AmyB
Active Member
Hi everyone,
I haven't been on here in years because my older cat has been doing so well but I know this community is supportive and I just needed some advice or words of comfort.
I took my younger cat (5 years old) to the emergency vet last night due to him hiding and having some diarrhea. I knew something was kind of off already because he has been a lot more lethargic and not eating as much as normal but I was going to take him to his regular vet next week. Well the vet went ahead and ran some x-rays and found a large mass near his intestines. I took him to his regular vet this morning and he confirmed he has some kind of large intestinal tumor and his lymph nodes close by are swollen.
So I made the decision based on the vet's advice to go ahead and send samples out to get them tested just to confirm if the tumor is malignant and has spread. I have him home with me now and I've been giving him medicine and just trying to let him relax some. I know I'm going to have to make a decision next week and I'm trying to prepare myself for it I was just so blindsided by this and he's such a young cat. I don't want him to be in any pain but also I feel like I need to at least know for sure that it's malignant and nothing can be done.
Does anyone have any advice for making that decision? I know there's never a right answer but it just kills me to have to make it now when I thought I would get another 10 years with him. I also just don't know how to tell if it gets bad enough before I get the results back. I got him to eat some earlier and he's been drinking water but I worry about him using the litter box since the tumor is pressing on his intestines. Truly just anything is helpful this is my first cat I've had to make this decision about and I always thought I'd have more time.
I haven't been on here in years because my older cat has been doing so well but I know this community is supportive and I just needed some advice or words of comfort.
I took my younger cat (5 years old) to the emergency vet last night due to him hiding and having some diarrhea. I knew something was kind of off already because he has been a lot more lethargic and not eating as much as normal but I was going to take him to his regular vet next week. Well the vet went ahead and ran some x-rays and found a large mass near his intestines. I took him to his regular vet this morning and he confirmed he has some kind of large intestinal tumor and his lymph nodes close by are swollen.
So I made the decision based on the vet's advice to go ahead and send samples out to get them tested just to confirm if the tumor is malignant and has spread. I have him home with me now and I've been giving him medicine and just trying to let him relax some. I know I'm going to have to make a decision next week and I'm trying to prepare myself for it I was just so blindsided by this and he's such a young cat. I don't want him to be in any pain but also I feel like I need to at least know for sure that it's malignant and nothing can be done.
Does anyone have any advice for making that decision? I know there's never a right answer but it just kills me to have to make it now when I thought I would get another 10 years with him. I also just don't know how to tell if it gets bad enough before I get the results back. I got him to eat some earlier and he's been drinking water but I worry about him using the litter box since the tumor is pressing on his intestines. Truly just anything is helpful this is my first cat I've had to make this decision about and I always thought I'd have more time.