GA Noogi 10.23.2010 - 11.21.2025

Helen + Noogi

Member Since 2025
Dear friends - I'm very sad to have to tell you I lost Noogi today ๐Ÿ’”

As noted in my previous post his appetite was a bit off the day before yesterday, but he seemed to feel better in the evening. And he was his usual self yesterday morning, altho I was a little concerned about his slightly-higher-than-normal numbers. He was subdued last night and didn't eat with his usual gusto, and this morning he showed signs of nausea, so I made an appointment with the vet for this afternoon. When I came home from work to take him in I could see he wasn't doing well. He seemed to be in discomfort and his breathing was laboured. The vet did an x-ray and found large masses in his chest - almost certainly cancerous growths. Absolutely nothing to be done other than give him a gentle ending.

I'd been preparing myself for the inevitable but I thought it was going to be a long drawn-out affair as his arthritis got slowly worse, or his kidneys started to take strain from the anti-inflammatory meds. Cancer was not something I was expecting at all. I'm grateful for both our sakes it was quick. He'd been really happy the last month and I'm hoping that the pain meds he was for the last while for his arthritis maybe helped him not feel pain from the cancer either - I think the fact that he was in good numbers indicate this is might be the case.

He was the sweetest boy. Our bond was so much closer during this last year through this journey with diabetes. He was so good, obliging and patient with all the pricks and injections, I know for certain he knew I was helping him be well. The responsibility and worry has taken a toll on me - like it does to all us caregivers. I feel a deep exhaustion. But I don't regret any of it and feel grateful for the opportunity to extend his life and have this special time with him.

I am also so grateful to have found this community too. Thank you for the support, advice and help throughout this year.
Special thanks to all the moderators for their guidance - especially @Bandit's Mom , @Wendy&Neko. Bhooma, you really held my hand through the difficult first few months and all those panicky nights I was up late testing and retesting. I don't think I would have got Noogi regulated without your help. Forever grateful.
High fives and hugs to the pals in what I think of as my cohort. We all joined at more or less the same time and went through similar journeys at the same time. Love you guys and your cats @Mary & Jude, @Laurie&Petey, @Brianna & Xander, @Briana + Binx, @Karolina & Nestle, @Charlie'sMom22, @Tim & Pookey, @Lauren & Esse, @Kat & Trixie
Much appreciation and gratitude to the members who have been here longer and have so generously shared their wisdom and support, especially @Staci & Ivy, @squeem3 and @Seth&Bell

Everyone - squeeze your kitties extra tight today โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
 
Oh my goodness, Helen, I am so, so sorry! My heart breaks for you! ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

This seemed to come on so suddenly, though obviously it wasn't. I think it shows how wonderfully you cared for him, and kept him happy and well, that this was so unexpected.

I'm grateful that he didn't have to suffer and that you didn't have to watch him decline, but I'm so sorry for the sudden void you must feel.

I think all of us agree that Noogi is so special and loved by everyone here. I have loved getting to know you both and see him truly thrive. You have been such a great caretaker and friend to him. You have given him your all and it seems like he truly knew that. ๐Ÿ’œ

Thank you for sharing your sweet boy with us. We've all lost a beloved friend today. ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ

Sending you so much love and comfort, friend. I wish we could all give you a hug. ๐Ÿซ‚โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน
 
Oh Helen,
I don't know what to say. My heart just broke into a million pieces for you and sweet Noogi.
I remeber few weeks back when you first mentioned he wasn't feeling well and I was so sure he will pull through. When things aren't right I always think of that African phrase you mentioned on here once that meant "hang in there/keep going" (of course I forget how to spell it but I'm sure you'll know what I'm talking about).

I'll be thinking of you and sweet Noogi. May he fly high and I'll make sure to look for him in the clouds and the sunshine next time I'm high above the ground.
Please know we're all here for you. Sending many hugs your way and so much love โค๏ธ โค๏ธโค๏ธ

May Angels guide you in sweet Noogi
โœจ๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿฑ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ•Š๐Ÿ•ฏ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿค
 
When things aren't right I always think of that African phrase you mentioned on here once that meant "hang in there/keep going" (of course I forget how to spell it but I'm sure you'll know what I'm talking about).

Yes! This comes to mind on a daily basis for me. You have given comfort and friendship to so many here, @Helen + Noogi. ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ
 
Oh my gosh. Iโ€™m so sorry Helen. My heart hurts so much for you and sweet Noogi. We all loved him very much and Iโ€™m so glad his last month was happy and comfortable. You did a great job for him. Itโ€™s emotional for me to write, I canโ€™t imagine how youโ€™re feeling. Iโ€™m so sorry.
 
(((Helen))) Tears on my keyboard....

I am so sorry for your loss. He was such a special boy and loved so much. I am heartbroken for you ๐Ÿ’”. He had been through a lot over the last few months, and you did everything you could to help him be as comfy as possible. I am relieved to read that he was not in pain, and you gave him the kindness gift by letting him go gently.
Take care of yourself while you grieve your sweet Noogi โค๏ธ May you find peace and solace in his memory. I know I won't soon forget his sweet nature and the wonderful stories you shared with us. You now have a very special angel to watch over you. cat_wings>o

Sending hugs during this difficult time ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—
 
I am so sorry, Helen. My deepest condolences ๐Ÿ–ค ๐Ÿ–ค ๐Ÿ–ค My heart goes out to you and your sweet Noogi, I can't even imagine what you must be feeling. What I do know is he was so incredibly lucky to have a mom like you - who took care of him so well, loved him so fully, and knew his in's and out's like they were your own. I know the same is true for you too, lucky to have had such an amazing boy, Noogi by your side.

It's been such a privilege to be a part of your journey, to go through our own journey with you there, and to get to see everything unfold over the last year. I remember so clearly when Noogi hit his breakthrough dose and how his numbers improved, what an encouraging and inspiring moment. There's no doubt he got this year because of you and your dedication.

He's at rest now and will be watching over you, making sure you're taken care of. As everyone else has said, we loved him so much. Our hearts are broken with you, but nothing in comparison to what you must be feeling. Thank you so much for sharing Noogi with us, he will be missed so much. Thinking of you both ๐Ÿ–ค๐Ÿ–ค
 
Oh, Helen. I'm so saddened to hear this. I can't imagine how you must be feeling๐Ÿซ‚. It's just so sad when they go. I'm glad you were able to make the transition easier for him--the final and best gift. He was so fortunate (and smart!) to have chosen you as his mommy those years ago, and I know that you feel honored that he did and that he was a part of your life. Sweet Noogi. We will all miss you little guy. See you at the bridge.๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”
 
Oh my god Helen. I am so sorry. This is so unexpected. My heart is broken reading this. Noogs was such a good boy, and his journey the last year has been really inspiring to a lot of us. Your care for him has been too. I think you're right that his good numbers recently suggest that he was not in pain. And I think that his normal, happy behavior up until the very end suggests that as well. I hope you can hold onto that and find comfort in it.

I wish I could hug you tight. Thank you for helping me and Charlie that very first day he went "low." I remember being so scared, and you stayed with me and walked me through it calmly and thoughtfully. You had just been through it with Noogi and were still learning how to carb him up. And thank you for teaching me vasbyt. I hope you know how much you've helped people here--and I think Noogi helped you learn how to be such a great support for other caregivers. So thank you to him for that as well.

He'll be in my thoughts, as will you. I hope you can get some much-needed rest now and that your heart heals quickly.โค๏ธ

Rest easy, sweet handsome Noogi ๐ŸŒˆcat_wings>o
 
I'm so saddened for you, Helen. Noogi was such a beautiful cat, and such a character. His photos always brightened my day when you posted them. You have been such a wonderful caretaker for him and such a light for us here.

A sudden loss like this has to be harder for you than it is for him--I'm glad that he was able to go out on a pretty good day, so to speak, but I can't even imagine your heartbreak. Please take care of yourself and get some good rest. โค๏ธ
 
Oh (((Helen))), Iโ€™m so very sorry to read about Noogi ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”
He was such a sweet and gentle soul. The sweetest, pure as a perfect new snow, white kitty.
You two had such a gentle ride together and you both have been such an inspiration to all of us. What a wonderful mum youโ€™ve been to your boy. He loved you so much ๐Ÿ’–

Iโ€™m in disbelief, as we all are, not imagining this could be going on ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Itโ€™s been so wonderful having you both in this community and watching Noogi thrive under your loving care.
I will miss you both so much. Sending you the biggest hugs and wishing you comfort. May his memory be a blessing to you.
Please take care of yourself and know we care so much ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚
 
๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿฅบ Helen, I am so, so sorry to hear this. My heart aches for you. Sending you so much love. I'll never forget first "meeting" Noogi, laying in the garden walk way after receiving some allergy treatment. You were an amazing Mum, and his soft place to land, no question he picked the best one.๐Ÿค—

I will miss him very much. I hope you'll stop by and say Hi now and again ๐Ÿค—โค๏ธ. Rest easy, sweet Noogs. ๐Ÿฅบ
 
I feel quite overwhelmed by the love and support from you ALL. Thank you so, so much for your kind words :bighug:
Not going to lie... today has been a very hard day. I've been with supportive friends, but I am feeling waves of intense sadness and grief. I know there is no way around it, I just have to go through it. I know it will get easier in time.

I'm trying to focus on the positives so in the next few weeks/months I plan to:
- spend time with family and friends, and enjoy the summer
- try to reconnect with those friends I have neglected this year due to my second full-time job caring for Noogi
- be open to spontaneous adventures and weekends away
- maybe join an exercise class or other activities after work
- plan the house renovations that I have been putting off for so long. Been meaning to tackle this for literally years but I couldn't figure out a way to undertake them and manage Noogi at the same time so I just kept putting them on the back-burner. But now I can do my bathroom reno, change the flooring and paint my apartment - my big project for 2026. And when that is all done, maybe see if it's time to welcome another kitty into my life?

I expect I will still be around on this board from time to time. I need to know how my kitty friends are doing! :) โค๏ธ
 
Last edited:
{{{{Helen}}}} I am so sad to hear this news about Noogi. :bighug::bighug:There was obviously a very deep bond between the two of you. Obvious with you recognizing something was wrong. I hate the big C. It can be so quick with little time to say goodbye.

You were so in tune with his needs and a wonderful caregiver. With all that effort, there can be a cost to the caregiver. Please be gentle with yourself, spoil yourself, take time for Helen things.

Think of Noogi's spirit being free now, able to be a kitten again and out of his tired body. That image is what helped me. Fly free Noogi. cat_wings>o
 
1000129752.jpg


1000129750.jpg


1000129748.jpg


1000129754.jpg
 
Back
Top