03/06 Whiskers Miss Witty's Ashes were delivered to us today

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Re: 03/06 Whiskers Our Beloved Beautiful Miss Witty is Gone

This is always such a sad time in our lives...but rest assured Whiskers is free now and feeling no pain....
Jez, Sassy, Darcy and I are hoping Whisker's journey over the Rainbow Bridge brings renewed vigor and energy! Whiskers is smiling down on you all ...
Debie & Jezebel
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((((Cheryl))))

I am so, so sorry to see this. My heart is hurting for you. I know Whiskers is happy to be with your sister. You did a wonderful job of caring for Whiskers and I know he loved you for that.

Fly free sweet Whiskers. wings_cat
 
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cheryl, time will help mute the pain. speaking from the standpoint of having lost 3 kitties in the past year. :(
bless you for doing the best you could for whiskers and for loving her.
(((Hugs)))
 
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Ohh Cheryl,

I can only imagine the pain you are feeling now. Please take care of yourself. This is always such a most difficult time. Whiskers - such a lucky, special kitty to have YOU for a mom - to have such a loving family! Altho this doesn't ease your terrible ache- Whiskers is always with you - always in your heart - always watching over you. Sending you the warmest of thoughts and most comforting of hugs!

xxx
Patti, Boris, and always in my heart - Merlin
 
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(((((Cheryl and DH))))) Your hearts are broken because they were so big in bringing Miss Witty into your home and caring so lovingly for her. May you always feel her love.

Fly free and land softly, Whiskers.
 
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(((((Cheryl and DH)))))
I haven't been on the FDMB much lately, but I've been kept informed of Whiskers' struggles. I'm so very sorry for your loss. You did everything you could and then some for her. May you find some comfort in knowing she's now reunited with your dear sister.

wings_cat Fly free dear Whiskers... Miss Witty.
 
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Oh Cheryl words can't begin to say how sorry I am. Just know that we are all here for you and understand what you are going through right now.

FLy free Miss Witty!
 
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:YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

I am here if you need ANYTHING Cheryl!
 
Re: 03/06 Whiskers Our Beloved Beautiful Miss Witty is Gone

I'm so very sorry for your loss, I know how hard you and Whiskers fought and how much you loved her.
Fly free Whiskers
 
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(((Cheryl))) I am so sorry .....
There is comfort in knowing that she is reunited now with your sister....but the loss is so painful to bear.
My prayers are with you now...sending hugs to you...
Fly free Dear Miss Witty......until we meet again.....
 
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I'm so sorry, Cheryl. I hope that soon your happy memories of her will help replace some of the sadness and pain.
 
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I am so sorry for your loss! I know you both had been through so much in the last little while....Hold onto your memories, i am sure I don't need to tell you that...
Fly Free Whiskers...Fly Free
 
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I'm so sorry... but I know you did what was best for her and it is clear that you knew when the right time had come.
Strength and courage to you and yours in the coming days, and no remorse, please, you did everything anyone could have done.
 
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I am so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts are with you.
 
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Thank you all your caring thoughts help sustain us, more than you can ever know.

I miss Witty so much. She used to greet me each day at the door every time I came home and she is not there now. Her little food bowl is empty. So many little things....I'm very down :YMSIGH: , I know it. I just can't help it.

Thanks for sharing my thoughts, as always.

Your friends Cheryl & Miss Witty (GA)
 
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Cheryl - it was the bravest and most loving thing you could do for her. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Fly free sweet Whiskers. wings_cat
 
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You can't help but miss her and be sad when there are empty reminders of her around you.
You don't have to be strong and stoic now. Say whatever you want or need to say. I think we all get it. There's a lot of profound and beautiful essays and poetry about such things, but to be blunt: It hurts and it sucks.

Love and prayers to you.

MJ&Donovan&Butthead
 
Re: 03/06 Whiskers our beautiful beloved Miss Witty is gone

((((((((Cheryl)))))))) That is a beautiful remembrance of Miss Witty. She's a bright, beautiful star smiling down on you. I know how hard her illness and passing has been for you. Stu is gone a little over 5 months and I will always miss him. But I am glad that he is no longer in pain, and I like to think of him at the Bridge with his GA friends, cooking some delicious meals for all of them. I know that Whiskers is enjoying that good company even as she watches over you. Hold her forever in your heart and know that you gave her the very best gifts: a loving home and a peaceful passing until you meet again.

Ella & Rusty
 
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((Cheryl)) I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and Whiskars are in our thoughts.
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss, Cheryl. What a beautiful tribute of Whiskers...
Nothing can ease your pain right now… I can only offer my thoughts and prayers for you … :YMHUG:
Fly Free Whiskers… o:-)
 
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Cheryl, I am so very sorry about Miss Witty. You have the kindest and most loving heart and Whiskers knew this and loved you so much. What a gift you were to each other. The sadness is so painful right now - allow yourself to grieve. I hope you know we all wish we could ease your hurt just a little.
(((Cheryl)))
 
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I'm so, so sorry to hear about this news. Please accept my condolences. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. *EXTREMEHUGS*
 
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(((((Cheryl)))))))
my heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry. Your sweet baby girl will play in the light now. wings_cat
 
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Cheryl, I am so sorry! You and Miss Witty were so blessed to have each other. I know you had a truly special relationship and you gave her the best care possible. She is purring now and soaking in all the sunshine on the Bridge (when you talk to her, tell her to send some to us in MN!!) You made the right decision as hard as I know that was for you. It really sucks to say goodbye. Big hugs to you....

Miss Witty, I hope Peanut and Shiver show you the ropes up there! (But look out, they have a tendency to find mischief!!) Be well sweet girl.... rb_icon
 
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Cheryl, I am so sorry to read this. You fought so hard to her -- but I can tell you know in your heart that it was time to give her the greatest gift. She is free from pain, and she was surrounded by your love at the end.

Fly free Miss Witty, and send comfort to your beans from the bridge.
 
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I'm so very, very sorry to read of your loss.

You've just had too many losses... it's so unfair. But Whiskers is free of pain now - and you gave her the best possible life. Like you said, she's back with your sister now. Imagine the joy in that reunion...

Oh, my heart just breaks for you and everyone who's lost dear kitties and loved ones. It's just always too soon.

Fly free, little Whiskers...
 
Re: 03/06 Whiskers Our Beautiful Beloved Miss Witty is Gone

It's been 3 and a half days Witty. Momma miss you :YMSIGH: . Is it nice at the rainbow bridge baby?
 
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((Cheryl)) I didn't see this until now! Whiskers is romping around the ULTIMATE Falls. No worries, no pain, just fun. Hugs to you as you miss your sweet girl. So sorry for your loss.
 
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03/22/11
Miss Witty's ashes were delivered to us today, right as I was leaving for work. I cried all the way to work. It is such a sad day. I wish I could be more positive, or have something more insightful to say. I just can't.

Thank you my friends for being there for us, for helping us. We are so appreciative. More than you can ever imagine. o:-) ((tears again))
 
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(((Cheryl)))

I have Bear Man's ashes in a special place with a few of his favorite things around him. It will take time for you to be able to do that, but I do find it comforting to go there to be with him and remember him.
 
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It took me almost three months to pick up Miss Belle's ashes, Cheryl, so I understand. I still can't really handle it. When I can get back to my parents farm in Iowa, she will be buried there, in land that will stay in my family for at least another generation, and where several of my family's other cherished pets already rest.

((hug)) I hope you are blessed with a restful, if sad, evening.
 
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Hugs to you Cheryl. In time you too will find that special place for Whiskers.

I hope you have a restful evening. Miss Witty is truly home now.
 
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(((((Cheryl and DH))))))
i know it is a sad day for you today....but she is now with you again....and as Linda said you will find a special place for her there where you can talk to her daily as well.....find comfort she is with you....i know you miss her dearly....

continued prayers going your way!
 
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Sending you much love today...
it's heartbreaking, isn't it?
people may shake their head at me for admitting this, but Sean and Homie's urns are still packed away...
havent been able to open the box yet, and it's been over a year.
Some effective grief counselor, eh?

Thinking of you-
celi
 
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(((((((Cheryl))))))) Stu's little box with his ashes is on top of our piano now, a place he used to like to sit. He used to rummage through the Xmas cards there, and had "his" favorite card, a photo card that he would always seek out and lick!! (over the years it got pretty crummy). This card is now next to his box, together with his favorite toy mouse. Alice, Stu's predecessor, is in her box on top of the piano, too (she loved classical music). When Stu came to live with us, one of the first things he did was to jump up on the piano. Alice's toy mouse was next to her box of ashes. Stu, who had been bouncing around the apartment, became very still for about a minute. Then he took Alice's mouse down to the floor and played with it. I always looked on this as a "passing of the torch".
This spring, when the ground thaws, we are planning to bury Stu's ashes next to his catmint plant, his favorite place in the garden. He spent so much time next to that plant that he wore a depression in the soil!

So I guess what I am struggling to say is that Miss Witty is always with you and now she is also home. You will find that special spot for her.

Many hugs,

Ella & Rusty
 
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((((((((((Cheryl)))))))))) I would have been crying hard too. I'm so sorry. I have some of my dad's ashes in a pewter heart urn in a velvet box (displayed open) with a black and white picture of him and a special ring of his. I do plan on scattering them in a special place like Arizona.

I wish you weren't in pain. You've already had your share.

She's with you in spirit every day.
 
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Cheryl: thank you for sharing this with us today. I send you all the hugs in the world because we know how very hard this day is. On one hand, you are so happy to have them "home" and on the other, it just is another pain on top of the pain you already feel. We are thinking of you and your Miss Witty is smiling down on you from above...happy, free, healthy.
 
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Thank you all. I have missed posting each day and hearing from each of you. I appreciate you wishes and thoughts.
Hoping you are all well and having a good night.
 
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Cheryl, I somehow missed the opportunity to express my condolences over Whiskers when she passed. I'm so glad you posted today, so that I could tell you how sorry I am, how much I admired the way you cared for her and what a loving person you must be. I lost my mom five years ago, and she is still very much a part of my life. I "feel" her presence often, and know she's watching over me. Miss Witty is watching over you now, wanting you to be happy. Still, days like today are hard, and my heart is heavy for you.
Hugs,
Sandy
 
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