Amanda & Shmee
Member Since 2018
Hugs to you too Sarah, thank you so much. It means a lot and I do feel a little better. I didn't know the catheter wasn't as big of a deal. I feel like I should have asked for a procedure breakdown from the very beginning... How could I just be finding this out? But I guess it is a minimal part of the procedure as a whole... so there was no need to mention it before. I'm not going to want to leave him there... I know a few of you have already felt this feeling. I am going to be such a mess. I am kind of regretting getting the cheaper airbnb now because I do not really have privacy. I have my own room but its a loft with no door, and there are two other rooms available that people will be staying in. He did say there is a roof with a view of Manhattan, so I am hoping I can be alone up there sometimes if there are people in the house. I will be facetiming DH regularly. I wish he could have came, but it was a lot of time off from work.
@JeffJ thank you for making me laugh!!
@JeffJ thank you for making me laugh!!
They can read our emotions so well. If you are nervous and fearful at the hospital, he may pick up on it. Try to think of the end goal and how much you love Shmee and how much better he will be afterwards. Trust the vets and their staff, they will surely be very companionate and knowledgeable people. When I had to leave Neko in critical care for a couple nights, I tried to tamp down my emotions, except for the love. I fell apart in the car later.

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Fur grows back.