11/28 Johnny AMPS 302 PMPS 336

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Janice & Johnny

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We're back from our travels! Johnny was a great traveler (as usual), but it was a bit harder than I/we expected to adjust to a different time zone and work around the family's schedule to get spot checks. We were fine as far as keeping the shots on schedule and got a couple of spot checks in here and there.

This was the first time we've traveled pretty far with Johnny since his dx. It was a pretty frustrating experience and not because of Johnny! My in-laws let it be known upon arrival that Johnny would be sleeping in the (finished but not well-heated) basement with their cat. They enjoy the ritual of putting him to bed (open door, close door) and moving on with their night. Their cat seems to enjoy this ritual to an extent, but never before have our cats been expected to do the same. We haven't been there in 3 years or so. This is their vacation house, so "our" bedroom is a room where lots of friends stay throughout the year with them and they were talking about allergies, etc. It was clear I wasn't going to win the war, but would have to choose my battles. I am very respectful about their wishes most of the time, but I was FURIOUS to think that Johnny just drove 400 miles to sleep in a basement. He usually sleeps in his bed in our room. I commented (a little loudly and very unlike my typical self with them) that, if that was the arrangement they desired, Oscar (their OVERWEIGHT cat) wouldn't be able to have his food out at night. We both said that Johnny couldn't eat Oscar's food (science diet for urinary tract, hard food). They said it would be fine for Johnny to eat the food, it was only for a few days. I held myself back from going CRAZY, but stated that it wasn't going to happen. It would be like having a diabetic kid over and serving him a bowl of lollipops. I'm sure I could've made my point better, but I was *shaking* I was so upset and caught off guard. Brian was supportive of me/Johnny. They just didn't *get* it. They wanted to then have no food out, so Oscar didn't have to eat "our" food. We said Johnny needs to have food available at all times. It's how he is able to control his blood glucose. This all happened as we walked in the door from a long, rainy/sleety/dark car trip and 30 minutes before sitting down to Thanksgiving dinner. :roll: Long story short, we made Johnny a great chair fort (bed on a chair with a blanket drapped over) and he was fine. Soft food stayed out all night, but there were times they offered hard food to Oscar at times during the early morning (they get up at the crack of dawn), left it out, and Johnny was more than happy to eat some. Sigh. It must be wonderful to be ignorant about diabetes. My mother-in-law even suggested that we could let him eat treats/hard food and just give him more insulin. :shock: Siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh. (that's the nicest thing I can say here). Anyways, we did our best to control them and his numbers...and now we are back at home and in control.

He did hit some nice greens while there! 50s/60s. Hard to dosecrease a drop. :) Yippee for being home. :-D
 
Oh yikes! (I'm being polite.... that's not what I'm thinking.) I hope you didn't have heartburn during dinner. I would have.

Glad you are home where Johnny can get the love and care he really needs. ((((Hugs to you.))))
 
Thanks. It really felt like an ambush of sorts. We'd made plans for our three cats to stay with our friends over Thanksgiving, but with Johnny going back on insulin this week, we said that we'd have to bring him with us. We made it work as best we could (Brian stayed downstairs with Johnny the first night and realized he was totally fine...harder on the beans), but future trips will have far (FAR!!!!!) more discussion beforehand. Best news: In-laws are going away for a few weeks in February/March and we are watching Oscar. He's going to lose a ton of weight (and feel great!!) while they're gone. He was fine with the wet food. We've told them that they don't need to buy the prescription diet (Oscar has had some urinary tract infections a few years ago; he's 12) and he'd be far better off on wet food. We've done what we could, but I just know there will be a big difference in him when they pick him up and maybe it will open their eyes.
 
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