Updates and both TK and myself

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Debra & CB (GA) & Gang

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Hi everyone!

I know I haven't updated you for a while on how things are going here, but there's just been so much, it's kinda hard for me to keep track. After my hubby passed I felt so sick.......sick beyond the "normal" grief. I had an appointment with a new neurologist anyhow, so when I went to this new doctor, he ordered a bunch of bloodwork and an emg on my left leg. It would take several weeks to get all the results, so I waited. Eventually it got so bad I went to a general doctor, who gave me scripts for xanax and lexapro. But I continued to feel worse and worse, to the point where I really wasn't able to do anything but what was absolutely necessary! I just went back to the neurologist last week and got all the test results. The emg showed that I have chronic nerve damage at my L4 vertebra. The doctor isn't sure yet if he'll want an mri done...we'll see. The bloodwork showed that I don't have gout, my magnesium level is ok, my vitamin d level is a tiny bit low, I do have an inflammatory process going on, and.......I tested positive for dormant mono! According to this doctor, I may have had this for years......instead of getting mono and getting sick like normal, the mono virus went into my mucsles and has hidden there, causing subtle symptoms but not making me "sick". The doctor immediately started me on olive leaf extract to boost my immune system, and gave me an anti-inflammatory/muscle relaxant to soothe my muscles, and next week I'll start taking an anti-viral medicine to kick this mono's butt! But, I'm feeling soooo much better now......I can't really believe just how badly I felt and how much better I feel already!

On the other hand, TK isn't doing well. And, sadly, I'm asking for your prayers for a safe passage for him. Since I had his foot treated for that abcess shortly after hubby passed, he really hasn't been totally himself. He eats, drinks, and sleeps. He doesn't play, his third eyelids are up a bit, and I can see by the look in his eyes that he's not well. And, his foot is abcessing yet again....he started limping on it 2 days ago, then he'd walk ok, then he'd limp again. This morning he was hopping, not even using his foot, and I can feel a hard knot coming up in his foot, just like last time. I know it's just a matter of days before he'll become very sick. So, instead of waiting for him to get very sick from this, I've already called my vet and I'll be taking him in this afternoon at 2:30 to be put to rest. As much as I hate doing this, because of the steroids and anti-yeast meds that he'll need the rest of his life, his body simply can't fight off this infection, and I don't want him to suffer any more than he already has. I know I could have the vet treat his foot........but it will eventually happen again, and again.....and I can't be selfish about his welfare. At least he'll be going to his brother Radar, and my hubby will surely be there to help him be happy again.

I editted this to add that I'll have TK individually cremated, and will add his ashes into the urn that his brother Radar is in. I'll just have to work it out with the vet to set up a payment plan.

So, if you could spare a moment and think loving thoughts for TK, I'm sure he'll appreciate it, and I know I will too. Thanks!
((((((((((Hugs))))))))))

Debra
 
For you {{{{{Debra}}}}}

You gave TK a wonderful life. No regrets. Hold those memories close to your heart. We'll be thinking of you at 2:30.
 
Fly free sweet TK - you're SO loved.

Debra - glad they found the mono, I didn't know it could do that. Hope you continue to feel better and better. Prayers for healing calm for you as you go thru this again. BIG HUGE LOOOOOOOOONG HUG,
 
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
what a good momma to radar and TH you have been especially with everything else going on in your life.
hugs to you and fly free sweet TK. you have some great ones to be there for you.
take care of yourself debra
 
Sending lots of hugs and prayers.

Radar will be there at the Bridge for TK and is already waiting because they probably knew before you did.

There he will be whole and healthy, pouncing and purring always, both looking at you and ever so grateful YOU were their bean. :YMHUG: o:-)
 
Ah, Debra, my heart is breaking for you and TK. No recent updates or emails so I thought TK was better. You have tried so hard with Radar(GA) and TK and because of you they had a home and were so dearly loved. Okay, trying to type through tears is hard. Was so praying TK would heal. May he have a peaceful passing in the arms of love. You have been through so much and I am so glad you did go the doctors and hopefully things will turn around and you will start to feel better, physically at least.....emotionally will take much longer. I am so, so sorry you are going to lose TK. God bless his little heart wings_cat
 
(((((Debra))))) my sympathies on having to let TK rest. Fly free, baby, and love on your brother and Dad! wings_cat
 
I am very sorry. Fly free sweet TK. May you soar high and wide and land softly. You will no longer hurt and have lots of loved ones just waiting for you.
 
((((((Debra)))))) Know that TK is with his brother and your husband now and I am sure it was a happy reunion :)

Fly Free TK, and run in the meadows happy and healthy.

I will light a candle tonight for your boy.
 
ok now I'm really bawling..I saw this after I posted on your GA post...

Debra I'm joyful that you are feeling better. Sending many positives and prayers the healing continues. Mono can be a wicked condition.

Keeping you fast in my prayers,
jeanne
 
((Debra)) I posted a long reply on here but came back tonight to re-read the posts and don't see my post.
So I'm sorry I wasn't on here earlier - I know I wrote a reply to you.

My heart goes out to you - but I agree that you have been the best mom to TK and have had so much sorrow and loss. I am so sorry that now TK had to leave also - but you gave him the wonderful freedom from the body that was failing him. He now is with Radar and your beloved hubby - all together again - and looking down on you with love.

I'm sending so many hugs and comforting thoughts your way - again, sorry it wasn't posted earlier - wish I knew what happens to these posts sometimes. :)

Hang in there and please take good care of yourself.

Emmy & Dude (GA) & Mittsi too
 
So many hugs!

And wow I didn't realize mono could do that. Healing wishes for you to feel better and heal. I'm glad your doctor found it.
 
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