2/15 Butthead's condo rental - not good...

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MJ+Donovan

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Donovan's buddy Butthead's prior update: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=33775

I did not want to post this yesterday and spoil the nice birthday parties and add to the sadness here. Please know that I am praying for you all even when I don't post. I haven't been in the best frame of mind lately.

This needs to be relatively short. I'm at work and need to try to hold myself together.
Butthead has been on oral chemo Palladia for about 6 weeks now. Last bloodwork and re-check 2 weeks ago was fine. Thought I felt a new small lump, but vet believed it to be scar tissue from the surgeries and was unable to aspirate any abnormal cells. Last week I noticed another larger lump. Yesterday I brought him to be examined, and the aspirated cells are cancerous.

Ok, starting to cry already. So just the facts, from the vet oncologist at Angell in Boston:

"I am sorry to hear that the mass has returned. It seems as if this tumor is behaving unusually aggressively and regrowing very quickly. I would stop the Palladia and if you want to pursue treatment another option is chemotherapy alone with a drug known as carboplatin. Carboplatin is extremely well tolerated in cats and has very few side effects. The chemotherapy would be given once every 3 weeks for 3 to 5 total treatments. Unfortunately when there is a solid tumor present it is not highly effective and only slows tumor growth 20-30% of the time for an average of 3 to 9 months.

The recommended treatment would be radiation therapy. This is a series of 17 to 21 doses of local radiation therapy given once daily to the area where the tumor is located. The treatment works in 70-80% of patients and this treatment results in an average remission of 9 to 12 months. Bailey would be anesthetized daily for each treatment. Cost averages $4500-5500 for the full course of treatment.

Another alternative to definitive (or high dose) radiation therapy is palliative or low dose radiation treatment. This is a course of 6 treatments of radiation therapy given on twice daily for 3 consecutive weeks. The radiation is a relatively low total dose and the only possible side effects may some mild hair loss or irritation within the throat area. The treatment works in 60-70% of patients and may slow the tumor down 4 to 6 months and most cats have significant shrinkage of their tumor for a short period of time. Bailey would need a CT scan for radiation planning to minimize any damage to normal tissues. Cost for the palliative course averages $2500.

If you choose to do nothing it may be helpful to put Bailey on Tramadol for pain control if he seems uncomfortable. It is hard to know how quickly it is going to progress but based on previous behavior the tumor is acting very aggressively. Please let me know if you have any additional questions."


And that's where we are now.
I will check back later when I can have a proper meltdown in private.

MJ&Donovan&Butthead
 
My heart is so sad to see this--Prayers for dear Butthead, I know you will do your very best for him!!
We all care about you here & we feel your pain--Sending Healing vines & Snowflakes to you all!
 
I am so sad to read this, similar discussion regarding my Krueger just a few months ago.

May your kindness and love guide you right now. Great BIG HUGS!
 
I'm sorry and saddened to hear about Butthead. It's a lot to think about with the different options. I just logged on and saw your post. I send prayers to help you make a decision for Butthead. Hugs.
 
I wish I could give you a hug in real life. I'm so sorry. I wish love was all our babies needed to live to ripe old ages without health issues. Our cats would be the healthiest there is. I'm keeping you and Butthead in my thoughts. Please let me know if there is anything we can do to help.

Jenny and Chicken have a website up with daily updates on their radiation experience.

((((((MJ and Butthead)))))) We cry with you.
 
Oh, MJ! I am so sorry to read this. We had all hoped the chemo would work. I'm sending prayers and healing vines for Butthead. I really hope you can find something that will work. (((((HUGS))))) to you both.
 
(((((MJ))))) I'm so sorry. There aren't enough words to express how sad I am for you and Butthead.
We all had such optimism for his treatments and I wish they had kept his cancer away.

Give your boys a big hug from me. I so wish I could fix this for you. :cry:
I lubs youz guys.
 
MJ, What tough choices. I am so sorry to read your news, and I pray that you will find the strength to make the right choice for your dear Butthead. He sounds as if he is OK for now, and since he seems to have no other health issues, maybe you should take time to research the options with your number 1 criterion being Butthead's quality of life.
We are sending positive thoughts and prayers to you and your boy this evening. Healing vines, too.

Many hugs :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

Ella & Rusty
 
i thought of you when i got the news of Rocket today....i'm sorry you are going thru this as well....

prayers for you and Butthead....
 
((((MJ)))) ((((Butthead))))

I'm glad you have some plans laid out for you. Whatever you decide, I know you'll be doing it in his best interest so that will make it the right decision. I'm sorry for this news.
 
MJ,

I am so sorry to hear this about your dear butthead. Whatever decision you make, know that we are here to support you. I will keep you and Butthead in my thoughts and prayers. I feel your pain.

(((MJ and Butthead)))
 
MJ - I am so deeply saddened to read this. I am glad that there are options for you, and that you have some time to make a decision, a decision that will be in Butthead's best interests. Whatever you decide know that all of us here support you. You will be in my thoughts. ((((Butthead))))
 
MJ, I'm so sorry that you got such bad news in regards to Butthead. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. (((((MJ & Butthead)))))
 
Oh (((((((((()))))))))), I am so sorry to hear this. Sending healing vines to Butthead and calming vines for you for your decision. cat_pet_icon cat_pet_icon cat_pet_icon
 
((((MJ)))))

I am so so so very sorry to hear this news. I know you will make the best choice for Butthead. Please let me know if there's anything I can do.

(((Butthead))) smooshes and scritches too.
 
(((MJ))) (((Butthead))).....we, like the others, are so very very sorry to hear this news. Your vet seems very good to lay out all your choices and what the results of each might be....alot to absorb and think about. We are all here for you and praying for you as you make this decision. Sending comfort vines to Butthead that he may remain pain free.
 
My heart hearts for you, MJ. So sorry to hear the mass has returned. Love and hugs coming to you, Butthead, and the rest of your crew.
 
Short message again since every time I come here, I start crying again :-|

I have decided at the very least to get the CT scan so we know what we're dealing with. Hopefully that will be scheduled soon. Waiting to hear back from the technician.

Your support means the world to me (&Butthead). Oh how I wish you could meet him!

MJ&Donovan&Butthead
 
((( MJ )))

Hugs for you, and scritches for Butthead. I'm encouraged that there are some options, but saddened by the need for different treatment. I know he's in good hands with you.
 
These decisions are always so hard. I am truly sorry for the bad news but am happy to hear there are a couple options should you decide to go with them. ((((((((MJ & Butthead)))))))) I am sending good vibes your way.
 
(((MJ and Butthead))) I'm sorry to read this news... Sending hugs and prayers for you both... :YMHUG:
 
Oh, MJ...I don't know what to say...

so deeply sorry to hear this news...sending fervent prayers, positive energy, and everything else we can muster to you, dear friend..Mr. Bailey Butthead, and Cap'n Donovan.

Hoping that Friday brings some hopeful and viable options.

Much Love to you...
and please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

Celi
 
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