If my Fena is in a mood, Mao (her brother) CANNOT be around - so I actually lure her into my bathroom, or my upstairs bedroom! You baby sounds like Fena these days, they want you close but not "right on top of them" -within about 2-3 feet, as they decide if they wanna eat, then eat.
TIPS -
Chicken breast, drumstick, wings - all good, if you cut/shred them, and drop a little juice/fat over them. Same with turkey!!
Tuna - if doing a tuna steak, BEWARE - the outsides will cook, the insides will be a bit medium rare.. some cats don't like that, or they don't like the 'cooked' outside. Start slow, and small. Save the drippings, though tuna is lean there WILL be some.
Salmon - watch the bones!! Pin bones are a pain, literally - if you get fresh from the deli or seafood counter, tell them to take the pin bones OUT. Then when home, press/feel the filet for yourself to double check. My Lucky got stuck with a pink bone once and I freaked out, he felt bad for about 3 days - NOT worth it. Again, there WILL be juice, collect it.
Crab/lobster - NOT THE LIVE SPECIMENS. I get it from the seafood counter, and make them rinse it before they package it up for me. Shelled clams, mussels, etc. too. RINSE. Once home, shred them up with a good fork - don't cut, "shred". Save the juices.
Shred, shred, shred - think of trying to make "mince meat" baby food. Add the/some juice, and microwave for 15 seconds at a time - You want it warm, but not "cooked". Or, you can use 1tablespoon juice and 1-2 tablespoons hot water.
Best combos I've found:
chicken & tuna
chicken & turkey
turkey & mussels
turkey & tuna
chicken & clams
shrimp & lobster
Just remember to start SMALL, slow and steady wins this race. Separate him from the others - keep close to him, within 2 feet but not TOO close. Keep a napkin/paper towel or spoon with you to help shovel down the food from the sides of the bowl to the middle, to help them eat. Talk to them, A LOT but soft voiced - low volume.
Another tip - if you cook his chicken for him, once you shred it up, add in 1-2 teaspoons of baby food meat - turkey, ham, etc. Just remember the label should be meat only and that meat's broth, nothing else. For Fena sometimes I have to do this, not often but sometimes.
WAIT, too - if you put the dish down and they don't automatically dig in, WAIT - be still. Bend down, hands on your knees, forearms on your knees - stay still, or stay still standing... wait. They WILL dip down and start eating. Be patient, breathe.. you've got this.
