He was too young to have that arthritic gait. I just shrugged it off as getting arthritis early and started turmeric thinking that is all he needed.
Yeah, but what’s the alternative? Being a hypochondriac and freaking out over every symptom? My sister is like that, and he pets have been through a lot of unnecessary tests, and causes everyone a lot of stress. She called me hysterical the other day because her cat has been drooling for the last few days. (It went away with antibiotics and nausea medicine.) .... yeah.
Since anxiety runs in my family, and particularly since cats tend to be really anxious in unfamiliar situations, I actually think a “less is more” approach is better than being overly worried and paranoid.
I’ve gotten more laid back over the years. It took me a while to get Frosty’s vomiting addressed, and once we started him on meds for it, he went downhill and died after 5 weeks. Before that he would bounce back within a day or 2 with no intervention. Sometimes I wonder if I should have just let him vomit once every couple of weeks and maybe he would still be here.
My civvie has had a lipoma on her leg for the past year or 2 and its gotten bigger. They did a fine needle aspiration and said yeah it looks like fat cells. But it’s grown and I think I should probably address it soon, but I’ve been putting it off. It doesn’t seem to bother her and I honestly don’t wanna put her through vet visits and surgery right now. It will be super stressful and what if something goes wrong? Idk...
I think you did the best you could in the situation at that time. I bet if you took him to the vet they would have said “yep, arthritis” and tried to treat conservatively in the beginning too. No one wants to do an invasive and expensive test every time. At first you treat conservatively with some pain meds or whatever , and then if it worsens or doesn’t go away you start the million dollar workup.
Anyway, that’s how I look at it. I think you did everything right.