9/24/20 Sad News, from Jayla: Dre 9/23/2020

Thank you fror your thoughtful words-I guess I thought he would live forever. After we lost Rico he fought so hard to stay with me. I find myself calling for him-i know sounds crazy but both of my boys were the longest relationships I have had and I miss them terribly but you are right and I am going to try harder starting today. :rb_icon:
 
He had a long beautiful life with you. Much longer than he would have with almost any other person. If you keep yourself open to signs for him you may find he still pays you visits.
My friend finds feathers ever day since her dog passed --I am very open and hoping he will send me a gesture that he is with Rico and he is free from his body ....You have always been so kind to us Janet as have many others and I m so thankful.
 
I find myself calling for him-i know sounds crazy but both of my boys were the longest relationships I have had and I miss them terribly
I don't think this sounds crazy at all. To me, it sounds completely, heartbreakingly normal. You and Dre are still in my thoughts. Grieving is such a roller coaster and can really take a toll. Allow yourself as much time and space as you grieve, but take care of yourself, too.
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I am so sorry for your loss Jayla.

Fly free sweet Dre, you are again with Rico cat_wings>o

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I don't think this sounds crazy at all. To me, it sounds completely, heartbreakingly normal. You and Dre are still in my thoughts. Grieving is such a roller coaster and can really take a toll. Allow yourself as much time and space as you grieve, but take care of yourself, too.
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Thank you Lyla we need them:bighug:
 
That blessing is mutual, Jayla. You have always been there for me and my little ones, in good times and in extremis. I'll never ever forget it to you. Wish there was more I could do for you...

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((((((((Jayla)))))) I haven't been on the board for a very long time. I am so saddened to be reading this. No matter how long we have our fur babies it is never enough time. I know how very much you loved your boys. You were the best fur momma on the planet. My heart breaks for you. cat_wings>o

RIP Dre, until you meet again.
 
My friend finds feathers ever day since her dog passed --I am very open and hoping he will send me a gesture that he is with Rico and he is free from his body ....You have always been so kind to us Janet as have many others and I m so thankful.
My cat Zimmy has visited several times. We have not only felt him, but my son and I have actually seen him on several occations. (Once I almost stepped on him! I practically fell trying not to step on him as he ran out of the closet past me and under the bed!) I hope he sends you a sign soon.
 
He had a long beautiful life with you. Much longer than he would have with almost any other person. If you keep yourself open to signs for him you may find he still pays you visits.
I found a tiny little white feather at the bottom of the stairs we always went down together this morning....I pray it was him letting me know he and Rico have found each other
 
I picked up my baby's ashes today and it started pouring out of nowhere on the way home-my BF is Indian and he said that is a blessing. Then he says look to the right-there was a rainbow. My boys sent me my own personal rainbow bridge. I miss them terribly but I can see them in my mind together, Dre missed Rico so much I know it affected his health. Hug your kittys tonight and cherish every moment....:bighug:
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(((Jayla)))

@jayla-n-Drevon my heartfelt sympathies. We have crossed paths here over the last few years. I know it feels like a piece of you is missing, and it can be so hard to not have them near anymore... give yourself time to grieve.

This poem helped me when I lost my heart dog...ya, he was a drooler, but the kitties don't mind me sharing :bighug: I don't remember where I found it, but am quoting as I had written it down many years ago.

"A Poem For The Grieving

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die...

Anonymous"

Fly free sweet Dre, and there are some butterflies for you to chase now cat_wings>o
I will light a candle tonight for Dre :bighug::bighug:
Thank you Christie....I thought I responded I am sorry this is late-thank you for the beautiful words and lighting a candle for my Dre...I picked him up tonight and he is next to Rico with a candle burning. I appreciate so much your words and kindness,
 
Thank you Mogs I truly appreciate those prayers
As you know the pain is often unbearable. I wish I was not an insomniac and could sleep thru the healing process.

When I close my eyes I do seem my spirit boys together...followed by both happy and heartbreak tears.
I was looking at some videos I was taking videos daily a he wandered around the back yard while I had my coffee or tea. It seems so odd that literally 4 days prior his bw was decent--then wbc over 37,000-cant walk appeared blind

He is with Rico now and my angel boys hopefully will show me signs....I think I am out of tears.

When we saw the rainbow on our way from picking up Dres ashes he sent us beautiful rainbow
I wish I had taken picture:bighug::rb_icon:
 
The pain certainly does come in waves, Jayla. :(

I know only too well that it's not much to hang onto but perhaps try to find some solace in the fact that Dre was doing so well at that time. Bittersweet...

Keeping you in my prayers and in my heart.

(((Jayla, Spirit Dre and Spirit Rico)))

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((((((Jayla)))))
I have been off the board for quite some time, I am so sad to hear about Dre gaining his angel wings, Rico and he were lucky to have you fighting their corner. I know they are both happy and safe playing with butterflies at the bridge.:rb_icon::rb_icon::rb_icon:

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((((((Jayla)))))
I have been off the board for quite some time, I am so sad to hear about Dre gaining his angel wings, Rico and he were lucky to have you fighting their corner. I know they are both happy and safe playing with butterflies at the bridge.:rb_icon::rb_icon::rb_icon:

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Thank you...the kitten in your photo looks like my Dre when he was a baby, I miss him and Rico terribly. Knowing they are together brings some comfort.:rb_icon::rb_icon:
 
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