HA! That is Khach completely!! He is my little sweet guy one minute and then decides that enough and now I will be little hurricane. I am hoping he will adjust quickly, so we can get him better soon. Thanks for your reply. It really helps to hear the positive stories.
When I first joined here a few weeks ago now, I was totally terrified as I also have a kitty who can turn from Jekyl to Hyde in 5 seconds and I can lose a finger or require stitches.
I didn't know how I was going to do this. And, to boot, I was totally overwhelmed, trying to learn so much information all at the same time. I have been a total basket case over it and am still learning as I go along.
Through the good and generous and helpful people here, I have felt supported, helped and cared about. Their help has been invaluable and while I am no veteran to this, I am getting better at it. Most of all, I am re-learning how to simply breathe again.
You're in excellent hands here and there are a lot of very loving and kind people to guide you though this with us all who are still learning as we go along.
In my case (to answer your question), I have learned that "treats" go a long way...as does some help *if* you can get it. Hubby and I both have to work together to get the job done...especially testing but, the shots are nearly hands-off at times now. She's getting used to the "routine" better...still not perfect yet and depends on her mood but, she's doing better with it all. In other words...there is hope.
As already mentioned, the shots don't really hurt. Seriously. They don't. I know because I stuck myself several times (NOT injecting anything) to feel what Morrigan might be feeling. Even KNOWING I was doing it to myself, I barely felt it. Add a bit of a distraction (like food/a treat/head rub) and you've got virtually NO feeling to it for them. Really.
I'd suggest putting kitty on top of a table or higher surface where you can work more easily and see better versus working with kitty while hunched over on the ground. That's rough to do when you've got a rambunctious kitty to begin with.
I just read someone else say that they wrap kitty in a blanket, put them into a box on their laps. That may work as well. For me, it's putting a blanket on the table where there's good light and control (I stand behind her). I put a few treats down (preparing everything first so that it's quickly done) and while she's chowing down on something, I shoot. I think most of us have a plan like that. It works. Even catnip if that's your cat's favourite thing works...just get the shot done before kitty becomes nutty!
You'll get used it and so will kitty. Like I was so graciously told when I came in, totally panic stricken (still am a nutcase to some extent

)...just BREATHE! Practise makes perfect and you'll find a way.
Keep reading, asking questions, talking and you're going to find friends here who care.