9/17 - 18 Uncle

[MJW]

I am so sorry. The kitties on this forum are loved by all of us and we share your pain. I hope I have a cat one day who lives to be as old as Uncle. He loved you and appreciated you and lived a long and happy life. Good job.

 

[SarahNOLA]

I am brand new to this forum but I cried anyway. I'm sorry for the loss of your kitty.

 

[Gussie's mom (GA)]

Gussie sent a photo, said to let you know Uncle arrived safe and sound

 

[julie & punkin (ga)]

((((Barbara)))) I'm so sorry. . . I remember when you and Uncle joined. You did a heroic job learning how to take care of him and he was so lucky to have you. I love hearing he put his head on your cheek. Those moments are gifts to hold on to and treasure. He was expressing his love and gratitude to you in the best way a kitty can.

Love to you as you adjust to this new life. I'm holding you close in my heart.

Fly free Uncle, and land softly.

 

[Glennie]

This is really hard, but I wanted to let all my friends here know that Uncle went ahead this morning.
It was very peaceful.
He hadn't been eating no matter what I tried, was very weak and the light was leaving him. Even with Cerenia, Ondansetron, Mirtz, baby food, bone broth, freeze-dried chicken/beef liver, bonito flakes he just couldn't do it. I even went to KFC to get a chicken breast.
He seemed hungry but rejected everything except a little dry food, which was a hail mary on my part. I worked closely with the vet in these last few days to keep him comfortable. Three nights ago he got on the bed and laid his head on my cheek. In 17 years that had never happened. He was purring (an inside purr) and I felt that he wanted to be as close as possible and tell me he would miss me but he was tired and ready to go. Tears of sadness and gratefulness streamed from my eyes and I didn't want to break the spell knowing that it would probably be the closest we would ever be again. I did wake him to give a test. I wish I hadn't but I was nervous about is BG since he hadn't eaten anything and it was time for a test.
He was diagnosed one year and a week ago. We never would have made it this long without all of the support, technical and otherwise that you all have given.
I won't be a stranger around here. I have missed checking in to see how everyone was doing but was exhausted and preoccupied.
Tons of love and gratitude to you ALL

Barbara & Uncle

Barbara, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. His putting his head on your cheek was so precious. I'm glad you had that sweet time together. Peace and comfort to you. Hugs!

 

[Mandy & Rex (GA)]

I'm sorry to hear about Uncle. I always loved his name.

 

[Sarah Mc]

Barbara, I was shocked and saddened to hear this news...I searched "bonito" to see if it's safe to give, and yours was the first post that came up. Reading all of these posts, especially yours, makes me cry for you, and I am so sorry you had to make that choice for Uncle. What a special moment the two of you shared, and I am sorry it was interrupted by testing--testing interrupts all too many precious moments for us. You took such good care of Uncle, and that sweet boy was blessed to have you. I am glad that you have a plan to get away and take care of yourself now. My heart goes out to you.

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

-Mary Elizabeth Frye

 

[Gill & George]

((((Barbara))))))
I'm so sorry that it was Uncle's time to go to the bridge.
I'm glad that you won't be a stranger, you did all the hardwork and it was thanks to that that you got that extra time, you are a wonderful cat mom.
What a wonderful memory to hold on to of him resting his head on your cheek.

Fly Free and Land Softly Sweet Uncle

 

[jayla-n-Drevon]

I am so sorry for your loss....my heart hurts for you. Be gentle and kind to yourself in the coming days I have a feeling you may just have a "visitor" from the very thin veil

 

[Bobbie And Bubba]

(((((Oh Barbara))))) I am very sorry about Uncle. My time online has been limited lately and I am just catching up. I hope you will gain comfort in the comings days to know that Uncle is in a better place now. Fly high , land softly.

 

[Ozzy Pawzbourne]

Barbara- I have been off the board for awhile but @Taffysmama reached out to me to tell me of the sad news. I am so saddened to hear about Uncle. He went through a lot and so did you. He was so lucky to have you as his mom. You were amazing to him! Thank you for all the help you have given me over the last year with Ozzy. You have been wonderful and so kind to the folks on this board as well. I hope you will continue to provide guidance and help others.

Uncle- you had a great journey. Fly free little one and land softly. Barbara- may your heart feel peace soon.

xo

joanna