Always great to find a vet that ticks all the boxes. I'm not trying to ruin someone's day
but one thing we cannot foresee is the front end staff, worst case being "Nurse Ratched". I have managed my way through this minefield with cookies (not a euphemism). If it's a big practice then you are just one of many and they do not know if you have developed a rapport with the doctor. You'll figure that one out yourself.
Does the doctor keep up with an ever changing knowledge base?
This can be a very sensitive topic. Your family doctor knows a bit about everything and when they don't they refer you to a specialist. Some veterinarians do cats only or split cats and dogs between partners if it works for them. Our vet had an associate (she had no interest in becoming a partner) and together they did the cat/dog thing. Now she is working alone and is also called upon to examine iguanas, hamsters etc. Our vet's Dad was a veterinarian as well so she has seen and done it all. She has also spent years as a poor student and, perhaps rightfully so, may resent you telling her "what's new". Fortunately for me both my family doctor and my vet appreciate the patient that does a little homework on their own.
If the vet sometimes appears inflexible this might work;
veterinary partner.com
http://www.veterinarypartner.com/ is a no nonsense sight that does not deal in magic beans and is not sponsored by MagicBeans Inc. I can only guess what may work but I would try this. Print the page you think is relevant, highlight the section you have questions about followed by a question mark. Sounds silly? It's all about perception. Hopefully the doctor will see you have chosen a universally respected web-sight and the question marks will signal "I respect your knowledge, what do you think of this?" There may be eye-rolling or raised eyebrows, just go with the flow.
Everything I've just written is the definition of understatement and vague. Everyone has bad days. We all know how to keep friends and show respect.
Good luck Susan and I wish continuing good luck to Caitlin and Pita.
How lucky are we? We may have to make a sudden 8 hour journey involving a connecting flight and a ferry ride (family health) and our vet has volunteered to board Noah, something they do not advertise. Noah is NOT a candidate for home visits as he is terrified of even looking out the window. After 14 cats and a dog our vet understands what we expect and that we do not expect miracles.
http://www.veterinarypartner.com/