My second diabetic but first to have home test
Hi All,
Thank you so much for being here. I really need help and everyone seems to be so kind and forthcoming. Introduction: I am brand new to this forum and signed up with a very small monthly donation. I wish I could do more but I am on disability therefore, whatta ya gonna do! (originally from Jersey

now in Ohio.
About 15 years ago I had a diabetic cat, Moon, who I was able to keep with us for quite a long time, especially for that time period. People didn't seem to know about home testing their feline loved ones so I did frequent visits to our vet, who was fantastic, for her to do the glucose curves. Now I have another diabetic kitty names Simon (or Simmie or Stinky

. He is a real love muffin and will do anything for food.

He is a type 2 diabetic...I knew better but he got too fat and that is all my fault. I can say that I tried desperately to reduce his caloric intact but the bottom line is that I screwed up and now he has to suffer for that. Therefore, I need to ensure that his next life stage is as wonderful as it can be. Hence, this question about home monitoring...I am just not sure about the darn sweetspot for the blood capture. I've seen all the videos and explanations and I hope I don't sound really stupid but I think some of the ways people describe the area to be poked are a little different. I am hoping you folks can help me out. I'll ask specific questions.
1. I am lucky Simmies ear is almost totally transparent. He is a pumpkin colored kitty and if one looks at his ears it is easy to see where the veins are located. Here is how I see it - going from the outside of the ear (his right ear) there is: the rim, then some non-vein looking 1/16th or smaller transparent space, then a very noticeable vein, then moving inward, more transparent space. Is that how you all see it?
2. My real confusion is am I supposed to poke him with the lancet directly INTO that easily noticeable vein or before it (section after the rim) or after it? This is my most confusing issue because I believe everyone has different terminology. Anyway, I would like to know exactly where to poke my dear boy. I tried for the first time today and it was an abject failure on my part. He was very excited for his 'gift' snack (just a small piece of turkey breast...who wouldn't be happy with that! He stayed on my lap and didn't fight me, he was just fine with me poking at him with the lancet like a madwoman (actually I only tried twice, just two pokes each time and could not get any blood), then finally let him lunge at his snack.
3. Not only was I unsure of where to poke him I didn't know if I poke firmly enough. The ear is very thin and I don't know if I am supposed to poke enough to get the lancet all the way through the ear flesh or only part way. It seemed when the first time I tried it the lancet didn't go through enough to generate blood flow. Sigh...I know I sound like a lunatic. Sorry. The second time I poked him (in the other ear) some little blood flow was coming but very little and I felt so sorry for him that I just let him dive on his snack then go take a nap. He didn't seem to mind any of this at all. I think part of his relaxed attitude comes from me and my hubby. From the time we get any of our 'kids' we make sure to handle them all the time.
4. Can someone help me? I won't try again for a couple of days but he didn't seem unnerved by the entire exercise. In fact, he is now sleeping in one of his beds, facing me.
HELP! Thank you, Lyd