1/14 Sheba. The worst news

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Bron and Sheba (GA)

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I have the worst news possible about my beautiful Sheba.
This week I thought she had constipation...she had a swollen belly and hadn't pooped for several days. The vet did an X-ray and ultrasound and said she could see a tumour. She rang a specialist she knows well and I went straight up to see the specialist who had someone who specialises in ultrasounds.
Sheba has pancreatic cancer which is advanced and has free fluid in her abdomen, which is causing the swelling. There is really nothing that can be done at this stage....it is just a matter of time. The specialist said it is known as 'the silent killer' because there are often no real symptoms until it is advanced. Apart from the pancreatic flares Sheba has had ......she has been great.
The specialist said I will know when it is time when Sheba stops wanting to eat.
At the moment she is still eating reasonably well, but only food that she feels like. She doesn't want to chew much so I am giving her food that is easily eaten.
She is having the tamadol for pain ( the specialist said she didn't think she was in pain although the ultrasound hurt her when the lady pressed in........I was able to be with her) and the specialists has given me a few Lasix which I can give Sheba if the swelling becomes excessive. The Lasix are 20 mg each and she said give half a tablet....does that sound right? Is it OK to give with insulin...I read that it interacts.
I am completely shattered by this news and am struggling to stay afloat.... but I have to of course.
The kids are really upset, especially 2 of them.

In further terrible news, Jess our dog......well she is my DD dog but she lives with me because my daughter is in an apartment at the moment....had a turn earlier in the week. I took her to the vet and it was found she has a mass at the base of her heart. We were sent straight to a specialist......the same one who saw Sheba.......and she was admitted for an echo which diagnosed a haemagiosarcoma which had bled into the lining of the heart and was causing breathing difficulties and stopping the heart beating properly. She had the effusion drained and stayed 24 hours in the ER. She is home again and at the moment stable but again it is only a matter of time for her as well. It is malignant and because it is a bloody tumour, it is prone to bleeding, so the end could be sudden for Jess. The specialist has put her on an antiinflammatory and chemo but it is just to try and slow down the growth of the tumour and hopefully stop further bleeding

We are spoiling the both and trying to have some quality time....but it is hard. Sheba can't sit on my lap any more as it is too uncomfortable for her....she will jump up but is back down within 5 minutes. I feel I am in the middle of a dreadful nightmare. Anyway, I know you understand how I am feeling. I didn't know if I would be able to post today, but I feel Sheba may not last too long with this tummy swelling.
 
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Oh Bron, I'm so very sorry :bighug::bighug::bighug: In regard to Lasix, Doodles is on 67.5mg a day so yes it can be given with insulin. If anything, and ECID Lasix might lesson the effect of the insulin. It has with Doodles but his dose is extreme. So wish there was something I could say or do. Sending loads of :bighug::bighug::bighug: vines and prayers for you, Sheba, your DD, Jess and the whole family. More :bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
((Bron))

What devastating news for both the furbabies. My heart goes out to you and your family. Sending prayers and strength. Special scritches for Sheba and Jess.

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Oh no Bron!! Such sad news!! :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:

It's just not fair......and you are dealing with a double whammy with two at the same time :(

I've said it before....Cancer just plain sucks

Will send some "keep eating" vines for Sheba and prayers that she and Jess have many good days, weeks, months or years left to share with you
 
((((((Bron))))))
I am so sorry to hear this news, tears are flowing. You do right to spoil them both and spend quality time with them.

Sending prayers, hugs, scritches and vines for you all

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{{{{Bron}}}} Much hugs and love to you and your family. Please give Sheba a bunch of kisses on the head from me. And a cuddle to Jess too. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:

Neko was on 2.5 mg Lasix for her heart but got larger bolus doses at the ER. It didn't impact her numbers much. Do be cautious on the insulin dose. Between less appy and cancer, she may need to go down in dose.
 
{{{Bron}}}

I've learned that just when you think you can't take any more pain, another blow comes and shows how strong you really are. :blackeye: This is so terribly sad and my heart hurts for you, but I know you and team Sheba will get through this together. You have your entire L&L Land family behind you, too. :bighug:

When my first baby, Nemesis, had pancreatic cancer, her symptoms were just as you describe. I just thought she was constipated. We gave her all the love we could in her last days, as I know you will Sheba.

Please give dear Sheba and Jess each a gentle scritch from me. I know you will all rally round them and fill whatever time they have left with comfort and love.

Sending the strongest vines I can find for both your furbabies, along with many prayers and lots of :bighug:s.
 
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(((Bron))). What devastation and I, along with all here, feel the heaviness in your heart and soul . Heaps of hugs hearts and healing vines to comfort you and your tribe.

Our GA Hoppy went ahead, four years after FD diagnosis and in remission when pancreatic cancer suddenly came on and with a vengeance. Whether it had been lurking under the radar for years I'll never know. Or whether the diabetes:bighug: came on because of it or it came on because of the diabetes, I'll never know, either.

But am echoing here Carla's insight and adding to the bushelsful of love and LL support always for you and yours in all ways.
.....the best thing is to try and focus on the day you are on and not think about the future. Make the most of each moment you have with them. Sending prayers. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:

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Sina and Sootie's Tribe
 
So sorry Bron. Such sad and terrible news. I gave Smokey his lasix right after his AM and PMPS. It didn't seem to make a difference with him.

Extra scritches and spoiling is needed. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Oh Bron, my heart hurts reading your post. Getting hit with that type of news about both furbabies is devastating. There are no words to make this any easier, just please know that there are many loving arms surrounding you all, many hands reaching out to hold you up and many prayers being said for strength and comfort for you, your family and most especially, for your precious babies. :bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Thank you all so much for your lovely kinds words and thoughts, vines and prayers, personal insights into Sheba's horrible disease and above all understanding.
I had some of the family here this morning seeing Sheba and Jess and I didn't dare open my iPad as I would have been a crying mess reading all your beautiful posts. As it is I look a fright from crying so much.
Sheba ate surprisingly well this morning and pretty much ate what she normally would. Bit hard to judge how much as I am swapping from tin to tin to let her have variety and keep her interested. Letting her have previously forbidden foods (phosphorus) which she is enjoying.
@Wendy&Neko ..thanks for the tip on watching the insulin dose. I have been consistently reducing the dose for several months now and looking back I wonder if that is when the cancer all started. Because Sheba suddenly started to go down to Normal numbers and pretty much stopped bouncing all of a sudden. I dropped it to 3 units this morning as I just want to keep it under the threashhold basically and keep her comfortable. Even on 3 units she is staying low. Thanks also for your Lasix info with beautiful Neko.

@Doodles & Karen and @Woodsywife ...thank you for your info on the Lasix dose. Did you find it dehydrated Doodles or Smokey?

@Tricia Cinco(GA) & Harvey and @HWright and @carfurby ..thank you for telling me your experience with pancreatic and stomach cancer......I am not sure what to expect so am grateful for any info.
Tricia...you are right about getting more pain just when you think you can't take any more....
Thank you again everyone for understanding........L and L land is a wonderful supportive place.
Hugs back to all of you:bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
@carfurby ..thank you for telling me your experience with pancreatic and stomach cancer......I am not sure what to expect so am grateful for any info.
My civvie Callie received Buprenorphine 3 times a day and it seemed to keep her from being in pain. There were days she didn't want to eat very much and I was afraid I was going to lose her and then she would perk back up and eat the next day. It was a lot of ups and downs. I just loved on her as much as I could. Sending more prayers. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Oh Bron, my heart is breaking for you! I am so sorry to hear your news about Sheba and Jess. I'm at a loss for words. I am praying for lots and lots of time, and sending tons of hugs and vines. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
(((Bron)))

This is just utter heartbreak and I am sending you tight hugs and tons of loving support. I am so very sorry that your strength has to be tested this way. It's just not fair.

I think your instincts are pretty spot on. It is likely when her BG suddenly changed and she started down the dosing ladder, it was indicative that something was going on. We've seen it all too many times before; however, some times it isn't that.

Prayers, hugs, tears, love. I know you will treasure every single second that you have with your babies....especially your precious Sheba.

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Thanks Carla for that info....it is very helpful to know what others have been through...and Elise and Lucy, thank you.
@Marje and Gracie ..thank you Marje..... when she suddenly started coming down the ladder, it was the first thing I thought of, but because she seemed so well, I dismissed the idea. It has been a terrible blow...I somehow thought I would have her forever......
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Here is Sheba this morning.....most of the shaved area is on the other side.
 
Dear (((Bron))), I am so very sorry to hear this news. Sheba is such a brave girl and I know that she will treasure every day and every hour she has with her beloved mamabean, just as you will treasure each day with her. We are sending many, many vines of comfort to you and lots of scritches to Sheba and gentle pats to Jess.


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My heart goes out to you Bron and prayers for your beautiful Sheba and your Jess and for you and your family too. This is such sad news and of course you are shattered as you love your Sheba so very much and for your Jess to also be ill must be overwhelming for you. I don't know what to say. I know the devastation when a family member is diagnosed with cancer. Many hugs and much love to all of you at this most difficult time. :bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Dear friend, sending continued prayers for strength in the coming days ahead and endless hugs for you, Sheba, Jess and all you family devastated by this heart breaking news. Know that all here understand and are surrounding you with love :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Thank you all so much for the vines, prayers and support ......we can use all you have to spare at the moment. I am still finding it all hard to believe....it has happened so fast.
Sheba has eaten well today although I have taken most of the food to her and held the plate. Sometimes she will get up and come to the food but it is an effort with the swollen belly. She is still talking to me and purrs whenever I am near. And she is moving about the house a bit.
I reduced her insulin further tonight to 2.75 units because the 3 units dropped her to 59...I gave her honey then so it may have dropped further.....and I would really rather she was in the blues at this point in time.
@Woodsywife thank you for telling me about the Lasix for Smokey. I am thinking of trying a dose on Monday morning......I would rather do it on a day when the vet is open in case there is an issue.
 
Oh ((((((Bron))))))

such awful news....
the inability to sit on you is such a terrible thing. I remember well the behavioural changes that something was wrong.
Do you have a pet heating pad she can lay on, it might help her pain?
When Shadow couldn't come sit on me any more, I just got under the dining room table with her where she was and laid with her.
Lots of love for your beautiful girl....
Lots of Scritches.....
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So sorry for you and your family getting hit with the bad news on both beloved family members. I know it is difficult, but try to enjoy this time to its fullest. Love on them and spoil them. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
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