GA Phoenix, my bobcat, died this time a week ago

Scdal

Member Since 2020
@Bandit's Mom
Bhooma, I know that none of you knew that Phoenix was a 40 lb. bobcat. I was worried about telling anyone because a lot of people in the states are against exotic ownership.

This last April, I took Phoenix for his 6 month check up. The vet was really pleased. His bloodwork was completely normal and the best he had ever had. His bun was slightly elevated so he gave Phoenix a round of antibiotics.

Between July and September, Phoenix had 3 episodes of not wanting to eat and hanging over his water bowl. The time between episodes was about 4 - 6 weeks. I would give him cerenia and start him on antibiotics. I could tempt him with raw kidney and he would eat it. By the next morning, Phoenix was fine and eating again.

This last episode started last Friday morning. Phoenix wouldn't eat at all. I could not get blood out of his ear no matter how hard I tried. I could also tell from his skin that he was severely dehydrated. He always drank a lot of water and hung over his water bowl whenever he had one of these episodes. I phoned his vet and he made an appointment for that afternoon.

His blood work showed that Phoenix was severely anemic. I believed the count was 15 when it should have been around 50. The vet suspected that Phoenix might be developing AIHA. That is auto immune hemolytic anemia. He said that the blood work showed that Phoenix's body was trying to produce more blood cells. The vet gave Phoenix a steroid and B-12 injection plus he wanted me to give him 20mg of prednisolone twice a day for a week as well as antibiotics. He wanted me to bring him back on Monday for more blood work.

Phoenix had become very weak that day and was peeing in his carrier. He never did this. The vet said it was because he was so weak. When Phoenix got home, he went and laid under the small settee. He later got up and was staggering to his pee pads to urinate. He was so weak that he laid down on the pee pads after urinating. I pulled them out from under him to keep him dry. A while later, he went back under the settee. Then Phoenix came and laid under the end table in the living room. I gave him his prednisolone and Phoenix was in really bad shape. It terrified me and I went to call an emergency vet since it was 7 a.m. I got back up to check on Phoenix and he was gone.

It is amazing to me how in the space of 2 days, Phoenix could go from eating a pound and a half of meat a day and 2 days later dying. The vet said that in the previous episodes, Phoenix's adrenaline would kick in and he would be okay.

Phoenix was my only child. He was 18 years old and the center of my universe. He is and will always be the keeper of my heart and soul.
 
I'm sorry for your loss Phoenix must have been a beautiful kitty.
Fly high sweet Phoenix you will be missed :bighug::bighug::bighug::rb_icon:cat_wings>o
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Thank you, I am just devastated. In all the 18 years of Phoenix's life, we only spent one night apart. Good luck with Whiskey. I wish you both happiness and long lives.
I lost my soul girl last year, Saskia. I'm still devastated she's gone. We adopted Whiskey to live with us after she passed, felt that we needed to give an adult cat a home.

Something that helped me, after losing Sas was to write down all the names I had for her and what I loved about her...because I didn't want to forget.
 
I'm sorry for your loss Phoenix must have been a beautiful kitty.
Fly high sweet Phoenix you will be missed :bighug::bighug::bighug::rb_icon:cat_wings>o
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Thank you, Diane, that is a wonderful poem. I am going to print it out and keep it with me. I am going to try to figure out how to post a picture of Phoenix so you can see my precious boy.
 
I lost my soul girl last year, Saskia. I'm still devastated she's gone. We adopted Whiskey to live with us after she passed, felt that we needed to give an adult cat a home.

Something that helped me, after losing Sas was to write down all the names I had for her and what I loved about her...because I didn't want to forget.
I have been doing the same thing. I still talk to him when I am in the house sometimes and hope he can hear me.
 
Susan <3 Sending you lots of love! You were such a good caregiver for Phoenix and I'm sure he's watching over you :rb_icon: XO
 
Thank you, Diane, that is a wonderful poem. I am going to print it out and keep it with me. I am going to try to figure out how to post a picture of Phoenix so you can see my precious boy.
I would love to see a photo of Phoenix . I think k you can copy one you have of him and paste it here :bighug::bighug:
 
Susan <3 Sending you lots of love! You were such a good caregiver for Phoenix and I'm sure he's watching over you :rb_icon: XO
Thank you, it is just so hard to believe that a week ago Thursday, Phoenix ate a pound and a half of meat. Friday, he wouldn't eat and by Saturday morning, he was dead. Thank you for caring.
 
I have tried to copy and paste pictures but it is not working. I am not very tech savvy. I have a Samsung galaxy phone. I have the pictures in my gallery and file picture folder. If anyone can explain how to attach pictures, I would really appreciate it. Thank you
 
Susan, I am so sorry that Phoenix has left you. :bighug::bighug: Amazing that he was a bobcat, you were a pioneer with treating one that is diabetic. He was so lucky to have you as a caregiver.
 
Gosh, I am so very sorry for your loss. Hoping you find comfort in knowing how much love there was between you and Phoenix. Godspeed little bobcat.
 
I have tried to copy and paste pictures but it is not working. I am not very tech savvy. I have a Samsung galaxy phone. I have the pictures in my gallery and file picture folder. If anyone can explain how to attach pictures, I would really appreciate it. Thank you
Hi Susan, you could try uploading one photo as your avatar by clicking on this link:
https://www.felinediabetes.com/FDMB/account/avatar

Do you use your phone to post on the forum or a computer/laptop?
 
Susan, I am so sorry that Phoenix has left you. :bighug::bighug: Amazing that he was a bobcat, you were a pioneer with treating one that is diabetic. He was so lucky to have you as a caregiver.
Thank you Wendy, you were a big help to me many times. I volunteered at a big cat sanctuary for over 30 years and only know of one tiger that became diabetic. Phoenix had developed pica, eating dirt, around January of this year. I mentioned it to his vet and in April, Phoenix's blood work was perfect. I think his body was able to compensate and still produce all the red blood cells he needed. The vet did tell me to let him lick the dirt because he was obviously lacking a mineral he needed. I gave Phoenix 2 cobalaquin a day, 2 doses of liquitinic, zobaline and his missing link vitamins with bone meal added. He also got a B-12 injection once a month. He also had an inhaler for allergic asthma that was fully controlled and no longer a problem.

So this is a warning to anyone who has a cat that develops pica, get bloodwork done at least every other month despite the cost. Phoenix was due his 6 month check up this month. By then, the anemia was so bad, it was life threatening.
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I figured out how to add a picture to my profile but I still can't post a picture to the forum.
Do you have the photos on your laptop as well or only your phone? One way it to upload them to google drive and share the link here. Do you need help with how to do that?
 
Do you have the photos on your laptop as well or only your phone? One way it to upload them to google drive and share the link here. Do you need help with how to do that?
Yes, I have the pictures on my phone and laptop. I do need help in sharing the link. Thank you, Bhooma
 
Yes, I have the pictures on my phone and laptop. I do need help in sharing the link. Thank you, Bhooma
  1. Go to drive.google.com on your laptop browser
  2. Sign in with your Google/gmail ID if you aren't already signed in
  3. On the top left you will see "+ New". This is to create a new folder
  4. Upload the photos to this folder
  5. Go to the folder and set the Share options to "Anyone with Link can View"
  6. Copy Link and paste it here on the forum
Let me know if you are able to do this or you get stuck at some point. I haven't really gone into a lot of detail above!
 
I can see the second set (you and the impressively LARGE cats!), but when I click on the first link (Phoenix) it says I don't have access. Maybe check the "Share" options for that folder? I really would like to see him.
Karen, please try it now, I updated it.
 
Thank you, Karen, it is heartbreaking and I miss Phoenix with every breath I take.
I understand completely. I lost my beautiful Chulo ten months ago, and not a day goes by when I don't miss him terribly. I guess most of us have been there at some time, not that it makes it any easier. My heart goes out to you.
 
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  1. Go to drive.google.com on your laptop browser
  2. Sign in with your Google/gmail ID if you aren't already signed in
  3. On the top left you will see "+ New". This is to create a new folder
  4. Upload the photos to this folder
  5. Go to the folder and set the Share options to "Anyone with Link can View"
  6. Copy Link and paste it here on the forum
Let me know if you are able to do this or you get stuck at some point. I haven't really gone into a lot of detail above!
Thank you Bhooma, it worked !!
 
Phoenix was absolutely gorgeous, and you and the large cats amazing. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::cat:
Hello Diane,
The only reason I posted pictures of the large cats was to let people see that I had experience working with large cats and did not just get Phoenix on a whim. Actually, they are a lot easier to train than domestic cats.

I don't know if any of you know this but the larger cats, bobcats up to lions, all have round pupils like humans. They are a lot like dogs in a cat's body. They wag their tails, can walk on leashes and are social like dogs and interact with you constantly. None of them are fully grown until they are at least 5 years old. Phoenix grew until he was 7.

They also have almost superhuman strength. A funny thing Phoenix used to do was before I retired. He was about a year old at the time and not much bigger than a large house cat. I used to get up at 4 a.m. to get ready for work. Phoenix did not understand weekends when I could sleep in. At 4 a.m. Phoenix would start getting in my face trying to get me out of bed. When that didn't work, he figured out a more drastic measure. He would get the middle of the mattress in his mouth and start tugging. He could actually pull the mattress completely off the box springs with me in it. I would be clinging on as the mattress landed on the floor. Over time, he completely destroyed the mattress. I have pictures of it. Thankfully, he learned that weekends were for sleeping in.
Thank you again for your post. I will miss Phoenix always.
 
Hello Diane,
The only reason I posted pictures of the large cats was to let people see that I had experience working with large cats and did not just get Phoenix on a whim. Actually, they are a lot easier to train than domestic cats.

I don't know if any of you know this but the larger cats, bobcats up to lions, all have round pupils like humans. They are a lot like dogs in a cat's body. They wag their tails, can walk on leashes and are social like dogs and interact with you constantly. None of them are fully grown until they are at least 5 years old. Phoenix grew until he was 7.

They also have almost superhuman strength. A funny thing Phoenix used to do was before I retired. He was about a year old at the time and not much bigger than a large house cat. I used to get up at 4 a.m. to get ready for work. Phoenix did not understand weekends when I could sleep in. At 4 a.m. Phoenix would start getting in my face trying to get me out of bed. When that didn't work, he figured out a more drastic measure. He would get the middle of the mattress in his mouth and start tugging. He could actually pull the mattress completely off the box springs with me in it. I would be clinging on as the mattress landed on the floor. Over time, he completely destroyed the mattress. I have pictures of it. Thankfully, he learned that weekends were for sleeping in.
Thank you again for your post. I will miss Phoenix always.
Thank you for all the information about large cats .
That is so funny what Phoenix did to the mattress to get you up
Very intelligent kitty. I would have just like to cuddle him .
Please take care of yourself Susan :bighug::bighug::bighug:

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I don't know if any of you know this but the larger cats, bobcats up to lions, all have round pupils like humans. They are a lot like dogs in a cat's body. They wag their tails, can walk on leashes and are social like dogs and interact with you constantly. None of them are fully grown until they are at least 5 years old. Phoenix grew until he was 7.

They also have almost superhuman strength. A funny thing Phoenix used to do was before I retired. He was about a year old at the time and not much bigger than a large house cat. I used to get up at 4 a.m. to get ready for work. Phoenix did not understand weekends when I could sleep in. At 4 a.m. Phoenix would start getting in my face trying to get me out of bed. When that didn't work, he figured out a more drastic measure. He would get the middle of the mattress in his mouth and start tugging. He could actually pull the mattress completely off the box springs with me in it. I would be clinging on as the mattress landed on the floor. Over time, he completely destroyed the mattress. I have pictures of it. Thankfully, he learned that weekends were for sleeping in.
Thank you again for your post. I will miss Phoenix always.

Wow, so neat! Your story about him pulling the mattress really made me chuckle. Cats can be so determined and they sure know how to get our attention when they want to! I think it’s cool that bobcats are the smallest cats in the lynx genus. Such beautiful animals. And those giant paws!
 
Susan, what a heartbreaking time for you, Phoenix was Gorgeous, and I long wondered if he might be a bobcat, because of his weight and diet. I'm glad he wasn't just a huge domestic kitty.
I have long desired a bobcat, but couldn't risk my other cats and dogs. And now I will be too old.
I used to watch videos made by a couple in N TX who adopted two bobcats. I was stuck on the idea for weeks. My best memory of the state fair in Missouri, is when I paid 7.50 to hold and have my picture taken with two cubs - a lion and a tiger. Their little growls are still in my head over 25 years later.
May you feel blessed to have been close to such an amazing creature, Phoenix will undoubtedly be in your heart forever. Huge hugs and love.
 
Wow, so neat! Your story about him pulling the mattress really made me chuckle. Cats can be so determined and they sure know how to get our attention when they want to! I think it’s cool that bobcats are the smallest cats in the lynx genus. Such beautiful animals. And those giant paws!
Thank you Jackie,
That is what I like about cats as well. The larger cats are also super intelligent. They have to be to survive in the wild. They watch you and will repeat what you do. Phoenix could open doors even with hook and eye closures. You had to use the sliding bolts to secure bathroom doors.This goes for outside gates as well. And like a kid, if I would get on the phone, Phoenix would drag all the pots and pans out of my kitchen cabinets and bang them around until I go off the phone.
 
Susan, what a heartbreaking time for you, Phoenix was Gorgeous, and I long wondered if he might be a bobcat, because of his weight and diet. I'm glad he wasn't just a huge domestic kitty.
I have long desired a bobcat, but couldn't risk my other cats and dogs. And now I will be too old.
I used to watch videos made by a couple in N TX who adopted two bobcats. I was stuck on the idea for weeks. My best memory of the state fair in Missouri, is when I paid 7.50 to hold and have my picture taken with two cubs - a lion and a tiger. Their little growls are still in my head over 25 years later.
May you feel blessed to have been close to such an amazing creature, Phoenix will undoubtedly be in your heart forever. Huge hugs and love.
Please don't even consider getting a bobcat, Tina. This is how most of the sanctuaries end up with exotic cats. People don't realize the difference between an exotic and a domestic cat. When things get more than they can handle they give it up.

I am aware of the couple you are talking about. Do you know he got attacked by one of the cats and had to go to the emergency room? They used to volunteer at a wildlife refuge that does not train or use proper handling techniques. The game warden is out there constantly because of complaints and the place is a filthy mess. They obtained a permit to possess these two bobcats by paying off the wildlife rehabber's mortgage. She had recently divorced. I went to visit the place several years ago. The place was a dump. The cages had children's pools full of cat litter that looked like they hadn't been changed in weeks. There was rotten food in the cages. Before I went home, I stopped at a car wash and washed all the grime off my car. I threw away my shoes before I entered my house and then threw away my clothes. I will tell you more about what goes into caring for larger cats in another email. I am trying to stay busy to keep my mind occupied and I have to get my chainsaw out and cut up branches. I hope you have a good day and it is wonderful that you love cats so much.
 
RIP Phoenix! I'm so very sorry for your loss....know you're not crying alone!
:bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
Thank you, Scarlette, you are so kind and Fluffy is beautiful. Phoenix was such a great companion to me. Bobcats and the other larger cats are super intelligent. It is almost like having a teenager in the house. I am not trying to put down domesticated cats but the wild cats have to be intelligent to survive in the wild.
Since I live on 5 acres by myself. Phoenix made me feel so safe. Bobcats and all the larger cats behave like dogs in a cat's body. They can even get canine distemper. They wag their tails like dogs, follow you everywhere and walk on leashes. Phoenix knew I was trying to help him when he became diabetic. When I needed to check Phoenix's BG, I would say "come here, I need to check your bootie" even though I was pricking his ear. Phoenix would walk over and sit and let me prick his ear sometimes over 14 times a day. He was the same with his inhaler for allergies and any pills he had to take.

There are down sides to the larger cats. They will eat anything especially when they are young. That includes your shoes, clothes, sheets and toys. By the time they are 4 months old, they can jump from the ground to the roof of your house in one leap. You also have to train them to come in when you want them to. You can't just pick them up like a regular cat.

They also need special diets. They cannot exist on cat food. They have to have chicken or cornish hens with the bones to get the calcium that they need. Phoenix could chew up and swallow a whole chicken leg in just a few bites.

I hope I haven't bored you with all this but I miss him so much. My best to you and Fluffy. To honor Phoenix, I would like all of you to go over to your cat and give them a huge kiss and a hug. Tell them how much you love them and how much they mean to you. They will understand you. Take care and I will never forget the people on this forum and all the help and support that I received. Thank you
 
Thank you, Scarlette, you are so kind and Fluffy is beautiful. Phoenix was such a great companion to me. Bobcats and the other larger cats are super intelligent. It is almost like having a teenager in the house. I am not trying to put down domesticated cats but the wild cats have to be intelligent to survive in the wild.
Since I live on 5 acres by myself. Phoenix made me feel so safe. Bobcats and all the larger cats behave like dogs in a cat's body. They can even get canine distemper. They wag their tails like dogs, follow you everywhere and walk on leashes. Phoenix knew I was trying to help him when he became diabetic. When I needed to check Phoenix's BG, I would say "come here, I need to check your bootie" even though I was pricking his ear. Phoenix would walk over and sit and let me prick his ear sometimes over 14 times a day. He was the same with his inhaler for allergies and any pills he had to take.

There are down sides to the larger cats. They will eat anything especially when they are young. That includes your shoes, clothes, sheets and toys. By the time they are 4 months old, they can jump from the ground to the roof of your house in one leap. You also have to train them to come in when you want them to. You can't just pick them up like a regular cat.

They also need special diets. They cannot exist on cat food. They have to have chicken or cornish hens with the bones to get the calcium that they need. Phoenix could chew up and swallow a whole chicken leg in just a few bites.

I hope I haven't bored you with all this but I miss him so much. My best to you and Fluffy. To honor Phoenix, I would like all of you to go over to your cat and give them a huge kiss and a hug. Tell them how much you love them and how much they mean to you. They will understand you. Take care and I will never forget the people on this forum and all the help and support that I received. Thank you
Awwww.....thank you for sharing Phoenix with me. I loved reading all about him! I'd love to have one too but that can never happen for me. I'm too old and live in the city. ;(

I have 7 cats. Alo seniors except Nallah whos 5 or 6. FLUFFY
Thank you, Scarlette, you are so kind and Fluffy is beautiful. Phoenix was such a great companion to me. Bobcats and the other larger cats are super intelligent. It is almost like having a teenager in the house. I am not trying to put down domesticated cats but the wild cats have to be intelligent to survive in the wild.
Since I live on 5 acres by myself. Phoenix made me feel so safe. Bobcats and all the larger cats behave like dogs in a cat's body. They can even get canine distemper. They wag their tails like dogs, follow you everywhere and walk on leashes. Phoenix knew I was trying to help him when he became diabetic. When I needed to check Phoenix's BG, I would say "come here, I need to check your bootie" even though I was pricking his ear. Phoenix would walk over and sit and let me prick his ear sometimes over 14 times a day. He was the same with his inhaler for allergies and any pills he had to take.

There are down sides to the larger cats. They will eat anything especially when they are young. That includes your shoes, clothes, sheets and toys. By the time they are 4 months old, they can jump from the ground to the roof of your house in one leap. You also have to train them to come in when you want them to. You can't just pick them up like a regular cat.

They also need special diets. They cannot exist on cat food. They have to have chicken or cornish hens with the bones to get the calcium that they need. Phoenix could chew up and swallow a whole chicken leg in just a few bites.

I hope I haven't bored you with all this but I miss him so much. My best to you and Fluffy. To honor Phoenix, I would like all of you to go over to your cat and give them a huge kiss and a hug. Tell them how much you love them and how much they mean to you. They will understand you. Take care and I will never forget the people on this forum and all the help and support that I received. Thank you
 
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