Hi Erin,
Welcome to FDMB. I know everything is overwhelming, but I promise it does get easier. I am glad you reached out to us for help.
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Can you tell us what insulin you are using and the dose? Also, what are you feeding Zoey?
Yes, your cat will get over being treated as a pin cushion. One trick is to make sure you reward her with a low carb treat every time you test. A great treat is freeze dried chicken. A lot of us buy ours from the dog treat section of the pet store. You get a bigger bag and end up spending less than if you buy the small bag in the cat section. Give her a treat every time you test, even if you are not successful. She will soon associate testing with getting the treat. My cat Charlie automatically will go to his testing spot now and wait to get tested and his treat. If I am not fast enough, he meows at me reminding me that he is waiting.
There is a lot of info on this site. You are already off to a great start by testing and doing your own curve. For food, we recommend either a low carb canned or raw food diet. There are a couple brands of low carb dry food that work well also. Many of us feed our cats either Fancy Feast or Friskies canned food. Pate flavors are usually the lower carb choices.
If you can set up your spreadsheet, that will help us give you dosing advice. If you have any questions, please reach out and ask them. We welcome all questions and will do our best to answer them quickly. You have a lot of experienced people on this board and we want to help you learn to give the best care to Zoey that you can. The reason this board was created is to help others learn how to care for their cats.