Oh my goodness, you guys are so smart! Yes! I am stupidly aiming for that larger vein, the marginal vein. I am an idiot!!!
I watched the videos, looked at a pic that showed the sweet spot and never guessed I was supposed to be going for the very, very,
very, edge of the ear. I was afraid of "tearing" it if that makes since? And I think I'm aiming too low down the side. Maybe I should be higher/closer to the tip of ear?
Dear lord, I just looked at the pics I linked and your pic Ale. I am no where
near the very outside edge. Ironically I hit that yesterday and Emma didn't flinch. I got a nice tiny drop of blood but thought I had done it wrong. I am so sorry. Thank you everyone for hanging in there and straightening me out on this. And a HUGE thank you for not making me feel bad or judging me. I'm truly doing the best I can.
Also, thanks for the great tip about putting the blood on my finger nail. Yes. That will absolutely help. And I like the thought of the cosmetic pads. That's a good idea right there. The cotton ball kinda slides around but that pad would give me a nice grip. --- I think I'm going to need a better type of magnifier that I can wear to see her ear. See, in the AM I have my glasses on and can whip them off to see really close up, but after that I have to wear my contacts with 1 adjusted for computer distance and 1 for long distances. I am very blind that way unfortunately. So I struggle after the AM reading.
Thanks so much everyone! I'm kinda excited about trying the new spot on her ear now.

Sue