A really good doctor! Anyone following this thread must be thinking "Who are these two? They're off topic". My sister told me once that surgeons love to operate, it's what they do. ALWAYS get a second opinion. First time I had Hemorrhoids I woke up one morning and thought I had sat on a piece of broken glass. Years go by, pain comes and goes. My chiropractor in TO who was also a Holistic whatever (very unregulated back then) tells me to get some Witch Hazel, located in Witches brew section, soak some toilet paper with it and insert over night. I wake up, pain is gone and has been for 15 years now. I still have Hemorrhoids but it's now just a nuisance, zero pain. I mention this to family MD and she refers me to funny and creepy old hospital, Gardiner near High Park. The elevator? A broom closet with those brass scissor like doors. Surgeon is honest, procedure will be extremely painful and 50/50 chance of success. That's my idea of a great doctor. A year later he fixes my hernia, arrive at 9AM, home at 2PM, no complications. I phone his receptionist to say thanks for everything etc. LONG PAUSE "Are you being sarcastic?" Turns out no one has EVER said thank you to her or the surgeon. 20 years ago I had an outdoor wooden staircase collapse under me and I "mushroomed" my wrist bones. When I showed the admitting nurse she didn't need to see my card, whoosh! Morphine, CT scan etc. I was warned I may never bend my wrist again. Had a 2 hour operation with external fixator, good as new. I just recently looked up the hospitals directory and the surgeon is still there. I e-mail him "You won't remember me but I never had the chance to thank you personally and this is something I should have done long ago". He was honestly, deeply moved that his great work did not go unnoticed. I always believed in Karma but just saying it is not the same as practicing it. Now everything has to be run by the legal dept. Our frozen pizza says "Cook before eating" and our car manual has a section on "This is the gas pedal, this is the brake pedal". Need I say more? We better end this thread before the moderator spanks us.