Re: 3/27Max AMPS 278
it's that cursed hospital time. i hated having my mom there, and the nursing home where she went to rehab was even worse. it's all waiting and waiting and waiting. i shudder at people who are patients who don't have a person to make things happen for them. sometimes i felt like i was standing on a chair demanding someone help my mother!! i realized early on that if someone was in the hospital, they needed someone with them who could advocate for them. otherwise i imagine they just wait and wait endlessly.
the first day my mom went into the nursing home the meds nurse brought her the meds for the person who had just left the room. :shock: if i hadn't been there to catch it my mom would've been given them. and that was supposed to be the "best" nursing home in a city of 100,000+.
i don't know about you, but when my mom was there and i was running back and forth from home every day (an hour each way) i felt like my emotions were on the edge all the time. you get adrenaline going and for me, at least, every single thing set me off. i felt very fragile. it's hard having someone so close to you be very ill. :YMHUG: