8/13 Autumn +8-81, pmps-117,Cassanova +6-123, pmps-192

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MommaOfMuse

MommaOfMuse

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Sorry for the disappearing act yesterday, but had a bizarre family matter to take care of and feeling a little weird to even be in the middle of the drama.

Jon's ex-wife Ava has two adult children (Matt & Kristy) from two previous marriages & their 22 year old daughter Alisha. Back in July Matt was convicted of child pornography and sexual assault on a child under 10 years of age. He was in the local jail waiting for the paperwork to transfer him to the state penn. Well Saturday he was found dead in his cell. So yesterday I was trying to track down Alisha to tell her about her half brother's passing.

And feeling very strange about not feeling bad that Matt is dead. I'd only met him on a few occasions and didn't care for him. Even through he was always polite and cordial to me, he just struck me as creepy. And I wasn't terribly surprised with the child molestation charge. But feel like I should feel bad he's gone, but honestly not only don't I feel bad I'm kinda happy. In my book he was the lowest form of scum, he plead guilty and then reoffended while out on bond during the original trial. So I just can't find any compassion for his passing. Maybe I'm a bad person for that. But all that comes to mind is good one more rabid dog gone.

Mel and The Fur Gang
 
Re: 8/13 Autumn amps-249, Cassanova amps-190

Wow, Mel, you sure have had an interesting week or so! Sorry you had to deal with more badness. If it makes you feel any better (and it may just make me look like a horrid person), when my ex-husband died, I felt nothing but relief. I even danced a little dance to the tune of "Ding-Dong, the Witch Is Dead". I've been waiting for several years to feel grief or some other "appropriate" emotion, but I just remain glad that I no longer have to deal with him stalking me, etc. So I think that sometimes it's okay not to feel sorry (or even to feel glad) that someone is dead, even if that someone is - or was - close to you or someone in your family. My mother and one of my sisters were horrified that I was glad instead of upset, but my other sister asked if we should go out to celebrate. She totally got it.

*hugs*
 
Re: 8/13 Autumn amps-249, Cassanova amps-190

Lol I've been searching for Boring Life for a long time just seems that I'm destine to live in interesting times. Lol And trust me when my ex is pushing up daisies I'm throwing one hell of a party!!

Mel and The Fur Gang
 
Re: 8/13 Autumn amps-249, Cassanova amps-190

Goodness! You sure do have your hands full.

Well at least Autumn and Cassanova are steady. Alska loves having his Autumn on the sundeck with him today.
 
Re: 8/13 Autumn amps-249, Cassanova amps-190

OMG Mel. we were all wondering where you were. now he can't ever hurt anyone else so i totally understand why you feel that way. sorry you had such an insane day. everyone here missed you. hope you have a "boring" week for a change. :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
 
Re: 8/13 Autumn amps-249, Cassanova amps-190

Totally normal to feel relief when a possible threat is gone for good. No fun living waiting for the other shoe to drop. Its not that you are glad he is actually dead, its that you know he is not going to come back to hurt again. (fine line there).
 
Re: 8/13 Autumn amps-249, Cassanova amps-190

Youza... what a tough day and tough situation! Nice the kitties are holding steady for you. Take care and wishing you a very boring rest of the week.
 
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