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Rebekah

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Hello all,

This is very hard for me to write, but last night, Alex and I decided to let Ole go.

For months and months, my prayer has been that Ole get better, and if that didn't happen, that he will let me know if or when he wanted to be free. It was never about me nor my love for him, it has always been about Ole. He has spiraled downward so quickly, it has been very difficult for all of us. Ole's disengagement and growing malcontent was his way of telling me that he was ready. It was all I could do to get Ole to go outside. My Ole ALWAYS wanted to go outside, very very badly. My Ole wanted to play and chase birds. He liked to watch passerbys from his window sill perch. He liked to play in the snow, tease Fifi, chew grass. He liked to see what was on the other side of the fence. He wanted to wrestle Loki, and then snuggle close to him for a nice long afternoon nap For the past several months, increasingly Ole wouldn't do any of those things. For the past week, it's been only food that would stimulate him enough to leave his little bed. Where did my Ole go? I know that my anguished Ole wanted to be reunited with his joie de vivre.

We decided to call our friend Dr Linda Rae, DMV. Eight years ago Linda Rae treated a scrappy little rescue kitty and named him Schwatz. After he was nursed back to health, Schwartz was put up for adoption. I was at the shelter grieving for my recently passed lover kitty Noami. I was sitting on the floor overcome with grief. Before I even felt the weight of the little scamp, I heard the loudest purr I had ever heard. I opened my eyes and there on my lap was the cutest little silver tabby in the whole world! I took him home and renamed him Ole. Several months later, Linda Rae and Paul were over at our house for a BBQ, she recognized Ole as Schwartz as Ole always liked to mingle amongst the guests. She told me all about his history as a feral kitten, where he was rescued from and how that he had so many defensive wounds on his legs, that all 4 of them had to be shaved clean and that under that thick soft coat, Ole had a pretty saucy set of gams! When Ole was diagnosed with FD last April, Dr Linda Rae was leaving her practice, so Ole got a new vet. Ole decided that Linda Rae, his favorite, should come over to our house and set his wonderful little character free. No more tests, no more pokes to be in complete comfort and surrounded by his loved ones, 2 and 4 legged as well as clawed. We three were able to sit with Ole reminiscing over some of the choicest Ole stories, and there are some choice ones. Though my heart is heavier than you can ever imagine, I am glad that Ole is free from his disease and the turmoil it was causing him. Ole, Little Buddy, and Noami are up there chasing their angel feathers.

I want to thank so many people for helping us, not only with your knowledge, but with your compassion. I am too overwhelmed.

Love Rebekah
 
Oh Rebekah, I am so very sorry for your loss. You gave Ole the greatest gift possible by setting him free, and I know how difficult a gift it is to give. What a wonderful loving mama you've been for him. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Fly free, sweet Ole, and please say hello to Muffin for me.
 
I am so sorry Rebekah! You were such a caring bean to Ole, he will be watching over you and won't want you to grieve. Remember the joy that you brought to each other, that is the greatest tribute to his brave soul.

Fly Free Brave Ole, catch the angel feathers and send one to Rebekah as a sign that you are once again whole!

Lighting a bandle for Ole!
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Oh no, I'm so sorry for your loss! I mostly lurk these days but I enjoyed following Ole's adventures in your condos and was really hoping to see him get well. My condolences...
 
{{{Rebekah}}}:

I am so very sorry to read that Ole has crossed the bridge. You were such a wonderful mama bean to him, and I know he had a wonderful, happy life with you. It is the hardest decision to ever make, and you are a very brave, loving person to set him free. You and Ole went through so much together, and he will always be with you. Sending big hugs to you and Alex, and scritches to Loki & Fifi and ? to the Monster (how does one show affection to a crawfish?).
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Fly free, Ole, and land softly. wings_cat
 
(((Rebekah)))

I am so heartbroken for you. I know you much you love your Ole' and while this must have been a difficult decision to make, it seems that he was no longer happy or had the QOL he wanted. I also know that you have done everything to help him. I hope he is at peace, in comfort, in light.

Fly free, sweet Ole'.

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(((Rebekah)))

Sending my deepest condolences. Letting them go is the hardest decision we can make, but also the most loving.

Fly free sweet Ole, and land softly...There are many at the Bridge to welcome you wings_cat
 
Rebekah, I'm so sorry for your loss of Ole. What a lucky kittty he was to be rescued by you. It's never easy losing one of these angels. My heart and prayers go out to you.
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a tough decision and it takes a lot of love to make that decision. He was a very lucky kitten, he made it to be adopted by you! Many hugs for you today. :YMHUG:

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Dear ((((Rebekah)))), It is never easy to say farewell. Ole was telling you that it was time. You are a wonderful bean for listening to him and setting him free. He will always be with you, in your heart. Fly free, sweet Ole, land safely at the Bridge, where all of our GAs are waiting to welcome you. You are much loved.

In deepest sympathy,

Ella & Edward, Rusty, and Stu (GA)
 
(((((Rebekah))))) I am so very sorry. My heart is broken too. :cry: :cry: Ole was so lucky to have such caring beans, right to the very end. Big hugs to you and Alex.
Liz
 
Rebekah, I am so sorry to read about Ole. Hugs to you and Alex.
Fly Free Ole....say hello to Ralphie for me and Let Barbara know we are all thinking about her.
 

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So very sorry Rebekah. Sounds like Ole was a fighter from the get go. I'm glad you got to spend a good long while with each other. Land softly, lil Ole. Please come visit your mamabean when you've found your way wings_cat
 
(((Rebekah))) I am so sorry it was Ole's time. You were such a good momma bean for him. Many hugs to you and Alex and Loki and others that knew him and loved him. :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

Fly free and land softly Ole. Send your momma a sign that you are now playing outside at the rainbow bridge.

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Rebekah-
I am so sorry for you and Alex's loss of Ole. I have been following his condo and you were such a terrific, loving mama bean! He is happy, healthy and catching all the birds he can now surrounded by all the others that have gone ahead to the rainbow bridge.
Rest in peace Ole
And you rest knowing you gave him the best last gift possible, when he was ready.
Elizabeth

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Rebekah, I'm so sorry. You did one of the hardest things and one of the most loving things in letting Ole go so he wouldn't suffer any more. Sending prayers and hugs to you and Alex. :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

Fly free sweet Ole.
 
Rebekah,
I'm SO SO sorry it was Ole's time to cross. Remember, he's not gone, you just have to hug him differently.

Run and play sweet Ole....
 
(((Rebekah)))

I am so sorry about Ole.
I can only echo what everyone else has said and hope that in the days, weeks and months ahead your very many memories will start to make you smile through your tears.

Fly Free Beautiful Ole..send your Mom kisses to let her know you're okay. wings_cat

Lots of love and hugs to you
xo
 
I'm so sorry to hear this, Rebekah. You gave him the gift of flying free, another angel has gone ahead :sad: . You were so lucky to have eachother. Many many hugs to you and yours :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
 
((((Rebekah)))), I am so sorry. You were such an amazing MamaBean for Ole.
Sending you love and light during this difficult time. ♥
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Fly free, sweet Ole ♥
 
I am so very sorry, Rebekah...your love for Ole obviously runs so very deep and he will feel that while he waits for you at the bridge. Send many prayers and hugs...
 
(((((Rebekah)))))

I am so very sorry. This is such a hard decision that takes a special kind of compassion and courage. Ole was just as lucky to have you in his life as you were lucky to have him grace yours.

Fly free little one and land softly. There are many who we love who will be there to play with you and keep you company until you are reunited with the ones you love best.

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((((Rebekah))))

i'm so sorry to hear this. I know you did the right thing for Ole'. You have been incredibly devoted to him. My heart grieves for you, but in the midst of the sadness, i'm so glad you were able to remember funny little stories about him.

fly free little one. you'll be missed.

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Rebekah,

So very sorry to hear of Ole's crossing. My sincerest condolences.

Fly free sweet Ole. wings_cat
 
Rebekah, I am so sorry to read this. Ole thanks you for your wonderful gift. I hope that you may find comfort in your memories. Fly free little one. Always remembered, never forgotten.
 
Oh Rebekah! With tears in my eyes, I send prayers of comfort and peace to you and your family (2 legged, 4 legged and clawed). With all your love, you gave Ole the best home, care, love and in the end, freedom. Bless you.

wings_cat Fly free, sweet Ole and land safely at the Bridge. Don't forget to check in on your earthly family and let them know you're still watching over them. You are well loved.
 
Rebekah,

I am so sorry Ole has gone to the bridge. I loved reading his profile and how he once tried to eat the Monster, he sounds like he was quite the character.

Terri
 
Oh Rebekah, I am so, so very sorry to read this and know how much your heart is hurting :YMHUG: You truly are a wonderful mama and Ole was so very lucky to have you watching out for him. You did the hardest, most generous thing for your sweet baby and he will be happily waiting for your reunion.
May your heart soon find peace.
Fly free sweet Ole. You will be missed cat_pet_icon rb_icon
 
((((((((((Rebekah))))))))))

Oh I can't stop my tears rolling down my face for you. My heart is so heavy and sad. :YMHUG:

What a wonderful life you and Ole had together! You made his little life so perfect for him right till the end. You are an amazing bean!

Land softly Ole. You are gone but never ever forgotten. wings_cat


Love,
Linda and Scooter
 

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Dear dear everybody,

Thank you so much for your kind and heart felt words. You don't know how much they mean to me. I am again overwhelmed.

Many of you have asked Ole to give me a sign, to let me know that he is okay. I would like you to know that yesterday, I feverishly cleaned the house as therapy and to keep my mind busy (I am always the square peg as I love to clean our house (except for laundry)). While cleaning the floor in our bedroom, I found one of Ole's whiskers. A beautiful white whisker, tipped in black, and perfectly arched. I brushed his whisker upon on my cheek and said 'thank you' to my good friend. I miss him so much, and the house is empty of his special kooky shenanigans, but we are at peace.

I will look in periodically to wish you well. I do wish you all my very best.

Love Rebekah
 
What a wonderful gift Ole sent you, Rebekah!!

If there was a way we could take some of your pain away, you know we'd do it. It will take time for your heart to heal, and if you ever need people to talk to, you know we'll be here.

Take care, and please do stop in now and then and let us know how you're doing.
 
So sorry Rebekah for your loss of Ole. He definitely picked you back at the shelter. He knew a good thing when he saw it.

Fly Free sweet Ole wings_cat (((Rebekah)))
 
Rebekah, I am so very, very sorry to hear that Ole had left us. You gave him a very loving, caring, kind, wonderful warm home, and you did everything you could for him. Please know that you, and your family, are in my thoughts and prayers. Fly free, sweet beautiful Ole, and land softly. {{{{{{{{{{REBEKAH}}}}}}}}}}
 
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