You are strong to keep looking in on the forum. Sometimes it makes me cry.
I have looked at Crystal's spread sheet and I have seen what you went through with her.
Believe me I still cry over Crystal now, nearly two years down the line, she was my soul kitty and taking the decision to end her suffering was the worst thing I have ever had to do, but it was the right time for her, but not me. But I made her a promise on her acro diagnosis that I wouldn't let her suffer and, as hard as it was, I kept that promise to her when daily life just got too difficult for her. and her QOL really wasn't good. The hardest part of this whole FD thing is knowing when to put the cat's welfare first; we love them so much and can't bear the thought of life without them that we are in danger of hanging on until the very last minute, and sometimes this is to the detriment of the cat. Yum will tell you when she wants to call time on it all, you know her well so listen to her wishes. Having said that, I hope it is a long way off for you guys. You have done well by her so far, and I'm sure you will continue to do the best you can. Take time to evaluate all the choices and the best options for Yum.
You are so right, it really is a roller coaster ride, but one I, and probably everyone here , would do willingly all over again given the chance. Sending many vines to you both
I think the US is an unlisted country (assuming you're in the US?)
I think you will find the USA is a
listed country, but not sure of the implications though.
"Listed countries
The listed countries are:
Antigua and Barbuda, Argentina, Aruba, Ascension Island, Australia, Bahrain, Barbados, Belarus, Bermuda, BES Islands (Bonair, Saint Eustatius and Saba), Bosnia-Herzegovina, British Virgin Islands, Canada, Cayman Islands, Chile, Curaçao, Falkland Islands, Fiji, French Polynesia, Hong Kong, Japan, Malaysia, Mauritius, Mexico, Montserrat, New Caledonia, New Zealand, Russian Federation, Saint Maarten, Singapore, St Helena, St Kitts and Nevis, St Lucia, St Pierre and Miquelon, St Vincent and The Grenadines, Taiwan, The former Yugoslav Republic of Macedonia, Trinidad and Tobago, United Arab Emirates,
USA (includes American Samoa, Guam, Northern Mariana Islands, Puerto Rico and the US virgin Islands), Vanuatu, Wallis and Futuna."