@Lesalana Can I make a suggestion? You should start a new thread in Feline Health with a title like "Vets meter advice seems wrong". The problem here is that most members will only read so far down a thread, see that the problem is being looked after and then move on. Your problem bears little resemblance with the threads original title.
You can also copy and paste your original text. You should get many more suggestions, just have patience.
The second problem you'll face is that due to the sheer volume of new posts every hour your thread may very quickly sink to the bottom of the page and out of sight. There is a way around this but it is not to be abused. Every new reply to a thread moves that thread back to the top. If you absolutely have to do this post something like "Still not understanding....." but be sincere in what you write and state your case clearly.
Third problem. I have no way of knowing if this is your first diabetic cat but every single person here has been sent home with a seemingly normal cat and many have received little or no guidance. You're not the first one and sadly won't be the last. As I've said before feline diabetes is just not taught in veterinary colleges. There may be a one day seminar on this "unusual" disease but that's it. All three of our vets at two clinics learned what they know the hard way, spending hours of their free time reading up on this.
The biggest problem of all. There was a time when doctors were Gods and were not to be questioned. If you ever meet a doctor who says "It's doctor actually" run away as fast as you can. They make mistakes just like everyone else but just cannot admit it. This website is the one place where common people have come to learn what is right and what is obscenely wrong. You have every right to ask for a clear explanation in plain English and you are not obligated to any particular vet.
Many of us have been where you are right now, knowing something isn't right. No one here will snicker at you, no question is ever too stupid to ask.
I'm in no position to judge your husband but your cat's world has been turned upside down and this will take time. Is this your cat or part of the family? "Stomping off" won't solve anything and the cat will pick up on this.
Stay with us, stay away from the Facebook diabetic cat site and know that this is a marathon, not a race.
Fill out your profile with as many details as possible. Meter and insulin used, age of cat and pre-existing medical conditions, other animals in the home. Ask how to set up your cats spreadsheet (I never did this, it's a long story). Hope this helps. Where to poke the ear, where to poke the cat and lastly what a happy 23 year old cat looks like. We
are all on your side.
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