04/29 Tiggy AMPS 196 - almost down :(

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Wendy&Tiggy(GA)

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So the good news is his BG has been excellent pretty much for weeks. No need for R. The bad news is that Tiggy is almost down. :(

He struggles to half walk, half drag himself around and so seems reluctant to move unless its feeding time or he needs to go to the bathroom.
He manages somehow to get up stairs one at a time very slowly, plus he can jump (although half the time he falls or misses) about a foot height onto the sofa.
He has problems standing to go to the bathroom so has poop stuck to his butt at times.

I don't know how long he has left walking. Maybe days. Maybe a few weeks.

But he still has his personality. He isn't in pain. He loves his treats. He jumps with help of a stool into bed at night so he can cuddle with daddy. And in the evening cuddles with me on the sofa. He chirps when its treat time. He is bright and alert. So he still has joy in his life. B

ut he can barely walk. And its painful to watch him struggle to do so.

This is the worst disease ever. He will continue to decline and become paralyzed yet otherwise will be totally healthy... so knowing when "its time" will be very hard. This issue is so rare in cats that I have yet to find anyone out there who has ever actually had or has a cat with this (Dogs get it often). Our chances of winning the lottery were much higher. We feel very very alone.

Phil and I have discussed at length and our plan for now is we keep going even when he loses the ability to walk - as long as we can ensure we spend the time with him so that he has quality of life - and he seems his happy self. But as soon as he starts to show signs of going down at the front as well (which is inevitable)- or is unhappy of course.. or it becomes too much for us... then….

I wonder if thats the right decision?
 
Wendy & Phil,
My heart hurts for you. It is a tough decision, but I believe when the time is right to say let Tiggy go, you will. I went through a similar situation with my Puddin cat (she had a different disease)...I loved her with all my heart and soul, but when the time came, I knew it.
Take care of each other.
Lori
 
((((Wendy Tiggy)))) I'm so sorry to read this, it sounds like you have put great emphasis on QOL for Tiggy, and that is the most important I think. Nothing pulls at the heartstrings worse than something like this--all I can offer is that you will be in our thoughts and prayers, tons and tons of vines being sent.
 
So sorry to read this. So sad. The only advice I can offer is do what you are doing and follow your guts and your hearts. You won't be steered wrong. :bighug::bighug:
 
(((Wendy))) I am so sorry to hear how this is progressing. So sad that there is little you can do. I've seen cats in wheelchairs and diapers but how much of that is for the bean and not the cat. Tiggy will tell you when it's become too much.:bighug: He knows you love him.
 
How heartbreaking to have to watch the progression of something you can't fix for them :( Tiggy may have been unlucky to get a very rare condition, but he won the lottery in getting beans that work so hard in understanding it and helping him with it as much as they can.

I just peaked at the pics in your profile for the first time. Tiggy looks so very much like the male version of my Smokey girl! What a good looking boy;)
 
Oh, Wendy, I was wonder how you guys doing specially Tiggy. I knew I missed some of your post since I couldn't came on here often either. I am very sorry to learn that how his illness is progressing. Now what you can do what you do anyway just love him, love him, spend that much time with him as possible. You will know when the time to say goodbye and let him go, to fly free. Hug to you guys and prayers for Tiggy, so he would able to keep up the present condition for a longer time.
 
Wendy, my heart goes out to you and your DH. Tiggy is so courageous. I know that he will tell you when he no longer can go on with his life with you. His QOL is the most important thing. Thinking of you all and sending good QOL vines to Tiggy.

:bighug::bighug::bighug:

Ella & Rusty
 
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