12/17 Tom's last Caturday report.

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Sonia & Tom (GA)

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It's been a wonderful life.

Mommy and now exDH adopted me in October 1993 in Ottawa. I was about 6 weeks old and weighted 3/4 of a pound. I went home to Gatineau with them where Capucine the persian already lived. In 1996, Merlin the retired racing greyhound came along. He was nice, for a drooler.
In 1998, exDH left us and mommy had a really hard time. It was for the best but I had to take care of her for a while. Capucine was GA by then and mommy got joint custody of Merlin so he visited every other weekend until he became a GA in 2003.

In 1999 we moved to Montreal just the 2 of us for a fresh start. It was great 'cause we spent a lot of time together. Late 1999 mommy met daddy, now DH. He was nice but I had to protect her. Took some time for me to let him get close to mommy but eventually I did. He's really nice and good to all of us.
In 2001 they brought home Minnie, the Manx, who hissed at me for a while but it was great to finally have another kitty around. She finally realized how great I am and gave in to whatever wrestling or play fighting I wanted. Kind of...

I learned to hunt mice too. Caught 2 live ones in my lifetime. Caught hundreds of toy mice though. Usually late, late at night and would bring it to my parents usually accompanied by extremely loud meowing, just to be sure they were aware of how great a hunter I am. Continued to do so up until a few weeks ago. 

In 2002, daddy's work made us all move to Toronto. 
I was home in 2003 when they got married. I was there 9 months later when they left in the middle of the night, only to come back a few days later with a loud, sometimes smelly, little human. DD #1. I often kept mommy company in the middle of the night when she got up to feed/change. I wasn't sure what to make of the thing but I kinda like her now. Ok, love her.

Then in April 2008, mommy suspected something was off. Diabetes. She was soooo worried and kept kissing, hugging, poking. But soon I felt so much better. OTJ in less than a month. And except for a little bump in the road in the last few months, I stayed that way.
In November 2008, it was my turn again to take care of mommy when they lost DD#2. I did not leave her side until she felt better. 

April 2009, DD adopted her own kitten: 6 month old Sunrise. Wow. Was I everTHAT crazy? Oh Yes, and more, says mommy.
2009 came the CRF DX. Mommy adapted to try and help me as much as possible. I felt good. 

Late summer of 2011, mommy noticed that I was off again. October 1st came the verdict:squamous cell carcinoma. That proved to be too much. 
We tried. We fought hard for 11 weeks. But this is a battle that cannot be won.  I am now too tired, too much pain. It's time. 18 years, 4 months. Monday evening 7pmEST my parents will let me go.


I am so glad I have met you all. You have been amazing helpers, supporters and party buddies too. 
Please go cuddle and headbut your parents. They deserve it.
 
Tom,
You have done so much in your life! Visited so many places and had so many people to take care of. You were clearly a mighty hunter. You worked hard, and if you feel like it is time to rest, it's OK, Buddy. You deserve it. Don't worry about your people. They will miss you and think about you all the time, but they will smile when they talk about you and remember all the fun you had together. Sometimes you can look in on them and see how they are doing. You will find lots of friends where you are going next. Say hi to Bear Man and Teddy and Emily when you see them. They will be excited to see you, and show you around. You are starting a new adventure!
Until we meet again,
Pinkerton


(((Sonia))) My heart goes out to you and your family as you say your goodbyes to you loyal and loving friend, Tom. I know that your heart is breaking as you give Tom this last gift of time at home surrounded by his loved ones, and a peaceful passing. My heart is with you.
 
(((Sonia))) my heart is breaking for you. I know Tom has played a part in your life like no other and it has been so hard to watch him decline. Thank you for sharing him with us and for this beautiful tribute to his beautiful spirit.

(((Tom))) I 've only known you through words on a screen and for a short time. But I have come to love and admire your brave fighting spirit. When it is time to leave the struggle, settle into that special place in mama's heart. She will keep you close for the rest of eternity.
 
(((((Sonia))))) tears are falling for you. What a sweet sweet story of Tom's wonderful life. He will be a part of you always.
 
Well, I was going to type s/thg sweet but i can't see the the screen thru bawling.

Wonderful story of Tom's life. What a lovely tribute.

Peaceful passing, buddy, take many hugs and scritches from all of us w/you. Hugs and Love to your beans.
 
Hey Tom,
You are one fine kitty and you sure have had a lot of adventures in your long life. Now you are about to embark on the greatest adventure. We will all be by your side on Monday to light candles to help you find your way safely to the Bridge, where you will be greeted by Capuchin and Merlin and all of the LL kitties who have gone ahead. Chef Stu will cook a welcome feast for you and all the GAs will be there. It will be like our LL parties. And there will be many, many parties to come: full-moon parties where the GAs and the LL kitties party at the same time on opposite sides of the veil; and the best party of the year--on Halloween--when the veil is the thinnest and we can spend magical moments together.
Farewell, Tom, until we meet again. You are a brave kitty and it has been a privilege to know you.
Rusty


((((Sonia)))),
I know that this last weekend with Tom will be a poignant and loving farewell. We will be thinking of you and your family. Tom will always be with you in spirit.
Sending you strength and peace,

Ella & Edward
 
((((((((((Sonia))))))))) You and Tom have been through so much together, but you both know it is time. Treasure these last few days before you give him your final gift of release from his pain. Fly Free brave Tom. Mighty Hunter!
 
(((((SONIA)))))(((((((TOM))))))) My heart breaks for you, but you are doing what's best for him--
Prayers for Tom to Fly Free & Land Softly!--so so Sorry!
 
Sonia, my heart is heavy at this news. I know that Tom loves you and this is best but still - so hard. My prayers go out to the both of you. Fly free sweet Tom..

Pattie
 
(((((Sonia))))) (((((Tom))))) (((((DH & DD)))))

Tears are just dripping down my face. I know how you have struggled with this decision. We all do. It is your last act of kindness for a companion who has been with you through so many transitions in your life and who you so clearly love. We will light all of the candles in LL to guide Tom to the safety of the Bridge. All of our GAs will be there with him and for him until you are reunited.

WCF sent this to me a while ago. It is an eloquent fable about how, when we choose a beloved companion, we choose tears.
 
Sonia,my heart is crying for You!
Tom was a big part of Your life but time comes when we have to say Good by because everyone time is limited on this earth - same for pets.
It's heartbreaking!
Hugs to You and Your family!
 
Hi Tom... You have had the bestest ever life, so many adventures. This new one will the greatest ever. I am so glad that you have the kindest beans ever and that they will let you come to the bridge. I have so many friends there and know you will be well happy and cared for by all of them. Best wishes on your travel there. I will light a candle for you so you can find your way, and land softly. You are very brave! I will miss you my friend... ~~ Mannie

Sonia - I am so sorry... I know how hard and difficult this is for you. I know too that this is the kindest gift anyone can give our kitties. May the memories of all that was and is comfort you. Fly free little one! wings_cat
 
(((((Sonia))))) and (((((Tom))))) Tom, you've had a great life and now I wish you well on your journey to the rainbow bridge.
Liz
 
((((Sonia, DH, DD, Tom)))) We will all be thinking of you this weekend. That you are giving him his greatest gift of love, freedom from pain and a peaceful passing. Many tears here.
 
Tom, you are my hero. You have lived a great life, and Mannie is right, your next adventure is just about to begin, i'm sure even though you will be gone in person you won't be gone from your beans life, they will forever miss you and talk about you always. Your friend Leo.

((((((Sonia)))))) I am so sorry to read about this, and Leo and I will light a candle for Tom on Monday. Love your boy with everything you have this weekend and give him a hug for us too.
 
(((Sonia))) So, sorry. I lost my kitty Stubby to mouth cancer, too. There is just nothing that can fix it. Sounds like Tom had a good life with you.

:YMHUG: Sandy - Dottie, Tilly and Jeter
 
Tears running down my face. I know how much you love your family. That's a lovely story of your life. You are a great hunter and protector. (((((Hugs and skritches))))) from us.
 
(((Sonia & Tom))) What an amazing, beautiful life you had Tom with your family. Thanks for sharing your story. Maggie and I will light a candle Monday evening to light the way for Tom. Hugs and prayers for you, Sonia.
 
Tom...brave hunter and wonderful friend...as you embark on this journey, you will hear our quiet purrs and feel the love of Lantus Kitties surround you.
We admire you and will all miss you terribly...but know that you will be welcomed by a most wonderful group of GA's when you cross.
It has been an honor and a privilege to know you. Land softly, Beloved Boy.
Binks


Sonia, dear- my heart goes out to you...and I am so terribly sorry for the grief you are feeling.
You have shared a wonderful life with Tom.
Please give him a loving hug and kiss from Binks,
and know that we are holding you closely in heart and thoughts.

celi
 
Aww Sonia. I'm so sorry that your beloved Tom has to leave you on Monday. Your tribute is absolutely beautiful. What a deep and wonderful love and life you and Tom have shared.

My thoughts are with you during this sad time. Many hugs to you and to Tom. (((((Sonia & Tom)))))
 
((((Sonia)))), it is so hard to let someone we love go and I know your heart is breaking for your sweet Tom. Your tribute paints a truly wonderful picture of Tom and his long, amazing life with you and your family. I will be lighting a candle for Tom on Monday.
 
((((Sonia)))) ((((Tom)))) We will be there with you as you give Tom the ultimate gift on Monday. I am so sorry that it is Tom's time to take leave of his worldly life, but he will live on in my heart and in your memories.
 
Sonia,
Love him every moment you have left with him...tell him how much you love him....every minute with him is a gift....cherish the moments....

i'm so sorry you are going through this....

praying for you two to have a good weekend together....of love, cuddles, hugs, kisses.....
 
((Sonia)) I am so sorry that Tom will fly free on Monday.
The hardest decision is made with your total love for your boy.

I will pray for a safe crossing and soft landings for Tom.
Fly free sweet boy.
Always loved, never forgoten.
 
((((((Sonia)))))) I'm crying as I write this. I am keeping you and Tom in my thoughts and heart and wish he has a peaceful crossing. I can only imagine the pain in your heart but you will be able to set him free. I wish I could give you a real hug. Tom was meant to be only yours. Every day you had with him is a gift.
 
Hugs for Sonia! You did good by your Tom, and he knows that.

Tom, keep your Mom's seat nice and warm at the bridge...'til you meet again.
 
((((Sonia)))
I am so very sorry.
I know you will cherish the time you have with your sweet boy.
Lots of love, snuggles and kisses for Tom kitty.
 
Well Tom you certainly have had a great life! You have always had your mom and I know you are tight. When your mom lets you go this is going to be especially hard on her. So like you always have, take care of her and let her know its ok. You will be meeting my Sara and many other GA's at the bridge. You will be playing and be in no more pain. Oh I almost forgot one of the best parts. You will even be catching a few mice. :-D You'll be fine.

Sonia,
My heart goes out to you and your DH. I will be thinking of you on monday. That was such a nice tribute that you gave Tom. He did have a great long life. But no matter I know it's always hard to say goodbye to such a friend.
 
(((((((sonia & tom)))))) what a wonderful life you've given your little guy - and he's given you! my heart goes out to you in these final days together . . . :YMHUG:
 
(((((Sonia & Tom)))))

I am so sorry that this day has come for you both. That was a very loving and beautiful post...
and everyone is so right...this is a loving and compassionate thing you do Sonia...but it is also the hardest thing too.....
I wish your final hours with Tom to be filled with all the wonderful memories you have had...and with the warmth of your love and many hugs....we will all be thinking of you as the hours pass....

Fly free Dear Handsome Tom.....we will miss you. Look for Jealousy...he knows you are coming. When you see him, you will think you are looking in a mirror. He has the same dreamy eyes....you handsome boys look like twins!!!
He will welcome you and show you the ropes along with all the other kitties who have GA....
Can you please tell him that his Mama and Raja & Shadow miss him a lot and give him hugs and kisses from us?
Jealousy will help you...don't be afraid.....all our kitties at the Rainbow Bridge will be there to welcome you...and we will all be hugging you here too...and missing you...until we meet again......
(((Dear Tom)))
~~love from Raja & Shadow
 
What a wonderful and happy life Tom has lived. There could not be a cat on the planet who knows better than him how much he is loved and cherished by his beans. My heart is crying for you Sonia because I know how much you'll miss Tom but there is no other choice and you have love enough to know that. I would give -well I don't know what- but A LOT- for 18 years. You have all been very lucky to have this beautiful life together.

I hope you are having a Sunday to beat all Sundays and making it yet another day day to keep in your heart to cherish and remember.

I am so very sorry.

Hugs~
Caryl
 
I am so sorry to read this, but what a wonderful tribute you have posted to Tom. And your love of Tom shines through. It doesn't matter how much extra time we get with our fur babies - it is never enough. Sending you prayers of peace and comfort. There are many sugar cats waiting for Tom at the Bridge and there will be lots of mice for him to catch.
 
Thank you for the support. We are having a weekend with lots of cuddles.

He can't eat by himself anymore. We still syringe feed but he is not wanting much. He is having trouble getting food down. We added some tuna water to the blended food and he went crazy for it, but he is not getting enough. The mass grew a lot the last few days and his tongue is now hanging out the side of his mouth. He is so skinny.

Tom is not making it easy though. He cuddles and purrs and actually brought us his toy mouse twice today. I have no idea how he managed that with the mass there :sad: Made me second guess our decision. I swear he is fighting to stay to take care of me but we can't have him continue this way. :cry:

You guys are great.
 
Sonia & Tom said:
Thank you for the support. We are having a weekend with lots of cuddles.

He can't eat by himself anymore. We still syringe feed but he is not wanting much. He is having trouble getting food down. We added some tuna water to the blended food and he went crazy for it, but he is not getting enough. The mass grew a lot the last few days and his tongue is now hanging out the side of his mouth. He is so skinny.

Tom is not making it easy though. He cuddles and purrs and actually brought us his toy mouse twice today. I have no idea how he managed that with the mass there :sad: Made me second guess our decision. I swear he is fighting to stay to take care of me but we can't have him continue this way. :cry:

You guys are great.


(((Sonia))) You are Tom's mom, and you know him best. Don't hesitate to rethink your decision if you need to. Having said that, I let Bear Man go on a day when he was feeling comfortable. I knew that he would try to stay a bit longer if I asked him to. I am grateful for my memories of him going in comfort, rather than in distress in an urgent situation. I did the same for Emily and for Teddy. Every situation is different, and only you can know what is right for you and Tom. You have to know in your heart that what you are doing is the right thing.

I am keeping you and Tom in my prayers.
 
Tom: we will miss you as you travel to cross the Rainbow Bridge and wait for all your loved ones there. You will see all your GAs and all of our other ones, too. My GA sister, Teddi, sends me messages that it is wonderful there...no pain, only happiness. But she misses the love of our beans and so you will miss your wonderful bean and DH and their DD. We will see you through the veil. Have a gentle journey Tom. We all love you.


(((SOnia))): I don't know what to say other than Tom's story is very poignant and I am so happy you have had this weekend with him. He will always be with you. We will light a candle for Tom. And he knows no greater love or gift than that you are giving him tomorrow.
 
Lighting a candle for Tom. We love you.
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(((((Sonia))))) How lucky you were to have Tom - and how lucky Tom was to have you. I am so sad for your loss, yet I know what a beautiful life, full of love, you gave him. He's free of pain, and I know he hopes your heart will be lighter soon.
 
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