Julia & Bandit (GA)
Member Since 2009
A little over a year ago, we adopted Orpheus from the SPCA, and he's always been a sweet cat without an aggressive bone in his body. However, over the weekend something happened with the cats and now they are not getting along with each other. They were cuddling together in one of their cat beds under the table when we went to bed Friday, and we were woke up to the sound of an awful cat fight about an hour before their breakfast. We ran downstairs to find tufts of Orpheus's fur all over the kitchen, and the two of them were going at it and Bandit had peed all over the kitchen floor.
Ever since then, things have been very tense between the cats. We had to separate them for long stretches over the weekend. They take their meals together just fine, no hissing or posturing or bad body language, but outside of meals or treats Bandit hisses at Orpheus if he comes near him most (but not all) the time. Sometimes Orpheus responds to Bandit's hissing as he always has, by ignoring it and being his normal sweet self, but he's also at times starting growling an yowling at Bandit and escalating the aggression (and he's never behaved this way before). Last night, they curled up and slept together again like nothing was wrong. Today, Bandit's hissing at Orpheus again. I'm very confused at this turn of events and I have no idea what caused it. I also don't know what caused Orpheus to randomly act so aggressive towards Bandit, when he's not been the least bit aggressive
the entire time he's been with us. I've been freaking out every time I see Orpheus approach Bandit because I don't know if he's approaching to attack him or try to cuddle and groom him.
I ordered a Feliway Multicat Diffuser on Amazon today. Has anyone used this with any success with their cats? I'm scared to leave them alone in the house together now, so I've been shutting Orpheus in the bedroom when no one is home. I feel really bad doing this, and I'd like to get things back to normal with them as quickly as possible.
Ever since then, things have been very tense between the cats. We had to separate them for long stretches over the weekend. They take their meals together just fine, no hissing or posturing or bad body language, but outside of meals or treats Bandit hisses at Orpheus if he comes near him most (but not all) the time. Sometimes Orpheus responds to Bandit's hissing as he always has, by ignoring it and being his normal sweet self, but he's also at times starting growling an yowling at Bandit and escalating the aggression (and he's never behaved this way before). Last night, they curled up and slept together again like nothing was wrong. Today, Bandit's hissing at Orpheus again. I'm very confused at this turn of events and I have no idea what caused it. I also don't know what caused Orpheus to randomly act so aggressive towards Bandit, when he's not been the least bit aggressive
the entire time he's been with us. I've been freaking out every time I see Orpheus approach Bandit because I don't know if he's approaching to attack him or try to cuddle and groom him.
I ordered a Feliway Multicat Diffuser on Amazon today. Has anyone used this with any success with their cats? I'm scared to leave them alone in the house together now, so I've been shutting Orpheus in the bedroom when no one is home. I feel really bad doing this, and I'd like to get things back to normal with them as quickly as possible.