Diana&Tom
Member Since 2009
Would really appreciate any thoughts on the following, please...
My beautiful nine-year-old civie, Sapphire, has never needed any vet treatment but at her annual check-up last week the vet said she needed two teeth out. Sigh... I know dental disease is common in cats but this came as quite a shock as last year her teeth were ok.
The vet assured me that bloods and xrays would be done beforehand, and that she had done many dentals before. If it was someone else's cat I would no doubt do my best to reassure them that dentals were common, routine and necessary. I know these things. My problem is that my previous kitty, Sophie (sister of Tom, my avatar) tragically passed on the operating table some years ago - not due to a vet error, I think it was more that she was 17 and her heart couldn't take it. I was beyond devastated at the time and since adopting Sapphire soon after (and going to a different vet practice because that was where the rescue I got her from had registered her) we've been lucky to have avoided vet treatment.
I know the dental has to be done, no two ways about it. But my dilemma is this - do I go ahead and take Saff to the current vet, where the facilities and standard of care seem to be ok and may well be perfectly fine, it's just that I have no real experience of them? Or do I take her to the local "gold standard" hospital (it has an amazing website) where a friend of mine takes all her cats and can't speak highly enough of them? The first vet is friendly enough, and was reasonably sympathetic when I told them about Sophie - she could see my anxiety - whilst also being quite matter-of-fact. Saff and I haven't seen the other potential vet yet - I just made a phone enquiry today and have to say I was blown away by the friendliness, empathy, and explanation of what would be involved... it was suggested that if I wanted to, I take Saff in for an initial look at her teeth and go from there, no pressure.
I just don't know what to do. The first vet is probably fine and is only a mile / five minutes' drive away. If Saff needed to stay overnight there would be no extra charge (dental alone is £500+). The second vet may or may not be any better, I don't know - it's a bigger "hospital" I think and according to the website has all the latest state-of-the-art equipment etc. A significant downside is that it is more like 30 minutes away, so a more stressful car ride in probably rush-hour traffic.
I've already spoken to several people/friends both on and off the board about the principle of the dental itself, and everyone has been incredibly kind and understanding. Since then though I've spoken to vet number two and feel really torn about how to proceed... I think the word is "procrastination"!
Any thoughts gratefully received
My beautiful nine-year-old civie, Sapphire, has never needed any vet treatment but at her annual check-up last week the vet said she needed two teeth out. Sigh... I know dental disease is common in cats but this came as quite a shock as last year her teeth were ok.
The vet assured me that bloods and xrays would be done beforehand, and that she had done many dentals before. If it was someone else's cat I would no doubt do my best to reassure them that dentals were common, routine and necessary. I know these things. My problem is that my previous kitty, Sophie (sister of Tom, my avatar) tragically passed on the operating table some years ago - not due to a vet error, I think it was more that she was 17 and her heart couldn't take it. I was beyond devastated at the time and since adopting Sapphire soon after (and going to a different vet practice because that was where the rescue I got her from had registered her) we've been lucky to have avoided vet treatment.
I know the dental has to be done, no two ways about it. But my dilemma is this - do I go ahead and take Saff to the current vet, where the facilities and standard of care seem to be ok and may well be perfectly fine, it's just that I have no real experience of them? Or do I take her to the local "gold standard" hospital (it has an amazing website) where a friend of mine takes all her cats and can't speak highly enough of them? The first vet is friendly enough, and was reasonably sympathetic when I told them about Sophie - she could see my anxiety - whilst also being quite matter-of-fact. Saff and I haven't seen the other potential vet yet - I just made a phone enquiry today and have to say I was blown away by the friendliness, empathy, and explanation of what would be involved... it was suggested that if I wanted to, I take Saff in for an initial look at her teeth and go from there, no pressure.
I just don't know what to do. The first vet is probably fine and is only a mile / five minutes' drive away. If Saff needed to stay overnight there would be no extra charge (dental alone is £500+). The second vet may or may not be any better, I don't know - it's a bigger "hospital" I think and according to the website has all the latest state-of-the-art equipment etc. A significant downside is that it is more like 30 minutes away, so a more stressful car ride in probably rush-hour traffic.
I've already spoken to several people/friends both on and off the board about the principle of the dental itself, and everyone has been incredibly kind and understanding. Since then though I've spoken to vet number two and feel really torn about how to proceed... I think the word is "procrastination"!
Any thoughts gratefully received


