Hi CatMom,
Response to your queries (no particular order):
OK, easy one first. With the change to an all-wet diet, Ruby's fluid intake will have increased significantly. Most dry foods only contain 5-10% moisture, whereas wet food moisture content is typically 70%+. Many who make the switch stop visiting the water bowl. To increase fluid consumption, members often add a couple of teaspoonfuls of water to each feed and mix it through.
Next to litter box matters. If a cat starts doing litter box lurks it's typically a sign that something is up.
I agree with Sasha's recommendation to check that Ruby's peeing OK because if she's not able to then that is 100% an emergency situation and you need to get her to the vet to check for any urethral blockage.
Litter box positions:
1. When wishing to urinate:
2. When wishing to defaecate:
If Ruby starts straining in the litter box then the position she adopts should help you to identify whether she's having a problem with peeing or pooping. Another thing to watch out for is whether she starts worrying at her nether regions as that can also be a sign of discomfort relating to waste elimination (though not as inidicative as the littler box positions).
By way of general information, unregulated diabetics can experience problems with the nervous system. It's most obvious in cats who develop difficulties with their limbs (plantigrade stance, problems walking and/or jumping) but it can sometimes affect the digestive tract, resulting in food moving more slowly along its length. That, in turn, may give rise to constipation. However, this is just one potential cause of such a problem.
If you suspect constipation then the first step is to ask the vet to give Ruby a check-up to assess whether she is 'backed up' and also to make sure that there is no obstruction in the gut. (This is vital for safety before looking at any preventative treatments.) Once the latter has been ruled out, if consitpation is the problem then the vet will be able to give appropriate initial treatment. A few days' treatment with metoclopramide (Reglan) can help 'get things moving' a bit better.
For more information on feline constipation and preventative treatments, this site is incredibly helpful:
felineconstipation.org
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