Hi
@SallyT , I'm also in the UK. (Waving from Surrey!

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I've been dealing with feline diabetes for 13 years now. My first diabetic, Bertie, was diagnosed in Jan 2007 at age 8. Finding this forum was an absolute lifesaver. I learned how to manage my kitty's diabetes, while keeping him safe from hypo. And my boy lived a long and happy life with diabetes, eventually going into remission. He died last year aged 20.
I adopted my second diabetic, Bonbon, about a year ago. When I adopted her she was on a dry 'prescription' diet recommended by the rescue's vet, and 4 units of Caninsulin. She's now on a low carb wet diet and has been in remission for a few months.
Long story short, I strongly recommend the advice from the lovely people on this forum!
I do understand that it can be a bit of a challenge at first to get comfortable with testing blood glucose at home (for human and for kitty!). But it can almost always be done with a bit of persistence and sometimes a bit of 'thinking outside the box'. Every cat is an individual, and it is so often a matter of finding a method of testing that works for that particular cat.
When I first heard of 'hometesting' here I thought it would be completely impossible with my boy. He was 6 kilos of 'attitude' at that time. And if he didn't want to do something then it just wasn't going to happen! But people did persuade me that hometesting was important (and quite rightly!). So, I knew that if I was going to do this I'd need to 'sell the idea' to Bertie in a way that he would be OK with. Then, when Bonbon came here a year ago she brought her own new challenges, and I needed to approach testing her in a slightly different way.
With both cats I spent quite some time just getting them used to having their ears touched, and to the sights and sounds of the test kit. I found this to be SO valuable and
really worth spending time and effort on.
I'd go to wherever they were in the house, stroke them, then hold or massage one of their ears,
just for second or two, then give a couple of treats, and just walk away leaving them to enjoy their reward. Similarly, I'd rattle the test strip vial, or click the lancing device near them (using it rather like a training clicker), then give the kitty a treat or two, and walk away...
I did these kinds of things probably 6 or 7 times a day intially for at least a couple of weeks. It only takes a few seconds each time. But it gets the kitty to associate these new sensations and sounds with positive yummy things.
My diabetic boy, Bertie, was strongly food motivated. So I found I could pop him up on the table (our testing spot), crumble a few treats for him, and then test his blood glucose while he was hoovering up the crumbs. It wasn't necessary to hold or restrain him in any way (he'd never have tolerated that!). It only required that he kept sufficiently still so that I could quickly prick his ear and do the test. After a while he would come running whenever he heard me rattle the test strip vial!
My adopted girl, Bonbon, was not particularly food motivated. And she presented the additional challenge of absolutely hating having her ears touched. Even so, by getting her to associate testing with positive things we did manage to establish a routine that worked for us both. I realised that she loved to be brushed. And so in her case I found I could quickly sneak the test into a cuddle and grooming session, and she barely notices the test. She gets a food reward afterwards too. Now, when she hears me get the test kit ready she goes to her favourite armchair (her testing spot) and 'waits' for me to come and test her.
I feel sure that, with just a little practice, you
will be able to find a way of testing that is acceptable (or even pleasurable!) for your cat. You already know 'how' to test. So it's just a matter of managing to do that on a routine basis. It is so important to test before each insulin shot. We never know when our kitty is going to surprise us with a lower than expected number....
Eliz