Bear & Lora
Member Since 2018
I am not wanting to complain or vent on a cat forum. I am that person that others lean on and look to for logic and possible answers.
I find my situation reversed and it doesn't sit well with me at all.
I feel like it is necessary to share some of my situation so that others might understand how dire things are for Bear and I to write this.
Before Bear was diagnosed with diabetes I made the choice to quit my job, move my mother in with me and become her caregiver.
Her Cardiologist had told me that I would be lucky if my mother lives 5 more years, that was about 3 years ago. In short my mother's vascular system is a wreck and failing, with open wounds on her leg from mid shin to her ankles and left frontal lobe brain damage caused by past mini infarctions which has given her early severe dementia.
It took me over a year changing her diet, getting her to stop smoking, and getting her the medical attention that she was so remiss in having to realize I can't stop her decline nor really slow it down much.
When Bear was diagnosed last year with diabetes I began to educate myself and I followed a similar path, changing diet, medical attention etc.
Now after three years of basically being contained to a house in order to keep my mother safe with medical personal coming every day, multiple Dr's appts regularly, plus vascular procedures along with being Bear's caregiver my body and mind are starting to rebel.
My mother's health issues and Bear's health issues are starting to collide and I am putting off my mother's needs to take care of Bear and vice versa and I am starting to feel like I am doing a disservice to both.
At this point I just want desperately to get Bear to a healthier place so I can take care of both of my loves and keep them in my life for as long as possible.
The latest health issue with Bear is pancreatitis, lack of appetite and bouncing.
We have changed Bear's schedule to 6:30-6:30 versus 9-9 in order to allow me to have more sleep but that isn't working out well, I am still up till 2:30AM-3 because Bear's Bg is going lower at +7, +8, which is also causing some confusion as to his insulin dosage.
He is still suffering from lack of appetite nausea with some vomiting so I started giving him Cerenia again.
From past experience Bear has dived to lime while suffering a flare because of his lack of food and I have not been able to budge his BG with Carbs so a lower insulin dosage was recommended by the Vet until his appetite was fully recovered.
When I asked the Vet whether I should give him an appetite stimulant she said no. The Vet also recommended Forti Flora for his digestion but I thought I read that is used to entice cats to eat but not good for much else?
Every turn I seem to hit a wall, low dose = high bounces with green some nights, higher dose = low events with possibly no carb steering.
As for Bear's appetite it went up for a day or two then went down again.
He is eating about 3 maybe 4 ounces low carb wet in 24 hours and only if it has parmesean or chicken crumbles on top. He won't eat higher carb wet at all now. I hesitate to feed him anything different (meaning high carb kibble) and aggravate his digestive system anymore than it already is.
I will get some Levemir ordered within the week to try.
If Levemir could just lessen Bear's dives that would keep him safer & be an improvement for a rainbow cat.
I am open to all questions or ideas.
I find my situation reversed and it doesn't sit well with me at all.
I feel like it is necessary to share some of my situation so that others might understand how dire things are for Bear and I to write this.
Before Bear was diagnosed with diabetes I made the choice to quit my job, move my mother in with me and become her caregiver.
Her Cardiologist had told me that I would be lucky if my mother lives 5 more years, that was about 3 years ago. In short my mother's vascular system is a wreck and failing, with open wounds on her leg from mid shin to her ankles and left frontal lobe brain damage caused by past mini infarctions which has given her early severe dementia.
It took me over a year changing her diet, getting her to stop smoking, and getting her the medical attention that she was so remiss in having to realize I can't stop her decline nor really slow it down much.
When Bear was diagnosed last year with diabetes I began to educate myself and I followed a similar path, changing diet, medical attention etc.
Now after three years of basically being contained to a house in order to keep my mother safe with medical personal coming every day, multiple Dr's appts regularly, plus vascular procedures along with being Bear's caregiver my body and mind are starting to rebel.
My mother's health issues and Bear's health issues are starting to collide and I am putting off my mother's needs to take care of Bear and vice versa and I am starting to feel like I am doing a disservice to both.
At this point I just want desperately to get Bear to a healthier place so I can take care of both of my loves and keep them in my life for as long as possible.
The latest health issue with Bear is pancreatitis, lack of appetite and bouncing.
We have changed Bear's schedule to 6:30-6:30 versus 9-9 in order to allow me to have more sleep but that isn't working out well, I am still up till 2:30AM-3 because Bear's Bg is going lower at +7, +8, which is also causing some confusion as to his insulin dosage.
He is still suffering from lack of appetite nausea with some vomiting so I started giving him Cerenia again.
From past experience Bear has dived to lime while suffering a flare because of his lack of food and I have not been able to budge his BG with Carbs so a lower insulin dosage was recommended by the Vet until his appetite was fully recovered.
When I asked the Vet whether I should give him an appetite stimulant she said no. The Vet also recommended Forti Flora for his digestion but I thought I read that is used to entice cats to eat but not good for much else?
Every turn I seem to hit a wall, low dose = high bounces with green some nights, higher dose = low events with possibly no carb steering.
As for Bear's appetite it went up for a day or two then went down again.
He is eating about 3 maybe 4 ounces low carb wet in 24 hours and only if it has parmesean or chicken crumbles on top. He won't eat higher carb wet at all now. I hesitate to feed him anything different (meaning high carb kibble) and aggravate his digestive system anymore than it already is.
I will get some Levemir ordered within the week to try.
If Levemir could just lessen Bear's dives that would keep him safer & be an improvement for a rainbow cat.
I am open to all questions or ideas.
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