((((Tara)))
It really does get better, I promise! In case you are wondering what is a rice sock. Take a small thinish cotton sock (newborn & todder socks are awesome), fill it about 2/3 of the way full with plain white rice ( not instant), then knock it at the top. Then you take it and toss it in the microwave for about 20 seconds. Use that to warm up Joey's ear and also to poke against.
I adopted Maxwell as a diabetic so I had to start testing him right away, because he was already on insulin and I wanted to keep him safe. We had zero history together, so I knew I didn't know him well enough to catch those subtle personality changes that would give me the early warning signs of hypo. But because he was so new to the household, he didn't have any reason to trust this new human. And Maxwell, hasn't had an easy life to begin with. You see, he was a Katrina rescue, after that spent 2 years in a sanctuary, then was adopted by a little old lady, who became ill and had to be placed in a nursing home, and her grand-daughther took Maxwell to the vet's to be pts. Which is how I got him. So the poor guy has never known a truly stable home. And here is this crazy woman that he has just met wanting to stab him in the ear. Needless to say those early days of testing were NOT pleasant...lol. Now if I can do it with Maxwell and zero bond between us, and today we are the best of friends. YOU certainly can do it with Joey who already knows, loves, and trusts you. You are the MOMMY!!! There is no one in the world like the MOMMY!
Maxwell and I are to the point now and it has only been since October that I get out his testing blanket, shake the can of test strips, tell him it's ear time and he jumps up and waits to be tested, and purrs right through it. In fact he is so good at it, that recently I took him into my vet's off and the local shelter here in town to give them a demo on home testing. I let him wander around for a little bit, called him, he jumped on his blanket and got tested. It really does make your bond with them stronger, we promise.
Watch Lori's video of her testing her Tom, Tom has been at this a long time, he knows the routine, listen to his motor run..You and Joey will get there.
http://felinediabetes.com/FDMB/viewtopic.php?f=28&t=44644
Take Hillary and Maui up on their offer to help, even if it is just to go met her and have a cup of coffee and talk. We've all been right where you are now, we understand, and we can help you through it. We will hold your hand/paw all the way. This isn'ta race it is more like a marathon. And we call it a dance for a reason, no dance is easy if you try to learn all the steps at once, but if you learn it in baby steps it is easy and becomes natural.
Mel, Maxwell and Th Fur Gang