Hi there. I was just checking in today and I hope you and Bailey are doing okay.
No, not really. It’s been almost a week on prednisolone and metro and his diarrhea hasn’t stopped. Not even for a second. It’s awful! I switched from fancy feast salmon to the turkey and giblets but that didn’t make a difference. I’ve been giving him a teaspoon of organic probiotic yogurt — also not helping.
I’m so overwhelmed and stressed over how much money I’ve spent and really don’t know how I could possibly afford even more testing. Plus, he does so horrible at vets (he’s gets gabapentin prior but it doesn’t help. The vet said his anxiety is an extreme case). I’m worried the stress alone of going to a 4th place could kill him.
I’ve spent countless hours researching and trying to find answers— but the more I read the more confused I get.
I got liquid bupe (very expensive for a very tiny amount— I even asked the pharmacist, “is this supposed to be almost empty”). My vet also sent over the Bupe in a transdermal gel when I asked after doing more research but I haven’t bothered to call and find out how much that’s going to be. Or if that’s the best thing for him. Not even sure he’s in pain, except for the short amount of time that he cries before going to the bathroom. I just imagine he has to be.
While my vet doesn’t seem like he has any idea how to help me, he does seem very willing to prescribe anything I ask for. The problem is… I don’t know what I need.
He gave a b12 injection last week but it didn’t help. Am I supposed to keep doing that anyway? Or was one time enough? Maybe not necessary since it made no difference. Again, I don’t know.
I’m guessing the diarrhea is IBD or lymphoma (either way it came on so suddenly and unexpectedly). That’s just what I keep reading about anyway. Not sure what my next steps are to try to treat one or the other. Or if it’s something else entirely.
I have zero idea what’s causing the blood in his urine which is also upsetting me. I’m not sleeping much and I just wish I had a plan or felt like I was on the right track.
I was thinking about trying a food other than fancy feast— but I get so confused reading the charts. I don’t know how to find what’s good for a senior cat with all of these issues and diabetes and possible early kidney issue so phosphorus has to be watched. When I manage to find something that looks like the carbs and phosphorus is low— I can’t figure out if it’s good for possible IBD. He’s picky and will only eat pates. Won’t eat chunks of anything. I know he was eating duck for awhile that he seemed to like but then I found out the one I was feeding was very high in carbs (after his diabetes dx— because prior to that I was clueless).
I’ve seen probiotics mentioned but I don’t know which is best or how to use them. My hands and arms are literally covered in deep puncture wounds from dealing with his current meds. It’s a miracle I haven’t needed an antibiotic myself. So I can’t even imagine adding more pills. But I will if I have to. I tried putting medicine on food in the past to no avail but I’m sure it tasted bad. Maybe they don’t all taste so awful?
I’ve seen other supplements mentioned but all of the information is honestly overwhelming and I don’t know which to use or what combo.
What I really need—(even though it’s not going to happen)… I wish I had a vet or someone that would just tell me exactly what to get, how much to use and how often. Someone to tell me exactly what food to get, what medicine to give and what other supplements or probiotics to try with detailed instructions that a child could understand (that’s my comprehension level). But no such luck.
I’m scared and upset about the meds not working and wondering what it means. Is there a different medication that I should be trying? Or do I continue with what I have? I have no idea…
plus, I’m worried that I’m ignoring the blood in his urine but the vet is clueless on how to help with that too. How am I supposed to figure it out if he can’t?
Bottom line— I’m just spinning in circles and no better than I was when this started.
Sorry for the rant. I know you’ve already given me TONS of info. and I’m beyond grateful. You are a lot smarter than me though and I can’t make heads or tails of it all. You’ve mentioned lots of stuff but I don’t know which ones would be best to start with, where to get them or how to use them. I imagine certain things can’t be given with others and I don’t want to try too much at once. Or do I? And I keep coming back to the fact that I’m doing nothing about the blood in his urine. Am I overreacting?
In case it wasn’t obvious— I’m a mess. If Bailey was someone else’s cat, they would prob be helping him more. But the poor thing is stuck with me who hasn’t been able to help him yet. He whines as if he’s asking me to help him… and I don’t. I just force gross liquid in his mouth and pills down his throat and it doesn’t make him feel any better. At least with insulin, I think he understood that I was helping. He deserves better than me