2/11 - Xander - AMBG 111 - Was at the ER last night, back again now... ๐Ÿ˜“

Brianna & Xander

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Previous post: 2/2/25

Hey everybody...

So we've been having good days and bad days, as always. Yesterday was a very bad day. His numbers had been creeping up to the pinks (which does happen after a Libre change, but it seemed more like he needed an increase). I gave him a small increase, as is my sort of custom protocol now. 3 units to 3.125. The food he's eating is very LC and there aren't many options to help him out of a hypo with his novel protein. Also, he seems to just do better with small increments (less diving and then bouncing).

He was a bit lethargic in the morning, but that isn't unusual. I did get him to eat just before noon by adding some freeze-dried rabbit to his food.

But he didn't want his next meal 4ยฝ hours later. I'm fact, he was actively averse to it. Not disinterest, but "get that away from me." At one point after reoffering him food, he got up and threw up. Or tried. He may have gotten up some droplets. The second time was just dry heaving. Then he pooped (formed but soft, incredibly stinky and a relatively large volume for him). He also had no interest in even his favorite treats.

Another thing that isn't that unusual for him is kind of flipping between seeming to feel awful and then totally normal throughout the day. But yesterday was worse. His usual "I don't feel well" posture was much more tense and curled into himself, and his face looked more like he was grimacing in pain than I've ever seen it, aside from post-dental. When he got this way, he also became unresponsive to touch or voice (just ignored us). Between those stretches he was even up and playing with a toy, as if everything were fine.

Despite the lack of appetite, I gave him his full dose, because he was skyrocketing and I was worried about DKA with the no food or water + no insulin. I didn't take into account the fact that the Budesonide does seem to raise his BG and since he didn't eat it, it wouldn't be there to bolster him.

Once we reached ~11 hours with no improvement in appetite or periodic pain, I started to get very worried. Again, when reoffering food (just by putting it in front of him to remind him it's there), he seemed even more averse, clearly nauseated. He licked his lips a bunch, then immediately got up, meowed in a distressed sounding way and threw up foam. The second one was dry heaving again. Then he pooped one more time.

At this point I decided that we needed the ER, because I hadn't seen him this bad or with this specific set of symptoms before.

This was a really hard decision to make because all I have is what I raised for his cardio workup. If I was wrong I would be wasting it and not able to do that anymore, but on the other hand, it seemed like he may not make it to the appointment we made for almost a month away. I also felt like, based on our last experience with an ER vet (not this one), who felt predatory and wanted ~$8k to run tests that didn't even seem necessary, that given the monetary situation I may be choosing whether or not to let him go tonight instead.

They did check him out and said that he definitely wasn't in heart failure, no fluid buildup anywhere. They think it's that his IBD is progressed/progressing. Since I can't give him meds without him eating, they gave him an injection of bupe for the pain and Cerenia for the vomiting. Also gave us some bupe to take home and will get a prescription to have on hand as needed.

This ER is the same hospital as the internal medicine specialist we've been seeing, so while we didn't see the specialist they at least know us. What the overnight vet recommended was to see how he does overnight and if his appetite wasn't improved by morning to come back in and get an ultrasound from the specialist. I asked if she thought it made more sense to do that or to save my limited funds for the cardio, and she said that she believed whatever was bothering him right now was not his heart but his GI and it was more urgent (which is the same conclusion we'd come to). I think they must have felt bad for us because I explained the funds situation (and when I came in had obviously been crying) and I realized when we left that they never charged us for an exam, only the meds. ๐Ÿฅน

I stayed up all night with him. When we got home around 1:30 he was green and I knew he would go lime because they always go together. Sure enough, he was lime for a long time. I didn't want to reintroduce any bad proteins or start the 13% rabbit I have and risk making him worse. They did give us some karo because I could see he was diving as we left, and I tried to sneak squirt a little into his mouth (oral meds are a huge no, so I did my best) but it didn't really stay in his mouth.

He was very aggressively affectionate and alert when we got home (send to be his typical reaction to bupe) and it definitely seemed to help the pain, but the Cerenia didn't seem to do anything to help his appetite. It took him the entire night to slowly eat the little bit of food I set out for him once we got home. At 4:30 I gave him his breakfast that I normally put his gaba in. He did eat it, but it took about 4 hours.

After some discussion we decided that we should bring him back in for the ultrasound because even if he was improved, it wasn't enough and if he felt that bad then it would probably just happen again.

So we're back here now, waiting to see when she can fit us in. I didn't give him insulin this morning because he was still at like 77 and I just couldn't handle it. Literally no sleep while I'm recovering from the flu on top of my "everyday" illnesses and the stress of his whole situation and not knowing if he'd eat, etc... I just couldn't.

I've been updating my personal spreadsheet and am going to try to get the public one updated too but I am sitting in the ER so we'll see how it goes. (If there are any formatting issues or weirdness with this post it's for the same reason).

I'll come back later with another update... Hopefully not a bad one. โ˜น๏ธ

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Update 1: He's gonna see the doctor in about half an hour, and then they'll spend a while doing the ultrasound, etc. Probably a few more hours. So indescribably thankful for everyone's help before, because it's going to cost everything I have. I hope it's the right choice. Not knowing if I'm doing the right thing for him when things are so high stakes and final is killing me.
 
Update 1: He's gonna see the doctor in about half an hour, and then they'll spend a while doing the ultrasound, etc. Probably a few more hours. So indescribably thankful for everyone's help before, because it's going to cost everything I have. I hope it's the right choice. Not knowing if I'm doing the right thing for him when things are so high stakes and final is killing me.
Sending you and sweet Xander all the love ๐Ÿซถ, prayers ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™, support, and strength.
Youโ€™re absolutely doing the right thing right now Brianna โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ
 
((Brianna)) ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

Sending big hugs and support! I'm so sorry sweet Xander is at the ER. Agree with Staci, you are absolutely doing the right thing. Hate that he is there, but it is what he needs so that you guys get the answers you need to help him.

๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›
 
((Brianna)) ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

Sending big hugs and support! I'm so sorry sweet Xander is at the ER. Agree with Staci, you are absolutely doing the right thing. Hate that he is there, but it is what he needs so that you guys get the answers you need to help him.

๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›
Waiting to hear back from you, and keeping you in our thoughts :bighug: :bighug: ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ
Thank you, Kat and Mary! ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ
 
Hoping you get some good news. :bighug:

Did they test for pancreatitis? He's showing classic symptoms and it's a frequent companion with IBD. The Spec fPL is also cheaper than a U/S. A Primer on Pancreatitis. See if you can get some ondansetron for his nausea.

They're wanting to do only bloodwork and save the ultrasound for later, but we're trying to express that it's either/or. Like we can do a huge blood panel but if that doesn't show anything abnormal, then we won't be able to do the ultrasound after. Every single time we've done blood work for GI stuff (including pancreatitis) they've said it was normal and they'd need an ultrasound to see more. I'm just afraid of that same result again when we can't do the ultrasound after.

We're trying to get them to make a quote with more targeted, specific blood work and the ultrasound. If you think I should request that the pancreatitis be one of the tests I can ask, though not sure if it fits the budget.

The problem just keeps being that we can't do a test and then say "okay, let's try this instead." No one is psychic, obviously, but I'm just wanting to avoid the same thing we wound up with with the cardiac blood work where we needed the way more expensive test anyway and might as well have started there.
 
Oh, Brianna, this is so hard. I'm so sorry you've been going through this, especially when you've just been so ill, too. It feels like an avalanche.

I think you're doing the right thing, and also doing an amazing job advocating for Xander and yourselves and what resources you have. (I forget - do you have CareCredit? It's been a godsend for me once or twice when I had to take on more expense than I could pay up front. Payment plans still hurt, but they've made a few things possible for me that I otherwise couldn't have done.)

I know the heart things are really scary, but I think we're in a similar position there, and my vet has really emphasized that it's not an immediate issue/emergency at this stage (slightly elevated numbers, I am forgetting the stupid acronym and I want to post this quickly so I'm not going to check). That the GI problems are much more immediate and urgent.

So here's the thing - Xander's symptoms, while more severe, do sound a lot like Gen's. We haven't done the pancreatitis test (yet), but my vet's had me giving him the standard treatments anyway (cerenia, ondansetron and mirataz), and it's been effective. All three meds have been necessary for Gen most of the time (we did cut out the cerenia for awhile, but then some inappetence came back and I restarted it, and it seemed to clear the issue). Mirataz in particular is key (and a topical medication, much easier on my fussy boy). If I were you, I might consider giving something similar a try.

I'm really glad that these people seem better than that other ER vet you mentioned.

All the hugs and healing vines, and please keep us posted when you can. โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน
 
Oh, Brianna, this is so hard. I'm so sorry you've been going through this, especially when you've just been so ill, too. It feels like an avalanche.
It really does. And it seems like it never ends! ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

I think you're doing the right thing, and also doing an amazing job advocating for Xander and yourselves and what resources you have. (I forget - do you have CareCredit? It's been a godsend for me once or twice when I had to take on more expense than I could pay up front. Payment plans still hurt, but they've made a few things possible for me that I otherwise couldn't have done.)
Thank you!! I hope so... I did finally get a quote for what I was hoping for; much more targeted blood work (including pancreatitis) with the ultrasound.

The emergency vet went into a whole spiel about sick cats being expensive, which, like, obviously we know. We've been doing it. But treatment for diagnosed things isn't the same as batteries of tests. The whole point is we're out of money for that. We can continue to treat the same way we have, add a new med if needed, etc. We just can't keep paying $2k every time they want to do a million big picture tests.

Anyway, yes, we do have CareCredit, fortunately! So we'll be paying it off with our fundraiser.

I know the heart things are really scary, but I think we're in a similar position there, and my vet has really emphasized that it's not an immediate issue/emergency at this stage (slightly elevated numbers, I am forgetting the stupid acronym and I want to post this quickly so I'm not going to check). That the GI problems are much more immediate and urgent.
It's crazy how similar our boys apparently are. Like, how did this even happen? But yes, the heart stuff is terrifying. The horror stories! The fact that it can be so bad so suddenly is what really scares me. I just don't want to be caught by surprise or have him suffer. But not eating and being in pain now is 100% a more pressing issue than "exactly how bad is this heart disease?"

So here's the thing - Xander's symptoms, while more severe, do sound a lot like Gen's. We haven't done the pancreatitis test (yet), but my vet's had me giving him the standard treatments anyway (cerenia, ondansetron and mirataz), and it's been effective. All three meds have been necessary for Gen most of the time (we did cut out the cerenia for awhile, but then some inappetence came back and I restarted it, and it seemed to clear the issue). Mirataz in particular is key (and a topical medication, much easier on my fussy boy). If I were you, I might consider giving something similar a try.
These are great suggestions, thank you so much! I do already give him ondansetron and Mirataz daily (plus Clearlax to help the constipation from the ondansetron). We also do OTC pepcid. The only thing we don't do is Cerenia, but until last night, vomiting hadn't been much of an issue anymore. Maybe we'll end up adding that eventually, but I don't feel like it seemed to make much difference to him. But who knows?

Thank you so much as always for all the support!! ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ
 
Update:

So please don't tell me if I made a wrong choice here because I can't change it now and it will genuinely haunt me. But this is what I got them to narrow it down to:
  • Blood ketones
  • Packed Cell Volume
  • IDEXX IN - Catalyst Chem 10
  • IDEXX IN - Catalyst Pancreatic Lipase
  • Subq Fluids (on his non-Libre side, and vet confirmed risk with heart disease but isn't very concerned)
  • Abdominal Ultrasound
 
Thank you!! I hope so... I did finally get a quote for what I was hoping for; much more targeted blood work (including pancreatitis) with the ultrasound.
I'm so glad! โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน

These are great suggestions, thank you so much! I do already give him ondansetron and Mirataz daily (plus Clearlax to help the constipation from the ondansetron). We also do OTC pepcid. The only thing we don't do is Cerenia, but until last night, vomiting hadn't been much of an issue anymore. Maybe we'll end up adding that eventually, but I don't feel like it seemed to make much difference to him. But who knows?

Thank you so much as always for all the support!! ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ
Oof, that level of inappetence with mirataz (forgive me, now that I think about it I think you did tell me he was on that) ... that's really rough. But he's clearly experiencing some pretty intense nausea, so maybe the cerenia will wind up being a help. ๐Ÿคž

I don't think I know enough about all the things you've listed to weigh in, but from my limited understanding they make sense to me? These choices are so nerve-wracking to make, but you've been careful, smart and caring about it and I think you're doing an amazing job.
 
Oof, that level of inappetence with mirataz (forgive me, now that I think about it I think you did tell me he was on that) ... that's really rough. But he's clearly experiencing some pretty intense nausea, so maybe the cerenia will wind up being a help. ๐Ÿคž
Exactly! And even with it sometimes he's not super appetant, but it's crazy to me to barely be interested even after not eating for so long and Mirataz, etc. That must feel pretty awful. And I mean how awful must it be if the mere sight of food makes you cry out and throw up?! ๐Ÿ˜ญ My poor sweet guy.


I don't think I know enough about all the things you've listed to weigh in, but from my limited understanding they make sense to me? These choices are so nerve-wracking to make, but you've been careful, smart and caring about it and I think you're doing an amazing job.
I genuinely really appreciate the reassurance that I'm making decisions that make sense, etc. He deserves the best I can possibly give him and it's so hard not knowing what that is.

It's possible that the tests we narrowed it down to won't show anything new. And that would suck. But if I had let it go and not said what I wanted and then got no results, I'd regret it forever. I'd rather have at least gone with my gut and been wrong than settled for something that I thought wasn't right, if that makes sense.
 
A little worried atm because we doubted he'd need to be sedated for the ultrasound (with other people he tends to just freeze, not try to get away) but there's this one dog here now that's extremely loud and if he's hearing that he's probably panicked. ๐Ÿ˜“ That'd be an extra ~$500.
Praying it went well ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™
I think your choices make sense Brianna โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน
Youโ€™re doing an incredible job fit your sweet baby โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน
 
Iโ€™m so sorry, Brianna ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ–ค Agree with everyone else, youโ€™re doing the right thing! You know Xander best and youโ€™ve been doing this dance of tests and symptoms, so you know what makes sense for you and Xander. Also, the goal is to get him to any possible heart tests in the future and that means treating and identifying whatโ€™s going on now. Youโ€™re the best advocate for your sweet boy!!!! Hope the loud dog goes away and no sedation is needed. Will keep checking in to see how youโ€™re both doing ๐Ÿค—
 
Iโ€™m so sorry, Brianna ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ–ค Agree with everyone else, youโ€™re doing the right thing! You know Xander best and youโ€™ve been doing this dance of tests and symptoms, so you know what makes sense for you and Xander. Also, the goal is to get him to any possible heart tests in the future and that means treating and identifying whatโ€™s going on now. Youโ€™re the best advocate for your sweet boy!!!! Hope the loud dog goes away and no sedation is needed. Will keep checking in to see how youโ€™re both doing ๐Ÿค—
Thank you so much, Briana! ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ Loud dog is fortunately at least gone.
 
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