Noah & me (GA)
Member Since 2016
This might be long but it's all relevant. I know dementia sounds dramatic, please bear with me. I have a brain injury; multiple concussuions and an ischemic stroke for starters and our previous dog had dementia, this is NOT Munchausen syndrome. It's painful enough knowing I'm not the same person anymore and even more painful to watch this in an innocent animal.
Marco was rescued at age seven and is now fourteen. A non diabetic long hair male whose only issues to now are some minor dental work and his last UTI was three years ago. We know he was abused with a spray bottle (he's terrified if he sees or hears one) and still flinches when I go to pet him so he may have been smacked around. He adjusted to his new life immediatley, gets along with the other cats and a large dog, loves the car, never makes a fuss at the vet and is smart enough not to wander off if he sits on the front steps with me.
His hearing loss is not total and has been verified by a vet. His blood work shows some slight kidney and liver problems not unusual to a 14 year old cat. Dental and GI tract are fine, nothing that could be causing pain and making him unhappy. The rest is conjecture on my part.
This is what Marco has been doing:
The only time he was ever vocal meant "Daddy take me outside" and I did. He'd nibble on our grass (no chemicals) then go 20 feet to a specific spot on the neighbors lawn and nibble on their grass. On quiet days he would walk with me seven or eight houses down the block but always kept me in sight. This was all very routine, Marco is the most street smart cat I've ever seen.
He spends most of his time quietly in our bedroom but for the last month it's only when he comes down the meowing never stops and it's not always by the door. The instant you touch him or pick him up it all stops. He still goes out with me but does some odd things. Large dogs walking by the house ten feet away don't register with him. Maybe he trusts that I won't let harm come to him but it's still pretty odd. His vision is fine.
Now he stops short of the neighbors lawn and cowers under the neighbors shrubs, exactly the spot where we're no longer in sight of each other. That would be a natural place to hide from danger or get out of the rain except it's not raining, no thunder, the neighbors didn't just pull into their driveway. (the neighbors and their child adore Marco) I have to almost drag him from under the shrub and he's only happy when he realizes it's me.
There have been a few times I've seen him between the neighbor's house and the next house staring blankly at the wall and I've had to approach him slowly to take him home. He doesn't make a fuss, he's relieved it's me and that he's back at home.
He does get picked on by the alpha male but it's more posturing, never biting.
Marco goes back this week for some more in depth tests. I've done the spinal tap/MRI thing before on a cat looking for a miracle that wasn't there, that's not what I'm looking for.
What am I missing?
Marco was rescued at age seven and is now fourteen. A non diabetic long hair male whose only issues to now are some minor dental work and his last UTI was three years ago. We know he was abused with a spray bottle (he's terrified if he sees or hears one) and still flinches when I go to pet him so he may have been smacked around. He adjusted to his new life immediatley, gets along with the other cats and a large dog, loves the car, never makes a fuss at the vet and is smart enough not to wander off if he sits on the front steps with me.
His hearing loss is not total and has been verified by a vet. His blood work shows some slight kidney and liver problems not unusual to a 14 year old cat. Dental and GI tract are fine, nothing that could be causing pain and making him unhappy. The rest is conjecture on my part.
This is what Marco has been doing:
The only time he was ever vocal meant "Daddy take me outside" and I did. He'd nibble on our grass (no chemicals) then go 20 feet to a specific spot on the neighbors lawn and nibble on their grass. On quiet days he would walk with me seven or eight houses down the block but always kept me in sight. This was all very routine, Marco is the most street smart cat I've ever seen.
He spends most of his time quietly in our bedroom but for the last month it's only when he comes down the meowing never stops and it's not always by the door. The instant you touch him or pick him up it all stops. He still goes out with me but does some odd things. Large dogs walking by the house ten feet away don't register with him. Maybe he trusts that I won't let harm come to him but it's still pretty odd. His vision is fine.
Now he stops short of the neighbors lawn and cowers under the neighbors shrubs, exactly the spot where we're no longer in sight of each other. That would be a natural place to hide from danger or get out of the rain except it's not raining, no thunder, the neighbors didn't just pull into their driveway. (the neighbors and their child adore Marco) I have to almost drag him from under the shrub and he's only happy when he realizes it's me.
There have been a few times I've seen him between the neighbor's house and the next house staring blankly at the wall and I've had to approach him slowly to take him home. He doesn't make a fuss, he's relieved it's me and that he's back at home.
He does get picked on by the alpha male but it's more posturing, never biting.
Marco goes back this week for some more in depth tests. I've done the spinal tap/MRI thing before on a cat looking for a miracle that wasn't there, that's not what I'm looking for.
What am I missing?


