Cleo! That girl has mad skills!! Gotta love a calico! My formerly feral Hazel is a callie, and she also isn't fond of being held or sitting in my lap. What am I saying, neither are Jude or the triples, but Hazel's especially not fond of affection on any terms but hers. She, like Cleo, has quite the personality and is my one cat that can make me laugh.
Thanks for the suggestion for the urine strips. I'll give them a try. Jude has just switched to Visbiome probiotic. I had been giving him Nexbiotics, but then I discovered it has a bit of sugar in the flavoring, so I cut it out. The Visbiome is pricey, but since going on it, his poops have firmed up some, so I think it's working well for him.
I forgot to mention that the vet and I had decided to put Jude on Bupe during this last UTI/flare because it just seemed to go on and on. Every time I tried to wean him off the Gaba, he would spike again, so I was suspecting pain, and then I wondered if maybe the Gaba wasn't knocking the pain out sufficiently, and that is why the flare kept dragging on. So I decided to try the Bupe. Then, before starting it, he seemed to improve, so we haven't gone that route yet. But I'm considering trying it the next time. I've heard it's powerful, and I've not been too keen on Jude being really loopy, but if it can manage the pain and get him over a flare more quickly, that sounds better for him.