his body and will spread as time goes on. :cry:

I have been concerned about his weight loss for several months and we've been to the vets often for lots of tests. His liver enzymes kept getting worse even after trying several medications. Finally my vet said they needed to find the answer since clearly they were missing something. BigMac's appetite and demeanor have been normal, no outward symptoms except the weight loss which was getting alarming.

My vet said that the only thing left was exploratory surgery. Before we did that we were referred to this specialist and hospital. We got an appointment quickly and after the evaluation yesterday they wanted to do surgery right away to give BigMac as much time as possible and help him feel better. And avoid the sickness that was coming when his bile duct became 100% blocked.

Poor BigMac thought he was doing ok. He gets so horribly stressed at the vet that his heart rate skyrockets. (I used to have a vet that did house calls for this very reason.) They let me keep him at home last night instead of their usual pre-op requirement of an overnight stay.

He won't be able to come home for several days and will have a stomach(?) feeding tube, but I'm going to stay here until he is resting comfortably.

So now I wait.
 
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Healing vines to BigMac and hugs to you CD!!! Keep us posted. I hope they find what is causing all of it and he is good as new.
 
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(((((((((((((Carolyn and BigMac)))))))))))))))) My heart is in my throat and I'm wishing with my heart and soul he comes through this okay. I would be sick with worry and anxiety if this were Maverick. I always stressed about him stressing about the vets too. You caught it early. Every day you have with him is a gift to treasure.

Is he getting a neck ETUBE or a stomach PEG Tube? If he's getting either - please join the Yahoo Feline Assisted Feeding group to read up. If its a PEG tube you really need to join and get help and give the group updates. Maverick had a PEG tube with complications. He needed a second major surgery at day 10 because he pulled it out before the stoma formed. We'll give you lots of tips and hand holding. He won't be able to be fed via a PEG tube for at least a day.

I really wish I could be there for you and give you a real hug. Big Mac is in great hands and he's going to pull through this. When Maverick had his surgery in 2008, I just wanted even a day or two more with him. It would have made it worth it. I got 2.5 wonderful years but would have been grateful for just a short time.
 
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Dear (((((CD and BigMac)))))

We are there with you; Rusty has gathered snowflakes and lots of healing vines and brought them to the waiting room. We want so much for everything to be OK with BigMac. We are wishing mightily, thinking positively, and offering prayers for his successful surgery and a good outcome.

:YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

Ella & Rusty
 
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(((((CD))))) (((((BigMac)))))

I am sending a blizzard of snowflakes and healing white light to you and BigMac for a successful surgery and a quick recovery. I am praying that he will be comfortable and home with you as soon as possible.

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Oh Carolyn! You and Big Mac are such a central part of the LL family. We are sending vines, white light and a blizzard of snowflakes for Big Mac. For you all the love and cyber hugs we can gather. LL is a powerful place and the positive energy flowing from us will not stop.

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Dear ((((Carolyn and BigMac)))). I am sending up lots of prayers for a good surgery and quick recovery for BigMac.
Also sending prayers for your heart and peace of mind.
I know how scared you must be, but we're thinking only positive thoughts.
Great big cyber hugs, Carolyn
 
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I'm so sorry (((Carloyn))) this is not the news any bean wants to receive. Sending vines for BigMac's rapid recovery from surgery and hoping against hope that the cancer hasn't spread.
 
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Blessings to you. I teared up reading this. I'll be thinking of you both today.
 
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(((CD and BigMac))) We will be holding you and BigMac in our thoughts and prayers today. He's in good hands, and you were right on top of things.
 
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(((((Carolyn)))))

I'm so, so sorry to see this. I hope the surgery goes smoothly, I wish I could do something to make the waiting easier.....

You are doing all you can, and you have been right along. You are a good bean and BigMac knows that you love him.

You know I'm not eloquent, I just wish I could do something....you do so much for all of us.

:sad:

I'm keeping you and BigMac in my thoughts and prayers, and sending acres of healing vines. Please update us when you can. :YMHUG:
 
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oh carolyn, yesterday in Loose Lips you said something about needing your spirits raised and i wondered then . . . i'm so glad you opened a condo so we can keep you company while you wait. we're with you in spirit, sitting right there. can i get a cup of coffee or tea, or my personal favorite, a can of diet dr pepper for you?

sending many "be strong" vibes to Big Mac. he's a special guy - of course you want as much time with him as possible. on the bright side, several people here have dealt with cats with cancer and it seems that they tolerate chemo much better than other species.

waiting for good news. :YMHUG:
 
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Oh Carolyn, I'm so sorry to hear this. Muffin and I are definitely there waiting with you in spirit, and praying for good news. Huge cyber hugs to you both.
 
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{{{{{Carolyn & Big Mac}}}}
We are so sorry to read your news and wish we could make it all go away! We are sending heaps and heaps of healing snowflakes to Big Mac and comforting hugs to you. We will be following your condo and keep you company in this new twist to your journey.
 
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Carolyn...you and Big Mac are in my thoughts and prayers today. Sending healing vines and healing thoughts :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
 
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Sending Snowflakes and Healing White Light to BigMac.
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And Big Ole Hugs to you, Carolyn.
 
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Thank you everyone. Oh my, I start to tear up every time I read your kind thoughts.

BigMac has been in surgery for an hour and a half so far. No news yet.

Thank you Julie, I am drinking that Dr. Pepper you sent. :lol:

I do feel all the hugs and snowflakes... That explains why my toes are freezing. :o
 
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((((((Big Mac)))))) (((((((Carolyn)))))) I'll send all my best healing vines and best wishes for Big Mac's speedy recovery, get better soon Big Mac. :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
 
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((((Carolyn)))) I am just seeing this now. My prayers are with BigMac for a speedy recovery and many more years with you.

Pattie
 
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Holding you and the incredible BigMac in my heart.

MJ & Donovan's & Butthead's spirits...
 
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Dearest Carolyn and Legendary BigMac-

Binks chivvied me out of bed early this morning during a snowstorm- and he and the girls were immediately begging to go outside.
When I questioned them, they told me that all of LL was gathering bouquets and all the snowflakes available to sit vigil with you and your wonderful boy.
I know you can feel us all there in spirit, as a great outpouring of love surrounds you during this difficult time.

May all the love, generosity, healing and support you have given all of us so selflessly be returned to you a thousandfold now.

Sending so very much love to you and the Big Fella-

Celi, Binks, Annie, and Smudge

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((((((CD and BigMac))))))

You and BigMac are in my thoughts and prayers. We all will be waiting an update.

Come on BigMac...all the kitties here are pulling for ya big guy! ~ curry



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We'll be waiting with you also Carolyn. I'm so hoping it hasn't spread and Big Mac will come through this ordeal with the very best results.

HUGS,
Melanie & Racci
 
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Still waiting. Three and a half hours in surgery now.
(I've been here 6.5 hours.)

Love the Dr. Pepper, Julie! Hahaha!
I do appreciate all the hugs, it makes me feel less alone.
I just heard a kitty meowing and it is breaking my heart. I know it wasn't BigMac but it still got to me.

Here he is just before the tech took him away. He clearly wanted out of that box. But I'm sure once they got him in the back - he wouldn't get out for anything!

 
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hoping to hear good news soon. What a long day for you both, sounds like the Dr. is doing a good job at working on him and searching long and hard to find all the 'bits' he can take out.
 
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Oh ((Carolyn)), so sorry to read this news. :sad: Bailey and I are sending prayers, vines and snowflakes for BigMac's recovery. The waiting is terrible. :sad: I hope they are able to get the cancer. Oh, those big eyes in the pic you posted!! We are waiting with you.
 
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(((Carolyn))), I'm thinking of you and sending comfort vines to you and healing vines to BigMac.
 
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While we wait, a carrier story for you.

Once took Binks and Homie(GA) to the vet in the same carrier.

In the exam room, neither was willing to make an exit.
To my utter shock, the vet tech picked up the carrier, aimed the open door toward the floor, and shook it vigorously :shock:
Binks tumbled out immediately, but not Homie.

When I grabbed the carrier away from this idiot, I looked in, and there was the Homester,
claws spread and braced against the side of the carrier like a hairy little Bruce Willis! :lol:

BTW...that was that vet tech's last day at work :twisted:

Love still coming your way in waves, lady.
 
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Sending healing vines, snowflakes and prayers to Big Mac for a successful surgery and a quick and complete recovery. I know how stressed out you must be, so comforting vines and prayers for you. ((((Carolyn))))
 
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Celi! :lol: :lol: :lol:
I used to have to dismantle the carrier to get BigMac out. But I've learned to keep a cushion in the carrier and drag it, and him, out at the same time.

Still here... 4.5 hours in surgery.
Starting to worry now.

Here is my view for the past 7.5 hours. I do get up and walk outside every so often.



And here is where I'm (attempting) to work on some OTJ videos. It has helped to keep me busy. But now I can't concentrate any more.

 
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I've been trying like heck to find things to distract you...
but sending this instead...

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This is the necklace I want to have custom made:

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I wish I were only half as courageous as my furry family. Except Henry. He's scared of his own shadow.
 
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:sad: not yet.
About 10 minutes ago the Tech did say they were getting close. But this is extremely upsetting- 5 hours? It just seems like too much, way too long. I'm so worried about recovery, as in, will he? [insert nasty words here]
 
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