9/27 Our Teddi Bear crossed the bridge this morning

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Marje and Gracie

Marje and Gracie

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DH here. I can barely see to type this, but we had to let our brave girl go this morning. She seemed ok last night, not good but ok. But when we got up this morning she was struggling to walk and breathe. Marje took her to the ER vet where she was diagnosed and cared for over the weekend. Her Doctor came in to work on her. She had a lot going wrong, so we decided to let her stop fighting. Marje is bringing her home soon, and we have a wonderful woman who runs a care service to put our girl to rest. She will come for her later today.

Thank you all so much for your prayers and wishes for her recovery, it was just not to be I guess. Gracie is doing good. We will check in later.
 
The tears are falling in Tulsa for all of you. I am so sorry to hear this. (((((Marj))))) (((((Mike))))) My heart goes out to all of you. Teddi is now painfree and able to run and play with all of the other kitties who were there to greet her. I am lighting a candle and praying for her and all of you. Fly free little one.
 

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I am so, so, so very sorry to see her go. Please accept my condolences. You did the best possible things that you could for her. We were all hoping and praying that she'd pull through, and make a full and speedy recovery. She brought you a lot of joy and love while she was on this earth. She was extremely happy to have you both as her Momma and Papa Beans. {{{{{{{{{{EXTREMEHUGS}}}}}}}}}}
 
I am crying so much I can barely write this--I am so so sorry that your Teddi Bear has crossed the bridge!
My Heart is Breaking for you, knowing I just went through this also..But our Love for them Is what guides us through, and we cannot let them hurt or be in pain. You both are the most Loving, Kind, Caring Beans any cat could have, and any cat in your life is Blessed--Please know we All Love you and are Hurting for you at this time..(((((((Marje and Mike))))))
We are lighting a candle for Teddi today to help him find his way--So sorry dear friends!
 
My heart breaks to read this. I was so hoping things would get better. Such empty holes in our hearts are left behind at times like these. Sending the warmest of thoughts and hugs.
xxxxx
patti
 
I'm so sorry to hear about Teddi she fought hard but it was time. She is at peace now- tears, prayers and peace for you and the other kitties.
 
Oh I am so sorry to see this its also hard to type for I cannot stop crying over your loss of Teddi ((((((((hugs))))))) to you both

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Marjorie and Mike,

I don't post much but am always checking in on you and the others I came to care for. I read all of your posts about Teddi and was hopeful that you would have more time. All of us here understand the emotional complexity in dealing with an ill or aging kitty, and knowing nothing is forever, appreciate and cherish every moment. Having followed your post for many months about Gracie and now Teddi, it's clear that you both give everything, emotionally and time wise to your cats. When all is said and done, that is all we can do, and what they deserve. I wish with all of my heart that you had more time with Teddi, but as you said, it was not meant to be.

I'll be thinking of you guys and hope that you take solace in knowing that Teddi lived a life full of love.

Jason
 
Oh Marj and Mike my heart is just pounding out of my chest for you both. I am so so sorry for this loss, it was so unexpected - I will be thinking of you so much today and in the days ahead.
 
Tears are falling and my heart is breaking. I am so, so sorry you are having to endure this pain (I know it all too well).
May Teddi Bear's love hold tight to you and wrap you in comfort.
 
I know this is going to be so hard for all of you, beans and kitties. I'm glad she had a good day with you both yesterday. You were so quick to get her to the vet when she first started feeling unwell and you were quick to get her there this morning. She didn't suffer at all. You two gave her such a good life...no cat has ever had it better!! You loved her with everything you had and she loved you right back. She lived 16 full, wonderful, loving years with you. Your Teddi Bear will never be forgotten!!
 
((((((((((((Marje and Mike)))))))))))) I am so sorry. I know this hurts so much but letting her go is the greatest show of love. Mike, I know she is daddy's girl and I am so glad that you got home to say goodbye. I think she was waiting for you. We are lighting a candle to guide her on her way. Fly Free , Sweet Teddi. wings_cat
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So so sorry to hear this. Fly Free Teddi Bear >>>>>>>>>>>>> rb_icon <<<<<<<<<< Land Softly wings_cat
You will always hold a special place in your Beans heart.
 
My heart broke when i read this, i can't imagine the pain that you are feeling. You've done a wonderful thing for Teddi, helped her to do the thing she couldn't do for herself. I am so sorry for your loss (((((((Marje))))))) ((((((((Mike)))))))
 
Along with others, my tears are falling for you as well .. Oh sweet teddi .. Enjoy your wings ... Fly Free Beautiful One ...
 
I am so, so sorry for your loss of Teddi. Like so many of us here, I have some inkling of what you are going through, and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I hope you can hold the good memories close in the coming days and find some peace and comfort. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
 
((((((Marje & Mike)))))) I'm stunned to see this this morning and can't stop crying for you. I'm so so very sorry you had to make this most difficult decision for your little Teddi Bear. Hearts are breaking all across LL today. Muffin and I will light a candle for sweet Teddi to help her find her way to the Brdige. Our deepest sympathies to you all, we are holding you close in our hearts. Fly free dear Teddi and soft landings.
 
Thank you all so much.

She was doing ok last night....seemed comfy; even had a normal poo. She was drinking alot of water and I was suspicious about that but she otherwise seemed stable when I went to bed. Mike was up until 1:30 am with Gracie and Teddi was fine. He also checked on her at 3 and 4. When I got up at 6:30, she was lying on her side and meowed at me in a different way than she normally does. She got up and was very, very wobbly and was crying and then laid back down and her bladder let go. I thought she had thrown a clot and so got Mike up and I took her to the ER. Thankfully, by the time I got there, the oncologist, Dr. Klein was waiting for us. Teddi had very labored breathing; her bp was 60, she was cold even though we'd had her wrapped up, her temp was 96, and her BG was 335. They put her on oxygen immediately but she wasn't responding and was open-mouth breathing even with oxygen. They had her wrapped up in a Scottish tartan. Dr. Klein said she felt certain that she had thrown some clots to her lungs but she did not appear to have a saddle thrombosis. She also felt that the lymphoma was in her central nerovus system just by her symptoms. She told me Teddi was very tired and she didn't know that she would be able to give her any quality time.

Mike and I were committed to not allowing her to suffer and we felt she was at that point. Dr. Klein said if Teddi just had one thing wrong, it wouldn't be so insurmountable but she had the lymphoma, kidneys, hyper-T, heart murmur, and possibly diabetes now (her BG was normal on Friday). She said the diabetes might be transient but she would not be able to know. But that didn't matter....we already know how to deal with that.

We are so glad we had her with us yesterday and that we got to do her favorite things....time, love, and brushing. I knew she didn't feel well but she was fighting. We are heartbroken....truly heartbroken. She was our first SF and because of her sweetness and wonderful spirit, we got the others. Fly free our sweet darling Teddi Bear. We will love you forever, T-beary, Miss Hippity Hoppity, Miss "Feets in a PIle".
 
(((((Marje, Mike, Gracie, Tobey, Gus)))))

We are grieving with you on the loss of your dear Teddi Bear. You gave her the best, most loving, gift by letting her go when it was her time. She will always be with you, and her love will surround you. She was a lucky kitty to be a member of such a loving household. I know she will surprise you by bringing you special memories when they are least expected. We will light a candle tonight to guide Teddi safely to the Bridge, where all our GAs are welcoming her. Fly free, little one, on your beautiful new golden wings, and know that you are very much loved.

In deepest sympathy,
Ella & Edward and Rusty and Stu (GA)
 
Ohhh, Marje and Mike.....my heart aches for you!! :YMHUG: :YMHUG: I am sorry to hear that Teddi was suffer sooo much, but she is no longer suffering and is flying free wings_cat
 
Marje and Mike, we are so very sorry to hear about Teddi. It is so very hard to lose them only because they mean so very much to us when they are here. Teddi was one very lucky kitty. Big hugs. We are thinking of you in this difficult time.
Liz & Anne
 
So many tears....so, so sorry to see this. You did the absolute kindest, most loving yet difficult thing to do - you let her go. Fly free and land softly Teddi Bear.....you are loved and will be greatly missed.
 

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I am so sorry .... my prayers are with you today. I have many waiting on the bridge, laughing and playing, healthy again .... where we will ALL meet again. ((((hugs))))

Nancy and Payne
 
There are times when our hearts and souls cry out in anguish and desolation...
This is indeed one of those days.

Somewhere, Teddi Bear...a being stronger than us had great need of your quirky, adorable Foldie personality and
your generous, giving heart...
Land softly, sweet girl.

Gus, Tobey, and Gracie- I believe that animals have a special comprehension of the grace, rhythm, and significance of existence...
may that knowledge help you through this loss...and may you comfort Mom and Dad in their grief.

Marjorie...Mike...oh, dear friends...
i can only imagine the devastation you feel. Hold tight to each other and the furbabies to weather this storm.
you all have become such a cherished part of the lantus family...there are a great number of loving hearts joining you in mourning
your sweet girl's departure.

All four of us sending deep abiding love,
and lighting candles to help illuminate teddi's journey.

Celi, Binks, Smudge and Annie

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Marje and Mike, I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet, special girl, Teddi. I didn't see your post when I quickly posted about Simon when I went home for lunch. Just a moment ago in the office, I had a strong feeling that I needed to go on FDMB and see how Teddi was doing. I usually don't get a chance to look while at work. It was almost like a little sign from Teddi that I needed to check. My heart is just breaking for the two of you but I know you must be comforted that she spent a good night with you last night. You two are so special and I know the strong bond you have with each other will help you through your heartache and overwhelming sadness. Fly free, sweet Teddi. All of LL loves you and I know all our GA kitties are waiting to welcome you home.
 
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((((((((Marjorie and Mike)))))))

I will never forget your Teddi Bear. My heart breaks for you that she has her wings. I will light a candle for her to help light her way. They are never with us long enough and if love was enough they would be with us forever. I know in my heart that Teddi was meant to be only yours. She is with you in spirit always.

I'm keeping you guys close to my heart and wish I could give real hugs.
 
Our hearts are breaking in Flagstaff for you all. Liz came to get me out of the shower to give me the oh so sad news. Lymphoma is a nasty disease. My mom went almost the same way after throwing 100s of clots in her lungs - the chemo is so very hard on the lungs. It is a gift that she did not suffer long and that she was with those who love her up to the end. How wonderful you all had a nice day together yesterday and how very brave and compassionate to help her fly free to all the wonderful ones waiting for her at the rainbow bridge. Wish we could do something to ease the pain. We will miss Teddi very much.
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Fly free sweet TeddiBear.......and land softly right back in your Mama and Papa's hearts...

Wonderful Mama/Papa Beans....long hugs from all of us here. Always remember - she's not 'gone', you just have to hug her differently....
 
When one of us looses a furkid, we all feel like we lost one of our own. We are all community, all family.

My thoughts and prayers for your loss; though gone in this place Teddi Bear is now living forever with all those others who have crossed the bridge. All that love we gave them they take with them, always.

Tear as your heart allows, wonder as your soul wishes. But know Teddy knew your love; and still does. The day will come the tears will be smiles, and then there will be that time we can see them again and everything will be well forever.

Buddy, April, Easton and that humon Mike.
 
((((Marje)))) ((((Mike)))) ((((Gracie & Gus & Tobey))))

I suspect everyone at your home will be sad today. My house will be sad today for all of you. As much as we know our kitties will not be with us forever, however long we have them, it is never long enough. Today and for any number of tomorrows, it will be sadness and tears. But those emotions will give way to the remembrance of the silly and sweet things that are Teddi and that you will keep forever in your hearts.

When you are ready, this is a wonderful fable that explains why we choose tears.

Fly free sweet Teddi and land softly. There are many of our Guardian Angels who are waiting and who will keep you safe and show you where you can find the best butterflies to chase. LL will light your way to the Bridge.

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Oh, Marjorie and Mike. Tears behind closed office doors here in KC today grieving with you in the loss of your sweet Teddi Bear. I know my Miss Belle will be waiting for her at the bridge to greet her into her new life free of pain. It is so hard having to let them go, but Teddi has spent every day, even and especially today, knowing the true gift of the unconditional love of two humans who would do anything for her... even when "anything" meant letting her go.

To this day, I find comfort in the suddenness of Miss Belle's passing. While it was stunningly heartbreaking for me at the time, she spent the moments up until her passing enjoying life and being loved. Knowing that she was spared any long term suffering has been a comfort. Teddi too spent very little time in pain or discomfort, and spent her last days being cherished and loved.

Willie and I will be lighting a candle tonight in memory of your very special girl.
 
Mike and Marje....I'm so very sorry to hear about little Teddi. She (and you) put up a good fight. I know you will miss her terribly. She was so lucky to have you as parents, and you to have her. Please take care of yourselves during this very sad time.
 
Mike and Marje....I'm so very sorry to hear about little Teddi. She (and you) put up a good fight. I know you will miss her terribly. She was so lucky to have you as parents, and you to have her. Please take care of yourselves during this very sad time.
 
Marje and Mike - I'm at a loss for words right now. I'm just so very sorry to read this. Teddi was very lucky girl to have you as her beans, and she's a very special angel now.

You remain in our thoughts and prayers....

Amy
 
Marje and Mike, Gracie, Tobey and Gus, ever since Teddi Bear got sick, your condo is the first I look for an update, and this was so unexpected. I'm so very sorry and feel heartbroken for you both, as I also know the loss and hole in the heart they leave us. I know Teddi Bear will always be close to your hearts and send you signs that she is all around you. You've given so much of yourselves to us in LL, so don't hesitate to come here and talk. I have that last picture of her adorable face etched in my mind. Lots of hugs and prayers go out to you both, and of course, special scritches to Gracie, Tobey and Gus.
 
(((Marje and Mike)))

I am so saddened to hear that you have lost your beloved Teddi Bear. My heart goes out to the two of you, and to Gracie, Tobey, and Gus. I am grateful that Teddi was able to spend her last night at home with the family she loved so much. She was a special girl, and will be so sadly missed by her many friends here.

I know that the GA's have stood to honor her arrival at the Bridge and to welcome her to the place where all of them live on in our hearts and memories.


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I am wishing you peace and the comfort of the memories of all the happy times you shared.
 
My heart sank when I saw your post today. Lots of hugs for you guys. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Fly free sweet Teddi, Fly free.


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I am so sorry to read this news. I know how difficult it is to make these decisions even when you know it is the best thing to do. My heart goes out to you all. Fly free Teddi. I never have words for times like this. Just know i am here, sending my thoughts of love and prayers for all of you.
 
((Marje)) (( Mike))
My heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry that your sweet Teddi Bear has earned her wings and
has joined many of our beloved Guardian Angels.
Tears are flowing at my desk right now but I will light a candle when I get home
to help guide your sweet girl and pray for a very soft landing.

Fly free sweet Teddi. Another star will shine brightly in the sky.

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Oh, dearest Marje, and Mike. My heart is breaking for you, and I too, am writing through tears.
I was so hopeful that sweet Miss Teddi, would pull through this last diagnosis.
Please accept my condolences, and apology for my lighthearated pm, this morning. It was written before this was.
You and Mike are in my prayers, for strength and courage.

Fly free, and land softly, sweet Teddi Bear wings_cat
 
oh marjorie & mike, i'm just so incredibly sad for all of you. it's a terrible loss. i hope it helps to know you are surrounded by the love and prayers of so many who love you and your family. we're with you.

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I've had no email all day....my heart just sank when i read this.....

Marje and Mike, know that i was praying for a miracle but it is not for us to decide what miracle we get to have from our furbabies.....her miracle to you was to come home and spend time with you guys rather than stay at the hospital...it was her way of telling you she wanted to be home and be loved....

tears flowing here....i'm so very sorry for your loss of Teddi....at a loss for words....

keeping you in my thoughts and prayers as you deal with such heartbreak......

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Fly Free Teddi wings_cat many friends at the bridge will guide you and show you around.....
 
(((((Marjorie and Mike)))))

I'm so very sorry for you loss. I too had tears in my eyes at work when I read this.

Miss Witty was waiting with all the other GA kitties at the bridge for Teddi Bear.
 
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