10/7 Trixie AMBG 184 "+3" 101

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Amy&TrixieCat

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I don't know why we've had some high "PS" numbers these last few days...but Ms P is trying to keep things in order. Trix has been feeling incredibly awesome with a big appy and lots of snuggles. And, another pre-p-titis behavior is back on the scene! She used to jump on the arm of the computer chair and use it as a scratching pad (her previous owners declawed her :sad: ), then lean in to me for snuggles. It was so cute. She's not jumping on to the arm from the floor, but she's climbing over there from my lap and doing her little scratching pad thing and leaning in to me, just like the "old days". It's another behavior I never thought I'd see again!!

However, it was one of THOSE days with the gelcap :roll: ....hissing, growling, cat fight noises....seems we have to have a good run for a while, then toss a bad day in, just as a "reminder" about who is large and in charge around here :lol: ! I can say I'm getting better about judging about when to walk away and retry on the bad days, which does mean I am ultimately getting it into her more quickly and more easily, but I do start sweating there for a awhile until the gelcap actually goes down....

Family drama...what a nightmare. My Dad is a strong personality who always thinks he's right. My brother is the same way. They've butted heads for ages, and it's never been pretty - but I have never been pulled into the middle of it before. It has maxed out. Last week my brother asked what he could do to help with my Dad. I told him that simple replies to my Dad's e-mail would do it. I didn't realize the drama that simple request would bring about. He wanted a more "scientific" answer, as opposed to a psychological answer that would force him to look into his own behaviors and change them (which he refuses to do). Long story short, I never really "liked" my brother and his wife, in that they are people I would never go out of my way to hang out with "just because" as we have absolutely nothing in common, but this just pushed it to the next level. But I've resolved it within myself: keeping my distance from my brother will keep my sanity in check. My Dad has to do the same thing...sad, but it's the only thing that will keep him somewhat calm.

Anywho....just another day in the life :roll: . Today is my Dad's 4th chemo session and once again I am going with them, so I need to get moving very soon. Have a great day, LL!

Amy
 
Much nicer numbers today for Trixie. Sending vines for you DF for his chemo today. I think you have a good plan w/ your brother. YOu aren't going to change anyone at this point, just be there for your dad. :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
 
Trixie!!! You're chair arm scratching is making me smile so big it almost hurts!!!! What a girl. (What a bean, too)

Oh heck on the pill problems. But even the pros miss the green from time to time. Still, it is heart hurting to see them struggle when we know we've got to do what we've got to do. C'mon Trix. Just relax and let daBean do what she's got to do.

Thoughts for your dad on number 4. And the after effects. And on the whole family personality clash. It's really up to them to work this out. Or not, as the case may be.

Sending light.

Marilyn and Polly
 
Nice recovery Trixie. It is so great to hear how good she is feeling. Love the old pre-p-titis behaviors coming back. It is a very long slow road to get back to everything for as quick as it strikes. You are a great bean.

Oh my on the family. I know where you are coming from though. Both DH and I have families that have that same dynamic. Big hugs to you Amy.
 
Sending vines and prayers that the chemo goes well. I have a similar situation with my brother and his wife so I can empathize. I too wish it weren't the case.

Mr. Max spit out his gel cap the first time today and I almost missed it. He did it really well. These cats are too smart for their own good.
 
Trixie, if you would just start out a little lower, you wouldn't have to come so far to get to the lagoon! Just sayin'.... ;-) :-D You're still looking lovely, sweet Trixie, and making Mama happy with your snuggles!

Yay for more old behaviors coming back! It makes me smile so big every time I read about one of those incidents. I hope there are many more to come.

So sorry about the family issues. I think you have the right idea, though. You will only torture yourself trying to bring them together, and in the end you will be the one that suffers - they just don't get it, and probably won't ever. Much better to focus on the ways you can help and keep your spirits, and your DF's up! Sending lots of good vines for his chemo today.

Hugs to you, Amy. :YMHUG:
 
Nicely done, Ms. P. Could you not take the night off completely? Nice to see old behaviors, especially when they involve snuggles of some kind. :-D :-D Many vines for everyone for DF's chemo today. I hope you can stay out of the middle, Amy. Hugs to you.
Liz
 
How great on the arm scratching. Sending prayers for your dad's chemo. I'm so sorry about all the family drama. :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
 
Hi Amy ~O) :-D

Yupp, Mr P is in the house! nice +3 Trixie. I love the arm scratching thing, how cool!

I agree with Ann, your plan for your brother is what I'd do, At this point in time you can't change who they are. I'd focus on your dad too. Hugs to all there, family drama can be so hard.

I hope your day has been a good one. And that your dad's chemo session went well.
 
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