Re: 3/11 Autumn amps-311, +6-211
Yep Autumn is hyperreactive to everything, which while I will never truly know since I have no back history on her, I suspect comes from her previous life as a barn cat. I know when I first adopted her she was very very aggressive about her resources, she would fly across the room to attack the other cats at feeding time and if they would try to come up on the couch while either of us were holding her or showing her any kind of affection. To the point I had a meltdown with her and contacted DCIN about the possibility of rehoming her again, I just didn't think she would come around to living with other cats...she always liked the dog from day one.
Anyhow, DCIN set up an appointment for us with an Animal Communicator that they use and I learned some interesting things about her, such as she actually did like the other cats just was deathly afraid that they would take her stuff and because she had to be shaved and was no longer "pretty" that we wouldn't love her or protect her until she could find her place in the pecking order here. The dog was okay because he didn't want her things like food, toys and dogs play and get love differently from the humans than cats do, plus dogs were safe, they kept predators away, they can find shelter and will share prey..so dog good, other cats bad.
When pressed on why she was so worried about not being 'pretty' right now since her fur would grow back in time, she answer was...because when she was playing with the pretty one at her old home she accidently hurt the pretty one and then they took her away and made her feet hurt. And now we had given her a home because she was pretty and if she wasn't pretty enough we would make her go away and hurt her. So we are very conscious of constantly telling her what a pretty girl is. And the AC also described her hoarding of resources at first like a child that had been abused and starved and suddenly taken out of that situation and put in a foster home where there is plenty to go around, that they will gorge themselves at every meal and then try to stuff their pockets full because they are never sure if there will be a next meal. WHich is pretty much how she behaved until she finally figured out the meals always arrive 4 times a day, if she wants extra cuddles all she has to do is ask and we will pick her up etc.
She really is nothing like the cat that first got here, in any way from physical to mental to emotional but boy she has taken a lot of careful observing to see just what will set her off and what doesn't phase her at all. But then again I have lots of experience with those with baggage with the exception of my blue-point siamese Bert everyone here has been a case study in how to rehab a damaged cat or dog...Took me 6 months and a ton of hot dogs to get the dog to go up and down stairs after his previous owner had kicked him down them as a puppy.
Mel, Maxwell, Autumn & The Fur Gang