The irony is that they will gobble down and food and want more when they are in high numbers, but turn their nose up at it when they are low and we want them to eat. That's the way it is with Bandit.
Will she not eat food from the fridge even after it is at room temperature? That's what I do for my civvie. I pull it out a couple of hours before I need to give it to her, so that it's room temperature when it's time to feed her. I know someone who microwaves the food to bring it to room temp - not sure if that is okay to do. In any case, I don't want my microwave smelling of cat food.