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Sammysmom

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Hello friends,

It has been a little while since I have posted as Sammy's brother Leo (non-diabetic) seems to have taken a turn for the worst. What we thought was perhaps fatty liver, has revealed itself as an a malignant tumor. It has attached itself at the exact location where his small and large intestines join together. After an ultrasound and aspirate of both the mass and swollen lymph nodes nearby, it appears to be cancerous, however the cytology report was inconclusive. Leo and Sammy are both 8 years old which has made decisions about next steps very difficult. The vet explained that a specialist could attempt to surgically remove the tumor. But, given the location, the surgery would be risky and there is no sure way to prevent (or know) if it has spread to other areas. She also expressed that based on the research available for this type of surgery, life expectancy ( in a best case scenario) is about one more year. My fiancé and I have been painfully grappling with this over the last two days and have one of two options 1) attempt the surgery 2) essentially provide hospice care by giving steroids (which could buy us a few weeks to a few months according to the vet). More than anything we want to make sure we are making th best choice for him and not one that soothes our own pain and sadness. The other issues at hand are also a suudeen arythmia, a weak liver, and a mild case of asthma; all with a suddenish onset with this most current problem. My gut tells me to give him the steroids which will make him comfortable and perhaps have a few weeks to a few months of stress and pain free life versus putting him through surgery with even the best outcome being about a year with no guarantee that this cancer hasn't spread to other places and pop up soon after. I love Sammy and Leo more than anything and wanted to consult the experts! If anyone has experience with this, can offer guidance, or prayers, I would be so appreciative. I'm so devastated as Leo has been so healthy up until the beginning of July. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of this community and for the thoughts, advice, prayers, and support. I don't know what I would have done without it.
 
I am so sorry that you are faced with this. I know how painful it can be.
I'm sending purr's and prayers your way. :YMHUG:
 
Oh!! :cry: Sooo sorry to hear this.

I have faced a couple of situations like yours, one where my kitty had CRF. I did everything I could for her...but in the end, just like the vet told me, it only gave her a few more weeks.

She was comfortable the majority of the time, but I knew when the comfort was not working anymore.

It sounds like the prognosis is not good, and for me, I'd hesitate seriously putting kitty through the surgery and the recovery from the surgery.

This is such a heart wrenching decision, and sometimes the right decision is the best one, especially since you have said that you really want Leo to just be comfortable.

Sending you prayers and purrs for peace as you weigh your options. :YMHUG:
 
I would go with your gut - you know your cat best - but continue to monitor quality of life and make the next few months the best ones. He may live longer than you expect.. as with humans, growth of tumours does vary.

maybe ask about painkillers too?

Wendy
 
I've been in this difficult situation a couple of times in the last year. Aggressive treatment or palliative care for a very ill cat with a limited prognosis for their continued lifespan is a heart wrenching decision.

Some of the questions I asked myself were:

What would be the outcome if you did the aggressive care?
What would be the outcome if you did the palliative care?
What quality of life signs are acceptable to you?
When do you say, "Enough is enough" and it's time to make that hardest decision of all. To help end your cat's suffering and help her to the next stage, the Rainbow Bridge or whatever your beliefs are.
What are the risks of the aggressive treatment expected?

Tanya's CRF site has a saying goodbye section you may find useful in making the decision to treat or not and to prepare yourself for the inevitable need to say farewell to Leo.

quality of life issues

You may want to check other internet resources for quality of life issues to help you make your decision.

Whatever your decision for civie Leo, be assured we will support you 100%. We are here for you not only for suggestions with your diabetic cat, but other cat care also. We have a wide range of experience on other matters besides diabetes.

Sending a ton of healing vines and feel better vines to Leo. And {{{{{hugs}}}}}to you.
 
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