11/4 Max -- How long should I allow this to go on?

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max&emmasmommie

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Helle everyone,

Thank you to all who posted on my last condo: http://www.felinediabetes.com/FDMB/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=82290 for your thoughts, kindness and suggestions about how to help Max. You are all such wonderful people!

At the moment, the sad news is that Max definitely has cancer, and he has all but stopped eating. We aren't going to do a biopsy to find out what type of cancer. His kidneys are much worse, and we don't think the risks are worth the possible benefits. I think we may discover which type it is eventually because we have been told that sarcoma does not spread as fast, but carcinoma does and is very aggressive.

Max is clearly hungry -- that is the upsetting thing. If we put a spoonful of food to his mouth he doesn't want it; if we hold it there he will eat it hungrily just a few moments later, but one spoonful is all we can get into him at a time. If Max had no appetite and didn't want food at all, I might be able to accept that he is ready to go. He's not, though, and I hate to let him get weak just because I don't know what to do. Max went to his bowl earlier today on his own and ate some -- very little. After the first dose of Bupe he started to purr again. Something is bothering him a lot with regard to eating.

The vet prescribed Buprenex once every 8 hours and Cerenia once a day. He offered an appetite stimulant, but I don't think appetite is the problem. I have elevated his food bowl and his water fountain. I was giving him Pepcid -- 1/4 of a 10 mg pill every other day -- and I have now increased it to every day. I don't give him the Bupe every 8 hours unless he appears to need it. If he looks relaxed, I assume he feels good. However, tonight I gave it to him because it had been 10 hours since his last dose, and he hadn't had Pepcid in about 48 hours.

He sat outside on the chaise lounge for hours today. He is presently sitting on the love seat right next to us. He has put up with a Bupe dose and a blood test (95), and seems to be resting comfortably right now. Isn't is amazing that his BG is good?

I'm giving him fluids, too. Max's kidney values were pretty bad the other day. His creatinine was at 5.7 and his BUN was in the 70s. I know the high BUN/dehydration can make the creatinine number artifically high. I really thought I was being careful with the Fluids, but giving them often enough. I guess not. Now there is no reason to try to walk a fine line between avoiding strain on the kidneys and yet barely keeping him hydrated enough. I'm giving Fluids frequently as he's not eating enough to get them any other way.

I presume that the pancreatitic cancer is having a similar effect as mere pancreatitis would have on Max's stomach acid, and his ability to process food. The CRF must be interfering, too. If we can't get him eating, his time is short indeed. His weight on 10/31 was 9.42; on 10/25 it was 9.72 and on 9/17 it was 11 pounds. He was doing so very well right before he went OTJ on Sept 27th, but he must have had cancer then, too.

I have questions: Bupe might be an appetite suppressent or he doesn't care about anything including food when he's on it? He stopped eating well back before the 18th, and I didn't give the first dose of Bupe until November 2nd. He had a good poo on the 25th that indicated to me that he'd eaten enough. Since then his intake has become progressively less. He's had about 3 to 4 ounces of food, if that, in the last 48 hours. In the previous 48 hours he ate about 12 ounces.

Cerenia might be the wrong anti-nausea? The radiologist said that the location of the tumor should not be affecting Max's stomach or intestines in any physical way, but the pancreas does help process food in various ways and there may be a chemical/hormonal issue. I haven't seen poo in days. He's doing it outside perhaps? He will pee in the box, but not poo; It's not on the beds, and that has always been his signal that he is very sick or angry.

What else could we give him? Anyone have any suggestions? I need to get a prescription for the MaxCal, but otherwise any medications or foods anyone recommend?

We are sad, we cry, we can't stand losing him, but we were talking today about how he is dying in a way many would prefer with people who love him and are keeping him from feeling pain. That is something.
 
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Oh Dale, I'm so sorry! I think I would assist feed him. I use a syringe. I would get the maxcal right away and some large syringes if I were you and sit him on your lap with a towel and slowly and gently try to get a few syringes at a time into him. For now, just water down his food and try it that way but use one that he doesn't like that much so he doesn't develop a dislike for something he loves.

I'm sorry I don't know the name of other anti-nausea drugs but did you look at Marje's pancreatitis lesson? She might have it in there. I was about to go to sleep when I saw your post. Put a ? in the title so everyone knows you have a question. That might help also.

You poor thing. I know you must be sick over Max. Lots of strength vines and hugs to you and Max. I feel so badly for you.

Hugs,
Melanie & Racci
 
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(((Dale))) I'm so sorry and saddened about Max. Those are some very good questions with the Cerenia and eating. My Mikey had an intestinal cancer. I did use the Mirtazapine briefly with his appetite, and it did help, but he wasn't on the Cerenia or anti-nausea meds. With the poo, do you think he could be a little constipated. I'm sure you will get more advice as soon as Beans are awake. With not eating much, he wouldn't go every day. You're doing the right thing in my book with keeping Max comfortable and loving and cherishing each day with him. My heart and prayers go out to you and DH and little Emma. (((Hugs)))
 
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Dale I sorry to hear Max isn't eating as he should. It appears you are doing all that you can for him. I'm sure Max knows that you are helping him and loves you all the more for it. Keeping him from pain and comfortable is most important. I'm so sorry I can't help you with your question on meds, I wish I could. We have you, your family and Max in our prayers.
 
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Oh Dale, so sorry that Max is unable to eat. Ive experienced with a kitty in such state. What I did is to give her multiple feeding every day, warm up the food a little & hand feed her a tsp every time. Of course this was not a solution to her medical problem but it did kept her going for a mth more. At that time she was not in pain. Until one fine day, she decided to refuse food , then I let her leave.
Hope Max feels better. You're in our thoughts & prayer.
 
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Hello,

I don't think I have posted in your condo. I have been reading a bit about your Max. I also had a kitty who had pancreatic cancer. I think you are doing a great job of caring for Max with his serious disease. I just had a couple of thoughts after reading your condo. I think that Bupe can make them sedated enough that they don't bother to eat. I wonder if you would like to try just very gradually tapering back his dose by tiny amounts to see if he still gets good pain control, but is more awake and alert? Just a thought, as I know that pain control is a huge part of dealing with his cancer, and you don't want to compromise that. I also believe that Bupe is constipating, so that may be contributing to the lack of stool.

As far as nausea and anti-emetics, Cerenia is a very good drug, in my experience using it on my cats. I have also used Ondansetron, and my vet prescribed both Ondansetron and Cerenia "layered" at the same time. That might be worth trying.

I also think that the Pepcid is a good drug for helping him with the upset stomach caused potentially caused by toxins from his CRF.

My heart goes out to you and Max. It seems that you are doing all you can to keep him comfortable and feeling loved, and that you are very tuned in to his every need.
 
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(((Dale)))

So Sorry to hear about Max and hope that he will be encouraged to eat a little better with the meds and syringe feeding if he can tolerate it. We were recommended Ondansetron too for Leo's nausea on car rides, but we opted for Cerenia because Cerenia is better for acute vomiting and Ondansetron is better for overall nausea, so I would definitely ask about that one. From what I recall when our dog had pancreatitis several years ago, the vet said that increasing the daily dose of Pepcid was fine, so maybe that will help too.

My heart goes out to you. We lost Josie last year to a very quick cancer last year and feel like we are right back there hearing about you and Max. Hearing what you're going through, you are doing the very best for him and that's all he expects and needs, and you'll be there to know how Max feels, and that's what's important. Many many hugs and vines to all of you.
 
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We give Zener 1 mg of ondansetron twice a day and 1/8 of a zantac twice a day. Zantac is like pepcid but helps with stomach motility, which is Zener's issue. We also give him 1 mg of cerenia 3 times per week. The pill form is much easier to give and much cheaper than the injections but the injections are needed if the cat if vomiting. The Yahoo Feline Assisted Feeding group is great, especially the video on the home page. We've done the syringe feeding and it's not easy but it gave Zener the food he needed. Hugs to you and Max and sending tons of healing vines to your guy.
Liz
 
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((((Dale))))

I'm so sorry. It sounds like you are keeping him feeling loved and comforted. I had hoped so much for a lesser diagnosis.
I believe the bupe really plays havoc with appetites. Wondering about the kfc chicken like Alex had to find for Rueben when he wasn't eating.

I sent you a pm just now.
I sent you an email the other day to test that I had your email address correct. Did you get it?

Praying for your family.
 
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ecurie's mary said:
http://felinediabetes.com/FDMB/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=82481&p=888020#p888020 ......

I miss visiting condos, but using this goofy phone is just about impossible. Of someone sees this could you tell Dale that I am praying for her and sweet little Max.

Have great day and big hugs to you all.
Lots of love from our house to all of you
Mary and Oliver

Mary, Mark and Oliver

Dale, Mary wanted to be sure you knew you're in their prayers too, I copied her message above.....lots from our house here too. I believe you're doing just the right thing, just love, cuddle and enjoy the time left...you'll cherish this time later.

BIG HUG for all,
 
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(((((Dale & Max)))))

I'm sorry that I don't have experience with the remedies you are using and those that you are thinking of trying. But Rusty and I want to send you some beautiful vines: comfort vines, no-pain vines, better eating vines, vines of love. We are thinking of you.

Many :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: s

Ella & Rusty
 
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Dale

Sending you all prayers for Max. I have also been in this situation and I believe there is a lot to be said for supportive care and tons of love which is what you are doing for him.

I was going to relay the same info as some of the others but they beat me to it. There are some good suggestions. One question that wasn't answered was regarding his BG. Typically, the cancer uses the extra sugar in the blood and that is why his BG would remain normal. I don't know if it is an ECID as Rocket did not stay in normal numbers but he had alot going on besides just the cancer and CKD.

I've had Gus on a maintenance dose of bupe for a long time and it does not seem to thwart his appy. I think Linda has a good suggestion.

I would also think about assist (syringe) feeding him using the MaxCal. You don't want to deal with liver issues on top of everything else. When our Teddi had lymphoma, she wouldn't eat on her own but she gobbled it down when I assist fed her.
 
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HI Dale- I am so sorry about max. I have no experience in dealing with any of this, wish I could help, but I can't... I think you are doing wonderfully with him, keeping him comfortable. I will be keeping you in my thoughts.
 
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(((Dale)))

What Marje said about the cancer using the sugar reminded me of what
Lori went thru with TomTom. He was eating HC dry food towards the end and remained in low numbers. What I remember most though is that when she couldn't get him to eat, she found that raw chicken livers worked like magic. Someone gave her a recipe for a "liver shake" that she tried too.

Prayers and vines from us to you,
Carl
 
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♥♥♥ (((Dale and Max))) ♥♥♥
Thinking of you. Glad that Max seems comfortable but sure wish he would eat.
I hope that you will find the right combination of meds and food to continue his quality of life for a lot longer.
I know this struggle and hope you have many more months together.

You are a wonderful momma to sweet Max.
 
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((((Dale and Max)))) Sending you loads of love and hugs. I can't give you any input on the meds since I don't have any experience with them, but it seems like you are doing the best that you can for Max to keep him comfortable. I agree on the syringe feeding if you can. Love you guys!
 
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Thank you all so much. I was just trying to give him a Cerenia dose. He wouldn't take the food I had put in it. I took another dose and enveloped it in butter. He fought me on that and looked at me as if to say, "Why, when I feel so crummy, would you try to force something down my throat?" The dose disintegrated in my hand and his mouth by the time I gave up. He tried to run away from me, but he's weak.

It broke my heart to have to give him a dose of Bupe next, but I knew he would feel better when it takes effect. I have given up on the Cerenia for now. So much for trying to give a dose of Pepcid right now, too. I put him on the bed with his Daddy, and I came here. Finding your messages is so nice.

I'm not sure about continuing down this road. This morning he scratched in his box and then walked away. He did the same thing a few minutes later. I let him outside, he scratched in some dirt and tried again. Nothing. Then, he went upstairs, jumped on the bed and proceeded to try to poo. My husband was sleeping there, and I was standing right there, too. He couldn't poo. Finally he gave up. I could give him Miralax, but I've always mixed that into his food. I would have to dissolve it in water and syringe feed it.

One of his eyes has a fair amount of white discharge coming from it. There has been a little there off and on for months, but the volume has increased 10 fold in just 12 hours or so. He looks miserable. Even when he's on bupe he hates getting subcue fluids and pills. He gags when I squirt the bupe into his throat. Is this fair to him? There is no way to make him understand that these annoyances will make him feel better. How long should I continue?

EDITED: He is much better now that the bupe is on board. We are going to have a Quality of Life assessment at the vet tomorrow or Tues. I'm going to give him Miralax now. However, any thoughts from you would be greatly appreciated.
 
Good - very happy to hear he's feeling a little better with the bupe. We're thinking about you and sending vines and hugs and more hugs.
 
Oh Dale- All I can offer is sending you prayers and :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

Having that conversation w/ the vet is never fun but hopefully you will be able to get enough information to make the best decision. My heart goes out to you. I am so glad the bupe is helping right now.

Karen
 
My heart goes out to you too. I wish I could give you an answer. That discussion with the vet will, I hope, help you with your decision. Somehow I know too you will know in your heart when it is time. They always seem to find away to tell us.

Hugs to all. I will keep you all in my thoughts.
 
(((Dale))) sending vines and prayers for the Quality of Life Assessment visit at the Vet. I'm glad the Bupe is helping him feel better and hope the Miralax helps Max poo. That's a very hard decision, and I hope the Vet visit will help. Sometimes when you think it's time, the kitty will turn around and rally. I like what Michelle & Mannie said in that you will know in your heart when it is time, and Max will find a way to tell you.
Hugs and prayers.
 
(((((Dale)))))

This is such a hard time, I know. I was starting to wrestle with the same thoughts with Jazzy last year, and was actually a little grateful that she took the decision out of my hands for me.

This is a good link that I have seen shared here before: QOL Assessment
 
Hi Dale. I'm so glad that the Bupe finally began to work and Max is feeling a bit better. We had a similar situation with an 18-1/2 year old poodle so I really feel for you and what you're going through. I believe you are doing the right thing by having the Quality of Life meeting with the vet because the information from that meeting will help you & DH when making decisions on Max's care. I honestly believe, like one of the posters said, that Max will let you know when he's ready. It might be gesture or just a certain glance, but whatever it is you'll recognize it. We will be thinking of you and your family and Max and keeping you in our prayers.
 
I'm glad you will be doing the QOL assessment with the vet tomorrow. I know it is very hard to even think about that, but it is something that has to be done.

My Token had renal failure and towards the end I had to give him fluids twice a day. Oh, how he hated those fluids. It got to the point where every time he saw me he would run away. He didn't want to cuddle with me, he didn't want anything to do with me because in his mind, when he saw me I was going to put that needle into him. I had to decide whether I wanted him to be like that until it was time for him to go or if I wanted him to feel love, feel me petting him and kissing him, I didn't want him to be afraid every time I came near him. So I chose to quite the fluids and let him enjoy what little time he had left with me. Although it wasn't a very long time, it was enough of time for him to forget his fear and start to cuddle with me again.

So, you will know when the time is...you will figure out what his QOL is and plan according. I'm sure that you know we are all here for you.
 
((((((((((Dale))))))))))) I am so sorry to see Max failing so quickly. I know it hurts so much to see him like this, prayers for you QOL decision .
 
Dale I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with this. I don't have any advice, I just wanted to say you are doing the best you can for Max and he knows that. I will keep you all in my prayers.
 
Thanks everyone. For those who have come to be supportive but have no advice or have given advice I can't follow: you are very important to me and I greatly appreciate you taking the time to post your words of love and caring although you don't know how exactly to "help." You ARE helping just by being here.

Libby & Lucy, thank you for the link! I found it very enlightening, and I feel better now about keeping him for another day or two at least.

Deb & Spot, exactly my fear. I want him to feel loved at the end not persecuted. I woke up this morning afraid I would find he had passed, and the last moment we had together I was doing something to him that he hates. Afterward, he doesn't want to be loved on or cuddled for a while.

To all who have suggested assist feeding: thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. After Max eats a spoonful of food he starts to look like he's very uncomfortable or in pain. It's as if the food itself is causing nausea or discomfort or even pain. Last night, he ate a spoonful and then suddenly ran away as if trying to get away from something he didn't like. I don't think I can stand to see him like this much longer. Perhaps he has mouth ulcers or esophogeal ulcers, something like that? There is so much going on between the pancreas and the kidneys that can cause stomach problems, acid, and nausea.

I will try to syringe feed him, but I am quite concerned that he will hate it and/or that having food in his esophogus or stomach is causing him pain or increased nausea. I know you all understand that it is very hard for me imagine being the CAUSE of any additional pain or misery as he is terminal. However, if I am avoiding a greater harm by doing so, perhaps.

My inclination is that it is time to help him move on to the next state of being. My husband thinks so, too. I'm just not sure enough to jump right in and put him to sleep quite yet.

Linda wrote:

I also had a kitty who had pancreatic cancer. . . . I think that Bupe can make them sedated enough that they don't bother to eat. I wonder if you would like to try just very gradually tapering back his dose by tiny amounts to see if he still gets good pain control, but is more awake and alert? Just a thought, as I know that pain control is a huge part of dealing with his cancer, and you don't want to compromise that. I also believe that Bupe is constipating, so that may be contributing to the lack of stool.
Thank you, Linda, for suggesting the Ondansetron. Thank you also for your suggestion about the Bupe. He is not zonked out. He is alert on the Bupe, but he appears to be able to lie down on his side, lean down to sniff the floor, etc. when he is on it. He goes outside, and sniffs around. He lies on the chaise lounge and surveys the patio as if there is nothing wrong. At the moment he is on the balcony. I am happy to see that he isn't sitting over his water bowl looking miserable or appearing as if he wants to lie down, but doesn't think it's a good idea.

If he can't eat, but he's hungry and eating causes pain when he does give in to his hunger, that is not any way to live. I'm worried that I'm letting him starve to death. If the tumor is, as Marje said, taking all the nutrition/sugars from him, he's starving just as he would with uncontrolled diabetes. Maybe that is why he went OTJ. Carl, I will try to chicken livers. Thank you for suggesting that. Perhaps his brain will get he signal that he's full for at least a while if he will eat those.

He doesn't want to be petted or touched. He even walked away from me a little bit when I stepped out on the balcony with him. When I reached down to pet his head, at least he raised it a bit to meet my hand, but he didn't seem to enjoy the petting the way he should. I think he was glad to realize I wasn't going to try to push something in his mouth, and wanted the love, but he probably doesn't feel pleasure or pain when he's on the Bupe. I hope he doesn't feel the discomfort of starving either.

Thank you to everyone for your suggestions, and for your love. It is priceless.
 
Dale, I am so sorry you are facing this. My friends took their cat to an animal psychic to help guide them in their decision, not sure what is available in your area. I hope the QOL assessment at the vet helps you determine the best course and find peace with whatever you decide. Hugs :YMHUG: for you and comfort vines for Max.
 
I have a fantastic animal communicator and she is extremely reasonable. I've used her for about 12 years and many of my friends whose kitties were close to transitioning have also used her.....like Rosalie if you remember her and Morgaine.
 
I am so so sorry to hear this.. I wish I could offer some advice here but I hope tomorrow your vet will be able to advise or assist in what to do next.. Hugs.

Wendy
 
So sorry to hear about poor Max.
When it's his time, I'm sure you will know what to do.
In the mean time, have you tried tuna water? Most cats love it and it will give some nutrition. In fact, I'd give him whatever he loves to eat.....
Hugs and Peace .....

Someone mentioned the Liver Shake. Here it is:
THE '~LIVER SHAKE~' FOR SICK CATS

This liquid food is appropriate for cats suffering from conditions where they are eating very little or not at all such as anemias, leukemias, deficiency states with symptoms of lethargy, listlessness, and weakness.

1 cup RAW LIVER (BEEF, or CHICKEN)
1 cup FRESH CARROT JUICE or V-8, or Tomatoe Juice
1/4 cup *FRESH FILTERED WATER
1 RAW EGG YOLK
1 tsp.KELP POWDER OR SPIRULINA


COMBINE AND MIX IN A BLENDER UNTIL LIQUEFIED. (Note: it will be frothy)

Dosage:

Administer 10cc daily 3-6 times a day. (6Occ per day max)

Some cats will need to be force-fed with a syringe, while others will drink it out of a bowl.

This food has a sweet and salty taste, and the energetic properties of tonifying (energy boosting), warming and stimulating and supports the kidneys, spleen, liver and stomach.

This drink is a complete dinner for a sick cat until they feel good enough to eat by themselves again.

*Substitute rice water if the cat has diarrhea. Rice water
is made by boiling white rice (2 Tbsp) with water (1cup) for 30 minutes.
This liquid aids digestion and assimilation and inhibits the symptoms of diarrhea.

Deborah C. Mallu,DVM
Holistic Veterinary Care
215 Disney lane
Sedona, AZ 86336
Tel 520-282-5651
Fax 520-282-3586
Email canyonct@sedona.net


FYI -Dr. Mallu was asked about forwarding the Liver Shake recipe on to allo vets, and she said to credit it to Dr. Ihor Basko in Kauai, Hawaii
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((((Dale and Max))))
This is such a hard decision to make. I like Libby's posting of the QOL questionnaire. I have a friend who just went through this decision last week with her drooler, and I had many recent discussions with her on QOL. Between the questionnaire and your vets advice, I'm sure the answer will be clearer. And Max will help you with the decision. :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

I saw that Carl had mentioned the liver shake. In case you couldn't find it, here is the recipe for Liver Shake for sick cats.
 
Dear Dale,
More hugs for you, DH, and Max (and Emma, too). I know how difficult is is to make the decision. Max will help you. It will be unmistakable when the time comes. Our Alice hid from us for 3 days after she overheard the vet tell us that she had a fast-moving cancer. But after she thought about it, she came out of hiding and rested relatively comfortably for several weeks, listening to her favorite music. We told her that we would help her when her time came, and I truly believe that she communicated to us that she was ready to leave. Stu patiently gave himself over to our loving farewell, but I could tell he was already passing to the other realm. Every situation is different, but you will know. Give your boy all your love (and try to keep him out of pain).

:YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

Ella & Rusty
 
I am so sorry to hear about Max. I know how difficult it is.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
He will let you know when it's time.
I know when DC was first diagnosed with pancreatitis, he still seemed interested in food but didn't want to eat.
I did syringe feed him for a bit but then realized if I sat with him on the bed or couch and held the bowl up for him so that he didn't have to bend, he would finish most of the bowl on his own.
I don't know if this would help for Max but it might be worth a try.
Also with the bupe, it took me a bit to get to a dose where he didn't seem to be out of it all the time.
I believe the dose I ended up with was 0.1ml
I was also told not to squirt it down his throat, but into his cheek or on his gums.
When I did squirt it down his throat he just gagged, he was ok with it into his cheek.
 
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