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Are Ravan and Alice spending time together?

Alice stays downstairs in the rec room & Ravan is near me in the front room. They will occasionally cuddle together.

Neither of them reacted at all to Peggy Sue dying. I had her wrapped in a blanket by the doorway this morning & both cats saw her but didn't even sniff her or anything. They both used to wash her face & cuddle with her before she died.

I wish it was spring or summer & my garden was blooming. It was so difficult, (painful) to bury her today. We were together so much.I miss her terribly,especially at night. My house just feels empty without her here ,following me around.
Ravan has been coming to bed now every night.He knows how upset I am. I'm so grateful I still have him & Alice.

He'll have blood work done next Wed. & I'm hoping he'll be OK. I can't lose him too. It does not get any easier at all. I can't leave the house yet. Still crying.Each time one dies they take a part of my heart with them.
 
I'm crying with you - you are not alone. Is there any music that will lovingly accompany your grief, if you know what I mean?

You did what I've long heard is the right thing by letting Ravan and Alice see that Peggy Sue passed. I just don't understand so much of their kitty thinking, after I start to think I understand more. Maybe they are just being stoic and moving on (?) I don't think they don't care; I'm sure they do.

You still have a huge heart, even though if feels like so much has been stolen, or you wouldn't hurt so much. I'm hoping Ravan and Alice are healthier than you think. Wish I didn't have to leave the house. More hugs to you, and love too.
 
You're always in our thoughts, Joy. What another terribly sad day for you. I hope that having Peggy Sue laid to rest with all your other loved ones in your special garden can bring some comfort to you. Probably not right away though, the pain is still too raw. I'm glad Ravan is staying close and sleeping with you. They certainly have the power to break our hearts into little pieces. :(
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More hugs to you, and love too.
break our hearts into little pieces.
Wish there was something I could do for you
Sending more prayers
Oh JoyBee I'm so sorry

Thank you all so much!:bighug: It really means a lot to have your support.

I'm not trying to upset anyone just being Honest about my feelings.She was my companion for 17 & a Half years & I miss her so much. I've been calling her without thinking.

I know you all understand how I feel. Thank You all.:bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
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