11/8 Mark AMPS 113 - getting aggressive before food

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Jess and Marky Mark

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Mark has been getting very agressive and attacking Sylvia almost every morning before being fed.

Last night, he attacked right after we went to bed. He ate his evening meal fine and didn't seem to be unusually hungry so he didn't get a late night snack before bed. When I tested him at +4 at bedtime, his bg was 88. About half hour later, he agressively attcked Sylvia. I flipped on the light and she ran off. As soon as the light was off, he attacked her again. I got up to stop him and she bolted downstairs. I thought maybe it was over and went back to bed. A few minutes later, he attacked her downstairs. Her growling went on much longer so I assume he was on top of her. By the time we got downstairs, they were separated. I tried checking her for injuries and she repeatedly growled at me, which she never, ever does.

I don't think he's trying to be alpha because he already has that spot. Sylvie has never been the alpha. This agreession started (infrequently) after our Emmy cat suddenly passed (a week after Mark's diagnosis). He and Emmy used to get into it at least once a day but she was the attacker most of the time.

Sylvia has IBD but is in otherwise excellent health. She was diagnosed almost three years ago so it isn't a new condition in our house. He only attacks her when he's hungry. Last night, after the third attack, we fed both kitties and everyone settled down (about +5). There was no attack this morning before breakfast.

It makes me so mad when he attacks Sylvie. She is the sweetest, quietest little old lady. She just wants to eat and snuggle in a warm blankie. She is still very active and will play when I bring out toys so she isn't infirm. She's the last pet we got before having our son, when we thought we'd never be able to have kids. I have a special attachment to her and don't like the big brute attacking the little princess.

Other than these attacks, Mark is the snuggliest cat I've ever seen. This is way outside his normal character.
 
Oh boy, that sounds really tough. I hope someone more experienced can help you out here with these behavioural issues. I know nothing about aggression in cats. I assume your cats are neutered/spayed?

I hope it gets sorted soon. Poor Sylvie. And poor Mark - it can't feel good to be that cranky.
 
Aawww. Poor Sylvia. Do you feed them in separate areas? Maybe a vet visit just to make sure nothing else is going on with Marky? I hope you can figure out what is going on.
 
Aawww. Poor Sylvia. Do you feed them in separate areas? Maybe a vet visit just to make sure nothing else is going on with Marky? I hope you can figure out what is going on.
Good point: if the trigger seems to be feeding time, perhaps you could try feeding them in separate rooms and then remove the food bowls when they're done and see if that makes a difference. But if he's attacking in the AM before being fed... would it be worth putting them in separate rooms at night for a little while, I wonder?
 
That's upsetting. Cats do tend to pick on the sweet/more docile ones because they can get away with it. :facepalm: Mark sounds hangry, but if it is out of character for him, it would be a good idea to rule out anything else medical as behavior changes are a result of something going on, not always medical, but could be. Have you noticed anything else? Does Sylvia try to eat his food (food aggression)? Does she get a different kind of food that Mark wants to eat but can't? Hope you figure it out. Poor Sylvia. I second keeping them separated at night if that's a possibility, at least until you figure out why this is happening. :bighug:
 
Hmm. This is disturbing for me too as it brings back memories of my cats fighting sometimes in the night. I would find it so stressful to be woken up by the sounds of screaming and yowling and then see tufts of fur everywhere and growling cats. We separate them now overnight and whenever we go out. They were mostly good before and are always good now since getting that time apart. They seem to enjoy each other more in fact and there is more grooming and playing.

Anyway...so Mark does it when hungry. I assume Mark is diabetic? Maybe when he's hungry he feels weird. My Dweezil can get completely fixated on my hair when he's hungry and literally stalk me and bite and claw at my hair relentlessly so I'm forced to keep moving positions so he can't reach my head. Once he's eaten, he's fine.

Maybe when Mark is hungry he feels possessive over food or anything else and feels aggressive towards poor Sylvia.

Maybe he is transferring any aggressive interactions from your previous furbaby to Sylvia for some reason.

I REALLY wish cats could speak English!
 
Thank you all for your thoughts.

Both kitties are almost due for their annual checkups. We'll be doing 'old kitty' blood work for Mark.

Mark is diabetic but we are just about to take him off insulin as he appears to be nearing remission.

They are fed in the same room but separated (Mark on the floor, Sylvie on a table). They usually eat the same food but sometimes we give her something higher carb because she's a skinny thing and needs to bulk up a bit. At night, they both sleep in our room. She's has a spot up high he can't get to it that's been hers since before we got Mark and he sleeps in bed with me and hubby. He was born and lived his entire life in a shelter until we adopted him 5 years ago (age 7). Except for this increasing trend of attacking when hungry, they do well with each other, sleeping side-by-side and sometimes playing together when I bring out a fishing pole toy.
 
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