I have to jump in and echo Perry's thoughts. I've never found restraining a cat to work to anyone's benefit. It has to be a positive experience for him. I can't remember how you tried to do his ear....seems I do remember you weren't getting anywhere with it. We all have developed our own methods of doing ear pokeys but I think
the basic thing is not to restrain him by holding him down. I know none of my cats would respond well to being scruffed.
One suggestion...it might help...it's a pseudo restraint, I guess, but not like what he's getting now. Shortly after I got Tobey, my kitten, I needed to be able to give him
Albon from a syringe. When I first tried to do it like the other cats, he, of course, resisted because he didn't know what it was about. So I just got a hand towel (because he was little), and just wrapped it around him and overlapped it on his back where I could hold it. That made ALL the difference in the world...he didn't struggle and he
learned how to take something from a syringe. Only a couple nights of that and he didn't need the towel anymore. I know in assist-feeding cats, they often do the same thing....you don't want the towel really tight but just around them...I don't know if that would help you with his ears or his paws but you wouldn't have to hold his legs, scruff him, hold his tail, etc.
Let us know..good luck...but Perry is right....you MUST get more tests so the advisors can see what is going on....whether these numbers are hard bounces from dangerously low BGs or his numbers really are that high, it's not good for him and no one can know what kind of dose he needs until you have more data. I know you are tired at night....we all are...but we have to do it. I figure if I'm getting 3-4 hours uninterrupted sleep at a time on the weekends, I am one lucky girl. If Gracie is trending down and it's late, I just set my phone alarm and lay down on the couch, get up, test, go back to sleep until the next alarm goes off, get up, test, etc.
We are trying to be supportive...we all want to help.