6/17 Luci AMPS 236

Sue and Luci

Sue and Luci

Member Since 2017
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My dad died yesterday morning. Our relationship wasn't close since we haven't spoken in 30 years or so. He remarried when I was young - moved on to a new family - his wife didn't want us (my sister and me) in their lives - long story short - for whatever reasons he made no effort to stay in touch - the last few times I called (as an adult) he refused to come to the phone (or so I was told). I did visit with him three weeks ago on our way back from Florida - he lives in South Carolina - hard to make peace at this stage of the game but it was a friendly visit - so I guess I'm glad I saw him before he died - He seemed to be happy to see me but with Alzheimer's it was difficult for him to talk - he said he wanted to tell me something, but couldn't remember what it was...and so it goes.

Luci is being Luci - yesterday she languished in the higher numbers - that's her pattern. When she gets ready to visit the lagoon she'll be diving ... oh well...Happy(?) Monday everyone.
 
Sue I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m sorry about the relationship
Miss Luci, you got those yellow rags on, get that green swimsuit on
Have a great day Sue
 
Sue, I'm sorry for you! Even if we don't have close relationship with our parents, it's always sad to see a part of our life gone!:bighug:
Seems Luci might give you another break today after her recent 40! A little yellow surfing day maybe! :)
 
Despite your relationship with your dad, losing someone is never easy, I'm sorry for your loss. I'm happy for you that you were able to visit him before he passed so that you can at least have a bit of closure moving forward.

Luci! Slide down for your mom today! slowly and safely, lets see some blues and maybe a dip in the lagoon :D
 
Some nice Bg there Luci ! Just leave the Sharks alone!

Sometimes, even when it's a bad relationship it's still difficult when they're gone. My mother & I did not get along at all! She was very verbally abusive all my life. Ironically,she made me executor to her finances & health care.(said she didn't want to stress my brother or younger sister out!)

I took care of her for 5 years before she died. Most difficult 5 years of my life :( Strange, but I miss her?

I sincerely hope you're handling it OK.

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I'm sorry about your dad. :bighug:My dad wasn't involved much in my life, either, but it was hard when he died--so much unresolved.

Luci, give your momma some extra purrs.
 
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