10/22/19 Olive AMPS 172; +9=151; PMPS 170; +5=74; +6=81

Got the driveway raked before it rained.

My peace is gone. Hubby home and not even 5 minutes before he loudly starts "be quiet cats" "go bother someone else" etc..... I have all kitchen cabinets emptied (except stuff we use daily) and he starts putting stuff in them.
 
Olive & Paula said:
My peace is gone.
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Could be it's time to sit down & have a serious talk with DH???

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Olive & Paula said:
and he starts putting stuff in them.
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WHAAAAAT????:arghh::arghh: Hasn't he heard the term 'happy wife, happy life' ??? Things wouldn't be so happy if that were in our house...grrrr...

Hope you can be diplomatic...I'm not sure I could be...not after working so hard to get them all emptied out...some choice words would be flying out of my mouth:banghead::banghead::banghead:...uh oh...I'd better stop...don't want to get anything started..

Ollie can make some pickles tomorrow :D Have a good evening Paula...remain calm and carry on...I guess that's what the Brits say :rolleyes:
 
Sue and Luci said:
WHAAAAAT????:arghh::arghh: Hasn't he heard the term 'happy wife, happy life' ??? Things wouldn't be so happy if that were in our house...grrrr...

Hope you can be diplomatic...I'm not sure I could be...not after working so hard to get them all emptied out...some choice words would be flying out of my mouth:banghead::banghead::banghead:...uh oh...I'd better stop...don't want to get anything started..

Ollie can make some pickles tomorrow :D Have a good evening Paula...remain calm and carry on...I guess that's what the Brits say :rolleyes:
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I've said his whole demeanor has changed. He is only for himself, everyone else be damned. No emotion, feelings, or reaction to anything. Try to get opinion on kitchen stuff, he wants no part of it. I asked him to take the 2 extra kitchen chairs down to basement so they are out of the way. "Its your project, you do it" is what I'm told. Won't take any heavy boxes down for me.

I asked about seeing a therapist, "nothing wrong with me" what do I need help with. He barely talks. He went to NJ to dentist, stay overnight and visit friends. He says "I'm leaving" and goes. Sends me a text, he arrived. Then I don't hear from him until he comes back and he says "hey". I don't know what to do anymore.
 
I'm so sorry, Paula :bighug: It might be good if he won't go to counseling that you go for yourself . Just a thought. Carrying you in my heart and prayers ❤️
 
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I've said his whole demeanor has changed. He is only for himself, everyone else be damned. No emotion, feelings, or reaction to anything. Try to get opinion on kitchen stuff, he wants no part of it. I asked him to take the 2 extra kitchen chairs down to basement so they are out of the way. "Its your project, you do it" is what I'm told. Won't take any heavy boxes down for me.

I asked about seeing a therapist, "nothing wrong with me" what do I need help with. He barely talks. He went to NJ to dentist, stay overnight and visit friends. He says "I'm leaving" and goes. Sends me a text, he arrived. Then I don't hear from him until he comes back and he says "hey". I don't know what to do anymore.
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Sounds like someone is very unhappy - time to make some changes Paula. Sorry you're going thru this. :(
 
I'm so sorry Paula, this is very sad. Is it possible some of the meds he's on could be affecting his personality? Do you know his friends well enough to contact them and ask how he was with them? Have you tried sitting him down and asking him what's wrong?

Sending you a ton of :bighug:

Good girl Ollie :D
 
Sonia & Leo said:
I'm so sorry Paula, this is very sad. Is it possible some of the meds he's on could be affecting his personality? Do you know his friends well enough to contact them and ask how he was with them? Have you tried sitting him down and asking him what's wrong?

Sending you a ton of :bighug:

Good girl Ollie :D
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I don't know because I can't get answers from Drs. because of hippa laws. I have many questions but no answers.
 
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