10/31 Beenie -not good news

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This is so hard. We did get in to see the IM vet yesterday. A xray was taken and blood drawn. Along with that she apparently has severe dental disease on the top right side of her mouth and on the bottom gum a painful swollen reddened area (reg vet missed this at Sept wellness exam). A tough one because she needs a dental asap but with a potential heart condition anesthesia is now very risky. Option was Cornell Veterinary (dental) at a ridiculous amount of money. This is a better bet for monitoring for a cat with diabetes and a heart condition.

This afternoon the IM vet called and we spoke a few times. The Radiologist read the xrays and along with the enlarged heart the vessels going to the heart were also enlarged. She said Beenie is a ticking time bomb and she needs to get an Echo ASAP not next week. She herself called around and got us in with a Cardiologist in NJ who she says is the best. In her humble opinion though she's 95% sure that she has the early stages of CHF. Blood work also had bad news. Elevated liver enzymes which could be due to a number of issues.

So since May its been diabetes, Acro, heart condition, possible asthma, and something else that has elevated her liver enzymes.

It pains me but we are going to help Beenie cross the bridge. She has not been my little fireball in a long time. I have always chalked up her behavior to the diabetes but it so much more than that. She stopped grooming herself a while ago, no interest in the other cats, doesn't play, doesn't cuddle. I did get glimpses here and there but they were so short lived....only for minutes and every once in awhile. The IM vet said with treatment it would most likely extend her life by months. I asked her if it was all worth it and am thinking if I should let her go. She said she has so much going on that it wouldn't be uncalled for to put her to sleep. I'm not going to let her suffer anymore, her QOL is so poor. My regular vet will come to the house on Thursday and we will help her cross the bridge so she can run and play again. I know we gave her the best life possible and I finally have come to terms with this decision. I'll decrease her Lev just a little so I won't have to test her much between now and then, just at preshot. I don't know what time yet on Thursday but I will post once she's crossed.

I truly appreciate each and everyone of you for help on this journey. I thought FD was bad but it was a piece of cake thanks to everyone here.

Chin scritches to all the kitties
Love Michelle & Beenie
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Michelle, I'm so sorry. I know it's not easy, but make the most of the last bit of time you have with her. You're doing the most loving thing in looking out for her best interests. Sending prayers. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Oh, Michelle, I'm just sick about this. Sending love and comfort to you and sweet Beenie and to the rest of your household.
 
Oh Michelle, I don't know what to say. I had really hoped for the best possible outcome from the IM vet visit, I wish you peace in this decision, and hope you find some special moments with Beenie before you have to say goodbye. I'm so very sorry, and heartbroken for you. :bighug::bighug:
 
:bighug: Michelle, I am so, so sorry. :bighug: You've given Beenie such a wonderful life and she loves you with all her heart for making the right decision for her. I wish you and your family peace in the coming days. :bighug:
 
(((MICHELLE)))

I am speechless and in tears. I was so hoping for some promising news from your IM visit. You and Beenie have fought such a great battle and to see that you and Beenie have so much more to deal with is just not right...just not fair.

QOL is so very important. Your dedication and love for Beenie has shone through at every step of the way. Giving the greatest gift of love is also the hardest thing we ever have to do as petparents. Fill your time with love and precious memories.

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((((((((((((Michelle & Beenie))))))))))))) I am so so sorry the news wasn't better. Your girl Beenie got dealt a bad hand and yet, I hope you take some comfort in knowing there was not a human better equipped to give her the absolute best life possible than you and your family. I have no doubt in my mind Beenie loves you very much and appreciated every bit of it. I hope you can be there to take in every single minute of the time you have left with your precious girl. I will be thinking of the both of you and praying for a peaceful crossing. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
I am so sorry Michelle, words cant describe how I feel right now for you and Beenie. You are such a positive force on here for all of us, Beenie has the best mom ever. So sad :bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
I am crying reading this. Sending strength and serenity your way. Hope the next few days are the best for you and Beenie.
 
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This is so hard. We did get in to see the IM vet yesterday. A xray was taken and blood drawn. Along with that she apparently has severe dental disease on the top right side of her mouth and on the bottom gum a painful swollen reddened area (reg vet missed this at Sept wellness exam). A tough one because she needs a dental asap but with a potential heart condition anesthesia is now very risky. Option was Cornell Veterinary (dental) at a ridiculous amount of money. This is a better bet for monitoring for a cat with diabetes and a heart condition.

This afternoon the IM vet called and we spoke a few times. The Radiologist read the xrays and along with the enlarged heart the vessels going to the heart were also enlarged. She said Beenie is a ticking time bomb and she needs to get an Echo ASAP not next week. She herself called around and got us in with a Cardiologist in NJ who she says is the best. In her humble opinion though she's 95% sure that she has the early stages of CHF. Blood work also had bad news. Elevated liver enzymes which could be due to a number of issues.

So since May its been diabetes, Acro, heart condition, possible asthma, and something else that has elevated her liver enzymes.

It pains me but we are going to help Beenie cross the bridge. She has not been my little fireball in a long time. I have always chalked up her behavior to the diabetes but it so much more than that. She stopped grooming herself a while ago, no interest in the other cats, doesn't play, doesn't cuddle. I did get glimpses here and there but they were so short lived....only for minutes and every once in awhile. The IM vet said with treatment it would most likely extend her life by months. I asked her if it was all worth it and am thinking if I should let her go. She said she has so much going on that it wouldn't be uncalled for to put her to sleep. I'm not going to let her suffer anymore, her QOL is so poor. My regular vet will come to the house on Thursday and we will help her cross the bridge so she can run and play again. I know we gave her the best life possible and I finally have come to terms with this decision. I'll decrease her Lev just a little so I won't have to test her much between now and then, just at preshot. I don't know what time yet on Thursday but I will post once she's crossed.

I truly appreciate each and everyone of you for help on this journey. I thought FD was bad but it was a piece of cake thanks to everyone here.

Chin scritches to all the kitties
Love Michelle & Beenie
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Michelle,
This is such sad tough news. You are an awesome Mom and Beenie has had the best care. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for making me smile so many times with all of your positive posts. Tiff and I have been on this Acro journey with you and I know there will come a time when I will need to face the same decision and it is definitely out of much love for your sweet Beenie.
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I am so sorry. I logged on earlier and read your post, but just couldn't respond. It is hard to believe that we can become so attached to other people's animals we have never met. But I feel like I know Beenie and I am so sorry and upset that it is her time to cross the rainbow bridge. You have been through so much these past few months, yet always offering positive thoughts and pictures that provide laughter for others. Gizmo and I will miss all of Beenie's adventures! Praying for peace and comfort for you and your family during this difficult time. :bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
I am so so sorry to hear the news. You have taken great care of your little one through this difficult journey of FD and Acromegaly. It's a hard decision to make, I know you have made it with all the love in the world to do the best for Beenie. Sending you lots of hugs and love :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Michelle, I'm heartbroken reading this. :( It is such a tough decision to make, but you are so strong and loving to help her leave her pain. You are an amazing cat mom to go above and beyond and give her every possible chance to have a loving and happy life. I don't even know what to say, I'm so sad for you right now. Love to you, your family and beautiful Beenie. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Oh Michelle, this is such sad news and I know what a heavy heart this decision has cause you. You have been an incredible fur momma to Beenie and I am so very sorry that all these conditions are thrust upon poor Beenie and you and yours. Make the most of your last days together and know that this FD family hold you close to our hearts at this very difficult time. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Lean on this group and enjoy Beenie. Agree with reducing and not having to test, give her anything she wishes for and extra scritches for me with a :kiss: on the head. Lots of vines and prayers for you and your family. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
{{{{Michelle}}}} We are wrapping you in loving arms over the internet. I am so, so sorry.:bighug::bighug::bighug: When things go south, it can happen so quickly. I am glad you are thinking of Beenie's QOL over anything else. Spoil her rotten the next days. Give her a kiss on the top of her head from me. And take care of you too.
 
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My heart hurts for the hurt yours is going through....sending gentle hugs of support for your journey with Beenie..it is so very, very hard
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( there needs to be a hug emoji that is not smiling for times like this)
Please Give Beenie a very special gentle scritch in her most favorite spot from me too:bighug::bighug:
 
Michelle, I am so, so sorry to hear your sad news. I am having a hard time typing this through the tears; my heart breaks for you and Beenie. (((Hugs))) to you, and please give Beenie a gentle kiss from me. You know you have the love and support of all of us. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:

Sending you all comfort, strength, and peace. Much love to you both. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
(((Michelle))), This is the most difficult decision to have to make. You have such a bond with Beenie and you hear what she is telling you. We are all with you, sending prayers and strength to you as you help Beenie begin her new adventure. She loves you so much and she will always be with you.
Hugs for you and scritches for your girl.

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{{{Michelle}}}

My heart is heavy and my eyes are full of tears as I read your sad news. I can tell that you have done your research and exhausted every possible avenue for giving Beenie more quality time with you, and your decision is made with that confidence that it is the right choice. That does not make it any easier, though, I know. This is the ultimate gift of love that we can give to our precious furbabies, and it is one that costs us most dearly. Beenie loves you and knows that you have only her well being in mind, so I'm sure she is grateful that you understand what she needs now.

As others have said, take this time to get lots of cuddles and give her all her favorite treats. Just be with one another. When you set her free, remember that she will never really leave you, as she is firmly ensconced in your heart. She will be watching over you from the Bridge until you meet again.

We will all be thinking of you, from now until Thursday and beyond. We are here for you, any time you need us.


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Oh Michelle! I'm sorry that I only just read this. My heart is absolutely breaking for you and for Beenie and for your whole family. You must be utterly, utterly devastated. I know how special Beenie is to you. And you have worked so tirelessly, and so hard, to help her. She couldn't have picked a better mom.

I respect your decision and your courage in making it. It is so hard to let go of the ones we love, but at the end, it's not about us, I don't think? It's about what's best for them. And if Beenie only has a few months that might include a lot of suffering and tests and procedures, maybe that's not the choice she would make, especially if her QOL has not been very good lately.

I am so very glad that the vet can come to your house on Thursday. And I hope that these last few days have been wonderful ones for you and Beenie, with lots of love and cuddles and even joy in the heartbreak.

Michelle, I'm trying to see this through my tears. My heart is absolutely breaking for you all. You have been an amazing support for me and everyone else on FDMB, and your pics have brightened every day. The kind of person you are just shines through here, and you are one amazingly generous and kind and caring person.

There is nothing anyone can say or do that will help make this easier. Just know that you are in my heart and in my prayers. And know - please - that I so admire your courage for making this decision now. You are, at the end, the best of moms in this, as well.

I wish I could give you a real hug and a real shoulder to cry on. You are doing the right thing, my friend. Give Beenie some chin scritches from me... Much love to you and yours. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:

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Michelle, I am so very sorry that you've had to make this decision. I know only too well that it's one of the hardest decisions we ever have to make as pet parents, and I wouldn't wish that heartache on anyone. I know that you don't make this decision lightly, and I hope you are able to take comfort in the fact that you have done so much in taking such wonderful care of Beenie. She is lucky to have you, and such a lovely family to take care of her, and be able to make the decision not to let her suffer through a poor quality of life.

My heart is truly breaking for you in reading your post, and I am sending loving thoughts to you and your family as you say goodbye to your sweet Beenie.
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((((((Michelle and Beenie)))))
I've been off the board for a few days, so just reading this now, I'm do sorry that you didn't get better news.

My heart breaks for you, give Beenie a gentle scritches from me, and these :bighug::bighug::bighug:ate for you.

I'll be thinking of you.
 
((((((((Michelle)))))))))

that quality of life is so key....
I knew when Shadow had no interest in cuddling, and her lack of activities that her pain was too much any more......
It's a hard thing to do but also the greatest love.
Prayers for your grieving heart....

Scritches to Beenie ....
 
:bighug:Oh Michelle I’m saddened to read this news. I’m speechless really. Both our babies were DX with Acro at the same time..and...while I’ve been silent on the board lately I often looked in especially to see how well Beenie was doing. This news is really hard to swallow through tears. I will be thinking of you both tomorrow and giving virtual head bumps. cat_wings>o
 
(((Michelle))). I am so terribly sorry you have to make this very difficult decision. However it might be breaking our hearts when we let our babies go, it is the most unselfish and true act of love. We know we will never be the same and our loss will be great but we have the chance to set them free from their ailing, worldly bodies.

Many hugs and wishes that your remaining time with Beenie will be all love and light. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Michelle, I have no words. My heart aches for you. You've done so much so cheerfully for your lovely girl and have been such a positive presence here. It's so hard to make this decision to release our beloved kitties from illness and pain. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
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