Megan Rose
Member Since 2020
Hi there,
Firstly I'm really glad this forum exists! I've been scrolling through it for a while now and decided to seek help on my specific situation because you all seem so kind + helpful
My cat Onyx was recently diagnosed with diabetes. He's a rescue, so I'm not sure exactly how old he is, but I would estimate somewhere around 13. He's my little man and I absolutely adore him, but unfortunately he has a complex set of health problems, on top of our challenging family situation which makes it difficult for us to treat him. He's completely changed recently - hiding constantly, weeing all over the house, not sleeping where he used to, not interacting with his brother (they used to play and sleep together), etc. As I'm sure you understand, it's really upsetting to see him this way
Onyx has a cancerous growth in his jaw which sadly has resisted treatment. I know this isn't a community of vets, so of course I can't expect anyone to know how that will interact with diabetes, but there is an issue around eating. He has lost a lot of weight, which suggests that he isn't able to eat as well as he might want to. I'm concerned that this would affect him badly in trying to treat diabetes, because he needs to eat properly in order for the insulin to be safe. The tumour is likely to limit his life expectancy as well as quality of life, so I'm having an extremely hard time determining whether it is kind to put him through treatment for diabetes when he may not be long of this world anyway. As I say, I know this is a question for vets, as well as my own soul-searching, but I would be really grateful for any advice. Is it distressing for cats to start insulin treatment? Our vet hasn't mentioned anything about home testing, and he does not like travelling to the vets, but she has suggested we go for fortnightly blood tests. Does this upset cats?
In terms of our ability to provide care, I'm quite concerned. Onyx lives with my mum (and our other cat, his brother) and she lives alone with them, so there is only one human in the house to treat him. The rest of the family lives on the other side of England (about 6 hours and £100 of train fares away!), so we are sadly unable to help. My mum is also a nurse, which means that - especially at the moment - her job is time-consuming and can be odd hours. While it is horrible to say, I think her job has to take priority, and it is incredibly demanding at the moment. I'm just not confident that she can care for Onyx to the extent that will be needed, as she cannot guarantee that she will be able to commit to regular injections. On top of this, with his other health problem (the tumour), he may struggle with adjusting to insulin. He is very reluctant to take pills, and while he is generally more amenable to injections, I am very worried that my mum would struggle to cope with him alone. Is it difficult to administer treatment on your own? Any advice for handling it?
Another problem is travel. Like I say, my brother and I live across the country, as do many of my mum's friends. How do people with diabetic cats manage to leave the cat? Can you get cat sitters who will do injections? As she lives alone, I feel it would be unfair to ask that she never come to visit us, or other loved ones, in order to look after Onyx.
So! A very difficult situation. Thanks a million to anyone who has read this far. I guess to summarise, the main options for us are starting insulin treatment to see how he fares, but perhaps be unable to administer proper care because of my mum's job, or (and I'm welling up as I type this) let him go. I'm sure many of you will press for the first option, and if so, any advice would be gratefully received. Thank you so much x
Firstly I'm really glad this forum exists! I've been scrolling through it for a while now and decided to seek help on my specific situation because you all seem so kind + helpful
My cat Onyx was recently diagnosed with diabetes. He's a rescue, so I'm not sure exactly how old he is, but I would estimate somewhere around 13. He's my little man and I absolutely adore him, but unfortunately he has a complex set of health problems, on top of our challenging family situation which makes it difficult for us to treat him. He's completely changed recently - hiding constantly, weeing all over the house, not sleeping where he used to, not interacting with his brother (they used to play and sleep together), etc. As I'm sure you understand, it's really upsetting to see him this way
Onyx has a cancerous growth in his jaw which sadly has resisted treatment. I know this isn't a community of vets, so of course I can't expect anyone to know how that will interact with diabetes, but there is an issue around eating. He has lost a lot of weight, which suggests that he isn't able to eat as well as he might want to. I'm concerned that this would affect him badly in trying to treat diabetes, because he needs to eat properly in order for the insulin to be safe. The tumour is likely to limit his life expectancy as well as quality of life, so I'm having an extremely hard time determining whether it is kind to put him through treatment for diabetes when he may not be long of this world anyway. As I say, I know this is a question for vets, as well as my own soul-searching, but I would be really grateful for any advice. Is it distressing for cats to start insulin treatment? Our vet hasn't mentioned anything about home testing, and he does not like travelling to the vets, but she has suggested we go for fortnightly blood tests. Does this upset cats?
In terms of our ability to provide care, I'm quite concerned. Onyx lives with my mum (and our other cat, his brother) and she lives alone with them, so there is only one human in the house to treat him. The rest of the family lives on the other side of England (about 6 hours and £100 of train fares away!), so we are sadly unable to help. My mum is also a nurse, which means that - especially at the moment - her job is time-consuming and can be odd hours. While it is horrible to say, I think her job has to take priority, and it is incredibly demanding at the moment. I'm just not confident that she can care for Onyx to the extent that will be needed, as she cannot guarantee that she will be able to commit to regular injections. On top of this, with his other health problem (the tumour), he may struggle with adjusting to insulin. He is very reluctant to take pills, and while he is generally more amenable to injections, I am very worried that my mum would struggle to cope with him alone. Is it difficult to administer treatment on your own? Any advice for handling it?
Another problem is travel. Like I say, my brother and I live across the country, as do many of my mum's friends. How do people with diabetic cats manage to leave the cat? Can you get cat sitters who will do injections? As she lives alone, I feel it would be unfair to ask that she never come to visit us, or other loved ones, in order to look after Onyx.
So! A very difficult situation. Thanks a million to anyone who has read this far. I guess to summarise, the main options for us are starting insulin treatment to see how he fares, but perhaps be unable to administer proper care because of my mum's job, or (and I'm welling up as I type this) let him go. I'm sure many of you will press for the first option, and if so, any advice would be gratefully received. Thank you so much x
